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Is there any hope?

  • 20-11-2014 12:55am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    Myself and my gf seem to be heading towards a breakup, we've been together for roughly six years and we absolutely love each other to bits...still do. Everything is fantastic in our relationship except the physical side has gone completely in the last year...I want it but she has no appetite for it.

    I thought she just might not find me attractive anymore...that happens in relationships I get it...but she says that's not the problem at all. She says she doesn't want to lose me but understands that it's selfish to keep me in a relationship with no physical side. But I don't want to walk away from the girl I love. Is there anything we could do to try to rekindle things...for the first four and a bit years everything was brilliant, physically and emotionally.

    Thanks everyone


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  • #2
    Matteroffact
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 457 ✭✭Matteroffact


    Could she get help to find out why she has lost her libido. Does the fact that she might lose you not make any difference to her ? Can you have a chat with her about what would fix this? I don't know where you go with a problem like this but I am sure someone else here will know.


  • #3
    Buona Fortuna
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,507 ✭✭✭Buona Fortuna


    Throughout a relationship people go off sex.

    A trip to the GP could help. If nothing else it would be good to rule out certain things.

    Also try this book - it was recommended to us by a GP in UK.
    http://www.amazon.co.uk/Becoming-Orgasmic-sexual-personal-programme/dp/0749929138/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1416473761&sr=8-1&keywords=being+orgasmic

    (You can have a peek at some of the sections on line for free)

    Good Luck OP;)


  • #4
    danslevent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭danslevent


    Apparently the pill can play a big part in lessening sex drive.


  • #5
    afterglow
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 461 ✭✭afterglow


    Hi OP

    I was on the pill for nearly 6 years, came off a few months ago, got coil fitted in july and i can honestly say, we've never looked back!!!! ;)
    I have the name of a fabulous therapist but know we're not aloud do pm's so don't know how i could get it to you?
    Trip to the GP would be good, or the coomb, they are fabulous there also
    Hope you can figure out what's wrong
    Best of luck

    :)


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