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Meet the Mormons

  • 26-06-2014 10:17pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,926 ✭✭✭


    Is anyone here watching this on C4+1? They remind me of the Movementarians


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,042 ✭✭✭SouthernBelle


    I felt sorry for Josh, aka Elder Fielding. He was so homesick. It was almost claustrophobic watching it knowing your "companion" had to be by your side 24/7 except when using the bathroom! Josh didn't look very comfortable with his (very creepy IMO) companion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 222 ✭✭GirlatdRockShow


    I felt sorry for Josh, aka Elder Fielding. He was so homesick. It was almost claustrophobic watching it knowing your "companion" had to be by your side 24/7 except when using the bathroom! Josh didn't look very comfortable with his (very creepy IMO) companion.

    +1
    He was still so young and obviously close to his family and o prevent him from talking to them for two whole years, so tough!
    Can't say it improved my opinion on the religion at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    There's huge pressure on women to marry a RM - returned missionary. And there's huge pressure on men to go on a mission. And huge pressure on everyone to marry as only those married with children reach the highest levels of the celestial kingdom. Not a healthy environment at all. I guess there's a reason why Utah has very high rates of porn and antidepressant usage.


  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,536 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    Seriously creepy,

    The people on mission aren't allowed to be on their own when alseep or eating etc, they can't be along incase they stray..

    Thats seriously creepy and controlling!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,926 ✭✭✭Grab All Association


    10% of your income for the rest of your life. £29 a month for the missions and you have to contribute 6k towards it. Jesus in America?? :o and I thought he was just a fictional character from a book.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    Parents often save for their sons to go on a mission from the time they're born. They'll pay for it over college because they consider it so important.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 93 ✭✭RoiSoleil


    lazygal wrote: »
    Parents often save for their sons to go on a mission from the time they're born. They'll pay for it over college because they consider it so important.

    This always makes me sad when parents choose religious mumbo jumbo over real education.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,538 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Mormonism - the religion with one letter too many in its name.

    In Cavan there was a great fire / Judge McCarthy was sent to inquire / It would be a shame / If the nuns were to blame / So it had to be caused by a wire.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,038 ✭✭✭✭PopePalpatine


    TBH, I switched off after 10 minutes and watched Mock the Week instead. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    +1
    He was still so young and obviously close to his family and o prevent him from talking to them for two whole years, so tough!
    Can't say it improved my opinion on the religion at all.

    This is a Channel 4 documentary we're talking about here! Before we get carried away - I doubt anyone's opinion of any Church would be improved following a Ch4 documentary.

    The missionaries are all around for which they volunteer & for which they can un-volunteer any time they want. They live their short mission life in the public not hidden away in some Church. Go ask them what a mission is like - don't base your views of any Church on a Ch4 Doc unless you want to be a committed atheist.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    TBH, I switched off after 10 minutes and watched Mock the Week instead. :pac:

    TBH if you want to get a view on what a Mormon mission is really like youmight as well watch Mock the Week than a Channel 4 documentary.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Didn't see documentary. Lots of experience with the Mormon church and Mormons.

    It's a religion for ****. If you are a good Mormon you become a god eventually. Evolution is a pernicious lie by the infidels. Rational thought is distrusted as a threat to their faith.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    lazygal wrote: »
    There's huge pressure on women to marry a RM - returned missionary. And there's huge pressure on men to go on a mission. And huge pressure on everyone to marry as only those married with children reach the highest levels of the celestial kingdom. Not a healthy environment at all. I guess there's a reason why Utah has very high rates of porn and antidepressant usage.

    Sorry lazygal - you might be living up to your name here because just about none of your statements are true. Women & Men in the Church can marry whomever they want. If you've seen pressure then its most likely its familial pressure, but anyone in life in general can get pressure from their family with who they chose to marry. Certainly the Church leaders have no opinion & exert no influence on who anyone chooses to marry - that's very much a personal decision.

    I have seen the myths about Utah rates of porn been high but that has been until recently very hard to measure. With improved search engine monitoring methods more up to date studies in the US have Utah (which has a high percent of Mormons) coming towards the bottom of porn rates. And anti-depressants? I don't know where you get that, Mormons are like everyone else, no one is immune from depression but again Utah would come in the bottom half of suicide rates so I can't see where you're reporting is coming from.

