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should i tell her

  • 21-10-2014 9:37pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I met someone on an internet dating site.he wants to meet. I have medical issues. cannot hold down job, cannot walk very far. she like walks and activity that take lots of energy. so should i say that i cannot do these things before meeting.

    I manage to hide it from people i know and do not want sympathy. People might see me in the garden today but won't see me in bed tomorrow. i do not want to be rejected cos of illness

    ps cool captchas


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  • #2
    Tokyo
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    Hi OP,

    Yeah, you probably should mention of the physical aspects at least - they are part of who you are. You don't have to make a big deal of it, but I think that saying something along the lines of 'by the way, you should probably know that I have a medical condition that doesn't allow me to walk too far" is only fair. I appreciate that you don't want to be rejected because of illness, but if that is going to be a problem for her then it's better to find out sooner rather than later.


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