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Advice about a Girl?

  • 09-08-2014 12:22pm
    #1
    Benjamin Bob
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭


    Hey guys, I have a problem that I would really like your advice on. There is this girl that I met through Irish college who is absolutely stunning. I am going into 6th year and so is she. I've fancied her from the first day I saw her and I thought surely she is out of my league. Needless to say I was totally flattered when I noticed she fancied me too. She used to gaze at me across the room for hours on end if she could, and when I would glimpse back, she would quickly pretend to be looking elsewhere. The physical signs were there; her body was always turned in my direction such as her toes. Every chance to get a glimpse at me she would take it. She would never come to class without make-up and would take every chance to do herself up at the locker. She laughed at every joke I made, no matter how stupid they were. And I loved it. Her friends told them she fancied me as well. Another thing I noticed was that she was very shy whenever I tried to make conversation with her, smiling and only giving short replies while gazing at me (despite the fact that she was more talkative with her friends and boys she did not fancy).
    The problem arises with asking her out. I had planned to ask her out but then she left Irish college a week early for some reason. A relationship could have worked out beyond Irish college because we live close enough to each other in Co. Kildare. Irish college has finished now and I really thought she was the one for me.
    Does any one have any advice for me that would help me with her??? I really want something to happen with us. :/


Comments

  • #2
    Stavro Mueller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,673 ✭✭✭Stavro Mueller


    Is she on Facebook? You could send her a message or a friend request on that?


  • #3
    Benjamin Bob
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭Benjamin Bob


    Stavro Mueller wrote: »
    Is she on Facebook? You could send her a message or a friend request on that?

    Yeah I've been friends with her on FB for a while now. I've messaged her twice on it but, like in reality, it is hard to make conversation with her I presume it is because she is shy. Weird really; when girls fancied me before it would be easier to make conversation with them.


  • #4
    Lou.m
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,532 ✭✭✭Lou.m


    Benjamin Bob wrote: »
    Yeah I've been friends with her on FB for a while now. I've messaged her twice on it but, like in reality, it is hard to make conversation with her I presume it is because she is shy. Weird really; when girls fancied me before it would be easier to make conversation with them.

    If you are sure she likes you maybe get to know her in a group of you where she feels more confident? If she is chatty with others when her nerves die down you can get to know her?

    Or just ask her out and try and make her feel comfortable. Maybe for a coffee or something.

    You could even ask if people are up for an 'Irish college reunion' maybe once and a while? You could ask a group out and get chatting to her a bit.


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