    You could get a job as a Channel 4 documentary maker - trying to find a sensationalist angle where no such one exists.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Didn't see documentary. Lots of experience with the Mormon church and Mormons.

    It's a religion for ****. If you are a good Mormon you become a god eventually. Evolution is a pernicious lie by the infidels. Rational thought is distrusted as a threat to their faith.

    Well you're entitled to your opinion, but with that type of argumentation, I wouldn't put yourself up as a great example of a rational thinker!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,926 ✭✭✭Grab All Association


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    Sorry lazygal - you might be living up to your name here because just about none of your statements are true. Women & Men in the Church can marry whomever they want. If you've seen pressure then its most likely its familial pressure, but anyone in life in general can get pressure from their family with who they chose to marry. Certainly the Church leaders have no opinion & exert no influence on who anyone chooses to marry - that's very much a personal decision.

    I have seen the myths about Utah rates of porn been high but that has been until recently very hard to measure. With improved search engine monitoring methods more up to date studies in the US have Utah (which has a high percent of Mormons) coming towards the bottom of porn rates. And anti-depressants? I don't know where you get that, Mormons are like everyone else, no one is immune from depression but again Utah would come in the bottom half of suicide rates so I can't see where you're reporting is coming from.

    You could get a job as a Channel 4 documentary maker - trying to find a sensationalist angle where no such one exists.

    Elder Skobie?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    Sorry lazygal - you might be living up to your name here because just about none of your statements are true. Women & Men in the Church can marry whomever they want. If you've seen pressure then its most likely its familial pressure, but anyone in life in general can get pressure from their family with who they chose to marry. Certainly the Church leaders have no opinion & exert no influence on who anyone chooses to marry - that's very much a personal decision.

    I have seen the myths about Utah rates of porn been high but that has been until recently very hard to measure. With improved search engine monitoring methods more up to date studies in the US have Utah (which has a high percent of Mormons) coming towards the bottom of porn rates. And anti-depressants? I don't know where you get that, Mormons are like everyone else, no one is immune from depression but again Utah would come in the bottom half of suicide rates so I can't see where you're reporting is coming from.

    You could get a job as a Channel 4 documentary maker - trying to find a sensationalist angle where no such one exists.

    You sound like someone who's happy to defend the church. Are you Mormon? With a temple recommend?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    Well you're entitled to your opinion, but with that type of argumentation, I wouldn't put yourself up as a great example of a rational thinker!
    Do you think that your spiritual evolution can lead to your own godhood, when you have your own planet?
    Do you think that differences between species is a result of evolution? Do you think that that concept of evolution is a deliberate lie that is some form of attack on faith?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Also, do you think that black people are black because they carry the mark of Cain? This is still the official position of the Church of LDS: They refused to take back that statement despite being specifically asked to more than once.

    Why is it a good idea to send 18 year old boys off to distant countries and ban them from seeing their family and friends more than two days a year? Otherwise contact being one email a week? Does this not contradict the idea that the church is based on the family?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,232 ✭✭✭Brian Shanahan


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    TBH if you want to get a view on what a Mormon mission is really like youmight as well watch Mock the Week than a Channel 4 documentary.

    Or better yet watch either the South Park episodes on mormons, or even buy a ticket for The Book of Mormon.

    I've met a few over the years, and even took a free copy of their "holy" book. Even given that it was started by a con-artist as a scam, mormonism is bat guano insane.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,538 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    The missionaries are all around for which they volunteer & for which they can un-volunteer any time they want.

    Do they enter into this entirely freely, or is the expectation of their community and family weighing down on them?

    If they give up, is that accepted by their family and community or is there spoken or unspoken disapproval?

    In Cavan there was a great fire / Judge McCarthy was sent to inquire / It would be a shame / If the nuns were to blame / So it had to be caused by a wire.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    ninja900 wrote: »
    Do they enter into this entirely freely, or is the expectation of their community and family weighing down on them?

    If they give up, is that accepted by their family and community or is there spoken or unspoken disapproval?

