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Kids Playing out till 11:30pm

  • 07-07-2014 12:13am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭


    Ok I know the kids are now on there Summer Holidays but I think playing out till 11:30 is just a joke.
    I'll be honest I don't have to get up for work in the morning hense me posting at this time but I know all my neighbours are up early to be in work. My other neighbour and myself have toddlers that are in bed early enough. Not that I expect the kid to stop playing that early, its not their fault I have a child. But come 11:30pm shouting, screaming and kicking a ball against a steel ESB is just ignorant and poor parenting. Why can't people respect the people around them. I am almost praying for a wet Summer.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,622 ✭✭✭Ruu


    Go and join them for a kick around!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    If you drive around in a white van and get people to share a warning on facebook about a larry murphy sighting in the area they might not be out as much.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Irresponsible parenting is what it is.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Jake Rugby Walrus666


    What was the situation at 11.40pm ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,750 ✭✭✭fleet_admiral


    Join them for a game of nick nacks. Kids dont play it enough nowadays


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭A Greedy Algorithm


    Kids these days. Having fun on their summer holidays. Something has to be done about this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭Simi




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    Oh dear, you're that guy in the neighbourhood who whinges, bet you're the favourite with the kids.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 893 ✭✭✭PLL


    Thank you for this OP!! I am so with you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 646 ✭✭✭cactuspaw


    ok, my neighbours kids are still up. running round the house, screaming, shouting, up and down the stairs (my room is next to what must be theirs, so i can hear every move). I cant sleep, these kids have been out for ages....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭peewee_44


    I wouldn't mind if they were playing out all day (well I would lol) but there was nothing till 9:00pm then noise, I know I sound like a grump but Im not I know kids should be playing out and I agree kids don't play out nearly enough now but I think there is a time you have to start thinking of the people around you. Even if it was only sat night and you know 99% of people had the next day off


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    Is it every night or what? If it's only a once-off then I don't see what the problem is tbh...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,218 ✭✭✭Lucifer MorningStar


    Quit being a MR Wilson OP


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭peewee_44


    No if it was once I would just grin and bare it but this is every night even before they finished for the summer. I know I sound like it but I'm not an utter grump I was a kid playing out at summer once and I don't even mind or care about them playing out till 11:30 just don't kick a ball up against a steal door and stop screaming and yelling what happened to a good old game of Jacks lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭peewee_44


    Who is Mr Wilson?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,928 ✭✭✭Hotfail.com


    peewee_44 wrote: »
    No if it was once I would just grin and bare it but this is every night even before they finished for the summer. I know I sound like it but I'm not an utter grump I was a kid playing out at summer once and I don't even mind or care about them playing out till 11:30 just don't kick a ball up against a steal door and stop screaming and yelling what happened to a good old game of Jacks lol

    If you can't beat 'em join 'em.


    Personally, I would beat them.


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    peewee_44 wrote: »
    Ok I know the kids are now on there Summer Holidays but I think playing out till 11:30 is just a joke. I am almost praying for a wet Summer.

    Oh no! Here comes grumpy old Mister PeeWee out with the scissors to puncture the kids plastic football!

    I used to live on a cul-de-sac where some of the most mannerly, helpful, well behaved and courteous kids you could ever hope to meet were bullied and terrorised by one old witch who'd call the guards if she so much as heard a tennis ball bounce on the road outside her house. Meanwhile her own grandkids were some of the most unruly poisonous brats you could ever see. People even moved house because of them.

    OP, I beg you! Don't become that old witch! The rest of the neighbours still laugh openly about her death.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,780 ✭✭✭jamo2oo9


    11:30pm? Nothing wrong with that really. Let the kids have the fun. We all played outside till late during the summer holidays


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,238 ✭✭✭✭Diabhal Beag


    peewee_44 wrote: »
    Who is Mr Wilson?

    Like a more evil Ian Huntley


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭peewee_44


    I don't mind them playing out till 11:30 as long as they keep the noise down and understand there are people around them that have early mornings and kiddies trying to sleep. I have seen them out till 11:30 on there scooters bikes etc and that doesn't bother me, not that I will ever let my child out that late but they are not the only ones in the estate. If they didn't make too much noise I wouldn't care if they were up all night.....