    Look I'm a convert to the Church. This control thing which is being peddled here is so much the polar opposite of everything this Church is & everything this Church stands for that ihese threads would be funny if only people who know nothing about the Church didn't really believe them. Freedom to choose is probably the biggest part of not only the faith but the message the missionaries share.

    Listen to any of the missionary discussions which are designed to briefly introduce our faith & it will end with an invitation to the person investigating the Church to go & find for themselves if what they say is true.

    All the teaching is done by young men & women who are like all young men & women - zero skills in mind control. If we were in to any form of control surely we'd put our senior church members in each community out to teach the gospel.

    All missionaries volunteer, all youth are encouraged to prepare to serve missions when it comes to that time between secondary school & college or seeking full-time work. All can come & leave if they want. However, you don't volunteer to serve a mission & then get abandoned on your area of service just because the Church can't be seen to exercise any control on its missionaries - which seems to be the level of control acceptable to this threads posters. There are support structures, like a companion, but you encourage him, just as much as he encourages you. Sometimes a missionary goes out & its not for him - he's encouraged, supported but then its his decision to go home - he goes home. If he were strapped to his companion until his 2 years are up - which seems to be the level of thinking on this thread - then don't you think the libel actions by disgruntled ex-missionaries would be like a torrential downpour. There are no libel actions. Sorry, nothing sensational there - Ch 4 looked to be totally frustrated in the non-story its sensationalist agenda was utterly failing to expose - because its not there!

    If it was there - missionaries live in amongst the public, don't you think we'd have heard about it - but if Ch 4 of all stations can be given total access to missionaries & that's all they come up with - sorry, conspiracy theories allowing - its a total non-story. At the end of the day people are free to believe what they want, I'm entitled as a Church member to give my side & answer some of the myths here. At the end of the day, the physical evidence out on the street with missionaries just doesn't back up what the consensus is saying here.

    If you're really concerned that a young man would chose to give up 2 years to dedicate himself to something that he believes in, that thousands throughout the world benefit from instead of spending those 2 years partying his life away following what his mates do then you're concern for youth may need some re-engineering.

    I was a convert that was curious enough 25 years ago to answer the door to missionaries - & I went on to serve a 2 year mission in England which was one of the most enjoyable & uplifting experiences of my life. No one forced me to do anything, certainly no family pressure -they're not in this Church. However, I wanted to serve the 2 years & I was glad at times I had a companion as a shoulder to lean on. If you're really concerned that a young man would chose to give up 2 years to dedicate himself to something that he believes in then instead of posting your disparaging remarks against a Church so few of you know anything about go up to one in the street & talk to him or her. You'll find you're not talking to someone who is forced to do anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Or better yet watch either the South Park episodes on mormons, or even buy a ticket for The Book of Mormon.

    I've met a few over the years, and even took a free copy of their "holy" book. Even given that it was started by a con-artist as a scam, mormonism is bat guano insane.

    Sorry Brian. I've only looked into the Church enough to join it & being active in it for the last 25 years so I defer to you're obviously greater knowledge on the subject. How was it founded by a con-artist? And if as you say it was founded by a con-artist as a scam then its some accident that its members are singled out consistently by people not of the Church the World over for their honesty & the Church that a con somehow thought up of 200 years ago is 15 million strong today & has been the fastest growing Church in the world for many generations now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    lazygal wrote: »
    You sound like someone who's happy to defend the church. Are you Mormon? With a temple recommend?

    Yes I am. Yes I have. So? Does that disqualify me from giving an opposing opinion about the Church to those who post on here who don't really know about the Church but want to dismiss it & its members hands down?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,816 ✭✭✭Calibos


    Deferring to the skeptic/atheist due to their greater knowledge of YOUR religion. Well Holy Mary Mother of God, I've heard it all now. :D

    Skobie 69. Heard of the scam cult called Scientology started in the 1950's? John Smiths Mormonism is the 1830 equivelent. Islam is the 650AD equivalent, Christianity is the 50AD equivalent, Judaism is the..................etc


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,232 ✭✭✭Brian Shanahan


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    Sorry Brian. I've only looked into the Church enough to join it & being active in it for the last 25 years so I defer to you're obviously greater knowledge on the subject. How was it founded by a con-artist?

    A) the golden tablets, which appeared then just as magically disappeared, with no independent witnesses.
    B) His various convictions for different fraudulent activities.
    C) Have you read the book of mormon? Because I have, and not a bigger gam on is to be found. Made for good toilet paper though.
    And if as you say it was founded by a con-artist as a scam then its some accident that its members are singled out consistently by people not of the Church the World over for their honesty & the Church that a con somehow thought up of 200 years ago is 15 million strong today & has been the fastest growing Church in the world for many generations now.

    John Rabe a convinced and high-level Nazi was instrumental in saving over 200,000 Chinese people after the Japanese sacking of Nanking during the Sino-Japanese war of 1937-1945. That does not make Nazism any less of a monstrous ideology, it just signifies that John Rabe was a good man taken in by an evil crowd. Oskar Schindler (the hero of the eponymous book and film), was too a convinced and active Nazi until he realised the monstrosity of the regime. There were literally millions of good people who worked within the Nazi system in Germany and ethnic German Europe, that doesn't make Nazism itself good. The same holds for mormonism, just because good people believe in it doesn't make it any less of a fraud.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Calibos wrote: »
    Deferring to the skeptic/atheist due to their greater knowledge of YOUR religion. Well Holy Mary Mother of God, I've heard it all now. :D

    Skobie 69. Heard of the scam cult called Scientology started in the 1950's? John Smiths Mormonism is the 1830 equivelent. Islam is the 650AD equivalent, Christianity is the 50AD equivalent, Judaism is the..................etc

    Pointless explaining some things. Scientology & Mormonism have nothing in common. Go back look at my post above & you'll see why. If you want to attack Scientology then go to the Scientology post. In fact Scientology belief system is closer to Atheism. So you might as well say as Scientology is a cult then Atheism is also a cult! Your point is that senseless. Where does the muck throwing stop & a rationale for your views start?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    A) the golden tablets, which appeared then just as magically disappeared, with no independent witnesses.
    B) His various convictions for ...
    C) Have you read the book of mormon? Because I have, and not a bigger gam on is to be found. Made for good toilet paper though.

    A) There were many witnesses - 11 of whom gave sworn testimony to seeing the plates. Many of these died in the faith but some did not. Even though they were not alligned to the Church at their death none of them ever denied their testimony of seeing the plates.

    Your issue is with regard to lack or perceived lack of physical evidences for Church the Book Of Mormon etc. which one can incorporate the same kind of question with regards to the bible or of any faith based organisation for that matter. Its all part of a wider question of whether there is a God or not but certainly if there is one then he puts more importance in genuine seekers of understanding of our spiritual nature, putting more importance in exercising our faith, alongside an intellectual investigation into Gods teachings rather than purely basing our understanding on intellectual argument & counter argument & what we construe are or are not physical evidences of what God teaches.

    B) The tainting of Joseph Smith as a "con-artist" is an update on early 1800's opponents of Mormonism dismissing Joseph Smith as a "juggler," or "conjurer" which was a common 19th century method of dismissing his prophetic claims via ad hominem (attack the man & not his message). Modern-day claims about him being found to be a "con man" are simply the same attack with updated language, usually bolstered by a misunderstanding or misrepresentation of Joseph's 1826 court hearing on Joseph Smiths claims on divine revelation or special abilities. No official court record survives from this hearing with many doubting that there was a trial at all. There was a hearing but it seems to be from county records a pretrial hearing & pretrial hearings cannot deliver guilty verdicts. However Joseph Smith was not given jail time or the court did not assess a fine against Joseph. "There were bills made out by Judge Neely and Constable DeZeng, but these were for costs. Those bills were directed to the County for payment of witnesses, etc., not to Joseph". This isn't consistent with any conviction.

    Even if one rejects Joseph's claims to divine revelation or special abilities, his conduct still does not match that of a "con man":
    - Con men seek out their marks; Joseph was approached for his help by those who had heard about him
    - Con men travel from place to place, staying one step ahead of the law while defrauding their marks; Joseph was known locally and remained in his local area.