    Ah to hell with it I will just change my name to victor Meldrew lol


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 490 ✭✭peewee_44


    Like a more evil Ian Huntley

    Oh no they might make me grumpy but I would never hurt them nor would I stand back and see them hurt I would however pucture their ball


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,912 ✭✭✭SeantheMan


    So they're out playing football and enjoying their Summer holidays ?
    They're not drinking, vandalising or taking drugs or doing anything anti-social ....yet you still complain.

    I was one of them kids, out till 11 or 12 on my Summer holidays playing football. Some of the best years of my life they were,fond memories.
    I would rather see them out playing than stuck inside on a computer.

    You unfortunately OP are what we referred to as a 'vigi'...although you haven't done anything to warrant that title yet.

    You could always go out and ask politely, tell them you have a kid in bed and could they move it down the road please. That you don't mind them playing during the day...tell them to go mad for it during the day, you don't care, but once it goes past 10.30 if they could take it elsewhere.

    They might be more understanding than what you'd believe.

    They don't know they're annoying everyone if people don't speak up, and a person screaming out a window is MUCH less effective than an adult coming out in the pyjamas and asking politely to keep it down.

    Speaking from experience as I was one of those teenagers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,459 ✭✭✭LizzieJones


    peewee_44 wrote: »
    Who is Mr Wilson?

    He is from Dennis the Menace.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,347 ✭✭✭No Pants


    Like a more evil Ian Huntley
    A most misunderstood man. He just really hated Manchester United.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,532 ✭✭✭Lou.m


    peewee_44 wrote: »
    Ok I know the kids are now on there Summer Holidays but I think playing out till 11:30 is just a joke.
    I'll be honest I don't have to get up for work in the morning hense me posting at this time but I know all my neighbours are up early to be in work. My other neighbour and myself have toddlers that are in bed early enough. Not that I expect the kid to stop playing that early, its not their fault I have a child. But come 11:30pm shouting, screaming and kicking a ball against a steel ESB is just ignorant and poor parenting. Why can't people respect the people around them. I am almost praying for a wet Summer.

    I stay up way past my bed time too :p and there's no ones cans stop me!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 109 ✭✭kikidelvin


    Is it not the law that between the hours of 23.00 and 07.00.people should keep noise down and not disturb the peace.Parents should be a bit more responsible and consider other people and not just themselves and their kids.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    11.30 is too late. I would be more concerned about my child's safety out at that hour. Also, have many of these parents gone to bed and left their kids to their own devices?.

    Not right in my opinion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Yep, rather than being outside with their friends getting exercise and fresh air, they should be indoors glued to the TV, x-box or facebook. That way we'd have nothing to complain about in AH..... :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,179 ✭✭✭✭fr336




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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,954 ✭✭✭Tail Docker


    What was the situation at 11.40pm ?

    13-10 and next goal wins.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,218 ✭✭✭Lucifer MorningStar


    He is from Dennis the Menace.


    Walter Matthau looked an awful lot like Saddum Hussein :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,857 ✭✭✭professore


    I wish the miserable old retired **** next door wouldn't get up at 6:30 AM every Saturday morning and start mowing the lawn or talking loudly to his dog when we're still asleep after a hard week working. Why the **** doesn't he do it during the week?

    EDIT: maybe you're him OP?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,228 ✭✭✭mrsbyrne


    11.30 is ridiculous. Stupid inconsiderate parents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,799 ✭✭✭✭Akrasia


    In summer, the kids should only have to come inside when you can't tell if that slightly darker patch is a weed or your jumpers for goalposts.

    That said, I lived in the countryside without the benefit of communal street lighting, so we had to go inside when it got dark.

    I suggest that you climb the lamposts and unscrew the light bulbs

    Let nature take it's course :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭ivytwine


    How old are they OP? Under 10s shouldn't be up that late, summer holidays or not!

    Neighbours kids are same, they're prob 8 and 5 and up every night playing until all hours. I think it is a bit irresponsible to be honest, I wouldn't have been allowed stay out that late. They keep losing their ball in our yard and torment us with the doorbell at all hours!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,543 ✭✭✭Conmaicne Mara


    Herself used to live in an estate where the same craic went on every summer. The local ferals would run amok from noon to nightfall during Summer. Not an awful lot better where we are at the moment in terms of parenting skills as I've seen 10 & 11 year olds hanging around pub doors after 11.30. But, the house we now live in is located out of the village so we can actually come home and not have others intruding on our life.