    Finally, even if Joseph Smith was convicted for his claim to divine revelation or special abilities & you feel this is a reason to dismiss all Mormonism I seem to remember Jesus Christ himself being convicted of the same thing & condemned to death for it. On that basis are you also dismissing all of Christianity as false for being founded by a convicted "Con Man"?
    John Rabe a convinced and high-level Nazi was instrumental in saving over 200,000 Chinese people after the Japanese sacking of Nanking during the Sino-Japanese war of 1937-1945. That does not make Nazism any less of a monstrous ideology, it just signifies that John Rabe was a good man taken in by an evil crowd. Oskar Schindler (the hero of the eponymous book and film), was too a convinced and active Nazi until he realised the monstrosity of the regime. There were literally millions of good people who worked within the Nazi system in Germany and ethnic German Europe, that doesn't make Nazism itself good. The same holds for mormonism, just because good people believe in it doesn't make it any less of a fraud.

    Your Nazism analogy although sensationalist is irrelevant to the point you're trying to make. Yes there were good people caught up in Nazism but Nazism came crashing down & failed dramatically as an ideology because it was inherently evil. Mormonism has thrived since its inception almost 200 years ago & continues to be the fastest growing church in the World.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    If Jesus Christ or Jesus of Nazareth existed at all I'd lump him into the same category as Joseph Smith, that of charismatic cult leader with nothing to back up their fanciful fairy tales.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Also, do you think that black people are black because they carry the mark of Cain? This is still the official position of the Church of LDS: They refused to take back that statement despite being specifically asked to more than once.

    Why is it a good idea to send 18 year old boys off to distant countries and ban them from seeing their family and friends more than two days a year? Otherwise contact being one email a week? Does this not contradict the idea that the church is based on the family?

    Far from being a current official position of the Church, the Church has never referred to black people as "carrying the mark of Cain". The idea that the “mark of Cain” and the "curse of Ham" was a black skin is something that was used by many Protestants as a way to morally and biblically justify slavery. This idea did not originate with Latter-day Saints (Mormons). Early members of the Mormon Church were, for the most part though, converts from Protestant sects. It is understandable that they naturally brought this culturally-conditioned belief in the "curse of Ham" with them into Mormonism. However Joseph Smith himself ordained African-American men to the priesthood.

    As regards Missions, I've served one myself for the Church & I thoroughly enjoyed it so see my post above.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,232 ✭✭✭Brian Shanahan


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    A) There were many witnesses - 11 of whom gave sworn testimony to seeing the plates. Many of these died in the faith but some did not. Even though they were not alligned to the Church at their death none of them ever denied their testimony of seeing the plates.

    There are many witnesses to the "miracle" at Fatima, none of them were independent. Same goes for the eleven "witnesses" to the golden tablets. Strange how he only ever showed them to his closest confidants isn't it?
    Your issue is with regard to lack or perceived lack of physical evidences for Church the Book Of Mormon etc.

    You're right my issue is with a book which has no evidence for its veracity, and a hell of a lot of evidence that it is a made up pile of pewk (come on, you believe a book which magically transports the "missing" tribes of Israel across 4,000 miles of water, and says that the majority of humanity are doomed to hell simply because of the colour of their skin). Nothing you have actually written goes to disproving my theory that the book of mormon is a fraud.
    B) The tainting of Joseph Smith as a "con-artist" is an update on early 1800's opponents of Mormonism dismissing Joseph Smith as a "juggler," or "conjurer" which was a common 19th century method of dismissing his prophetic claims via ad hominem (attack the man & not his message). Modern-day claims about him being found to be a "con man" are simply the same attack with updated language, usually bolstered by a misunderstanding or misrepresentation of Joseph's 1826 court hearing on Joseph Smiths claims on divine revelation or special abilities. No official court record survives from this hearing with many doubting that there was a trial at all. There was a hearing but it seems to be from county records a pretrial hearing & pretrial hearings cannot deliver guilty verdicts. However Joseph Smith was not given jail time or the court did not assess a fine against Joseph. "There were bills made out by Judge Neely and Constable DeZeng, but these were for costs. Those bills were directed to the County for payment of witnesses, etc., not to Joseph". This isn't consistent with any conviction.

    He was conviceted twice for fraudulent activities by properly empannelled juries according to the then laws of the US, one for preaching false religion for personal gain, the other for practising illegal banking in order to defraud others. He also skipped out on a third fraud charge, also for illegal banking. If that is not sufficient evidence to call him a con-man, then we cannot ascribe any characteristic to anyone.