    It is bad parenting and it is inconsiderate to other people, one of many symptoms of a dysfunctional society.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,282 ✭✭✭✭RobbingBandit


    Tell them you have a free PS4 for them in your shed,lock the little bastards in for a few hours instead, you can call it PeeWee's Playhouse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,436 ✭✭✭c_man


    You should introduce the kids to weed OP. They'll have no energy to stay out until that late hour.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    its the same here to be honest children as young as 3 and 4 and as old as 12 or more, out until 11pm or later unsupervised, parents on fb reposting those bloody annoying images on how "their children are their life" or "what a great parent they are", to care where their children are or what they are doing,

    these same parents will be the ones asking in a few years "where did it all go wrong"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,982 ✭✭✭Caliden


    Make loads of noise getting up at 7am so you're loud enough to wake them up.

    The kids' parent either have to be on holidays themselves or have no reason to be up early


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    1130 is too late for young kids to be out even in summer. Presumably they're teenagers..

    That said, you must have supersonic hearing if the sound of kids playing outside bothers you that much.

    AH is becoming a bit like that Points of View programme when i was a kid: a platform for Outraged Of Tumbridge Wells weirdos and the splenetic nonsense they can't vent elsewhere


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭folan


    anncoates wrote: »
    1130 is too late for young kids to be out even in summer.

    depends on what time they got up at?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,210 ✭✭✭nelly17


    peewee_44 wrote: »
    I don't mind them playing out till 11:30 as long as they keep the noise down and understand there are people around them that have early mornings and kiddies trying to sleep. I have seen them out till 11:30 on there scooters bikes etc and that doesn't bother me, not that I will ever let my child out that late but they are not the only ones in the estate. If they didn't make too much noise I wouldn't care if they were up all night.....

    Ah to hell with it I will just change my name to victor Meldrew lol

    There Kids they dont understand that, have you tried having a word with the parents or would that start some kind of Civil War on the street


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,543 ✭✭✭Conmaicne Mara


    anncoates wrote: »
    1130 is too late for young kids to be out even in summer. Presumably they're teenagers..

    Don't know the age of the OP's neighbours kids, but the ones in the estate I mentioned were mostly 5-10 year olds.

    I reckon a lot were left in bed half the day, that's not good parenting IMO. Have them up early with the parents, then they'll get the use of the day and can go to bed at a reasonable time.

    But, it's not about bed, it's about having them show some respect for the place they live in and the other people who also live there. Have them in off the street at a reasonable hour and leave the evening wind down with a bit of quiet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,210 ✭✭✭nelly17


    Don't know the age of the OP's neighbours kids, but the ones in the estate I mentioned were mostly 5-10 year olds.

    I reckon a lot were left in bed half the day, that's not good parenting IMO. Have them up early with the parents, then they'll get the use of the day and can go to bed at a reasonable time.

    But, it's not about bed, it's about having them show some respect for the place they live in and the other people who also live there. Have them in off the street at a reasonable hour and leave the evening wind down with a bit of quiet.

    it suits the Parents on my road too leave the kids in bed half the morning so they can stay in bed half the morning - hence the kids are out till all hours


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭hoodwinked


    anncoates wrote: »

    That said, you must have supersonic hearing if the sound of kids playing outside bothers you that much.


    not if you live in one of the new estates where they have communal gardens or a ground floor apartment, so the kids outside could be sitting literally on your bedroom window sill,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,347 ✭✭✭No Pants


    Caliden wrote: »
    The kids' parent either have to be on holidays themselves or have no reason to be up early
    Sounds like they might be on an extended holiday from working for a living.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,210 ✭✭✭nelly17


    No Pants wrote: »
    Sounds like they might be on an extended holiday from working for a living.

    Yep thats the way it is on my road


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,347 ✭✭✭No Pants


    nelly17 wrote: »
    Yep thats the way it is on my road
    If I was the OP, I think my lawn would need cutting at 07:01 on a Monday morning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    I nearly had a mental breakdown one summer from the neighbours' kids doing this. They were kicked out the door from 10am to 10pm every day. Never brought anywhere, no activities organised, just outside on the road all summer. Bored and destructive. It was all fights and screaming and beating the head off each other all day long and breaking everything that wasn't solid steel. I would actually stay in work late to avoid going home, I have no front garden and it felt like they were screaming 2 feet away from me. 4 or 5 hours of that in the evening is actually really stressful. Not that the parents gave a sh*te.


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