    I'm sorry but your illogical, irrational and untrue religion was set up by a fraudster, in order to con others out of their money and to gain power over those same people. I fell sorry that a) you cannot accept the evidence that i) the religion is false (all religions are by the way), ii) your religious leader was a con man, and iii) the holy book you worship is an obvious tissue of lies written in order to fool the gullible; and b) you are so set in defending the indefensible.

    To set this out as final: Mormonism is a lie.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 998 ✭✭✭dharma200


    An multinational multi bmillion dollar organisation that spends it's time, not saving those living on earth who need saving but documenting millions of the already departed on a massive database back to 19canteen so they can all go live in a parallel world with their deceased relatives......

    Ok....

    Think I'll pass on that one... Scary organisation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,538 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    Look I'm a convert to the Church. This control thing which is being peddled here is so much the polar opposite of everything this Church is & everything this Church stands for that ihese threads would be funny if only people who know nothing about the Church didn't really believe them. Freedom to choose is probably the biggest part of not only the faith but the message the missionaries share.

    I'm sure I'd be saying the same thing about the roman catholic church, were I a convert to the roman catholic church. I would have felt and seen no coercion, and it would have been entirely my choice.

    I wasn't a convert though, I was brought up in an RC family in a near-monocultural RC society, where dissenting views were not tolerated.

    All the teaching is done by young men & women who are like all young men & women - zero skills in mind control. If we were in to any form of control surely we'd put our senior church members in each community out to teach the gospel.

    Actually no. You'd put in peers, aspirational leadership figures of the same sex and good looking members of the opposite sex, a 20 year old is going to be far more influenced by peers than by (non-family) sexagenarians.

    Mind control is a subtle thing, the aim is to exert it without the subject being aware of it. All religions do this. It is applied by family, peers, preachers, and wider society if it is co-religionist.


    All missionaries volunteer, all youth are encouraged to prepare to serve missions when it comes to that time between secondary school & college or seeking full-time work. All can come & leave if they want.

    You've not answered the question I asked though. It's hard for an ex-theist and skeptic like myself to accept that this decision where all the pressure from family, peers and wider society (at least in Utah) is pointing in one direction, can in any way be described as a free choice. There are subtle and not so subtle pressures at play.

    There are support structures, like a companion, but you encourage him, just as much as he encourages you.

    That's one way of looking at it, the other way is that it's exerting peer pressure and a desire not to be seen to be the one who gives in to 'weakness'.

    Sometimes a missionary goes out & its not for him - he's encouraged, supported but then its his decision to go home - he goes home.

    Then what? Is that decision truly accepted or is there spoken or unspoken disapproval? Y'know, the question I asked you in my last post which you very verbosely avoided answering.


    If you're really concerned that a young man would chose to give up 2 years to dedicate himself to something that he believes in, that thousands throughout the world benefit from instead of spending those 2 years partying his life away following what his mates do then you're concern for youth may need some re-engineering.

    I do find it concerning that rational young males would freely choose to do such a thing, I do not believe that this choice is made entirely freely. You do not find young males brought up in a non-mormon society spontaneously deciding to do such a thing.

    I was a convert that was curious enough 25 years ago to answer the door to missionaries - & I went on to serve a 2 year mission in England which was one of the most enjoyable & uplifting experiences of my life. No one forced me to do anything, certainly no family pressure -they're not in this Church.

    That's kinda my whole point.

    If you're really concerned that a young man would chose to give up 2 years to dedicate himself to something that he believes in

    Those who believe in something are perfectly free to do whatever they want. My concern is for those who may not believe in it or have never had the opportunity to question the beliefs they were raised in (and this goes for all religions.)

    In Cavan there was a great fire / Judge McCarthy was sent to inquire / It would be a shame / If the nuns were to blame / So it had to be caused by a wire.



  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 28,536 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cabaal


    Skobie 69 wrote: »
    . In fact Scientology belief system is closer to Atheism.

    Seriously?
    Are you that clueless that you think atheism is a religion?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    There are many witnesses to the "miracle" at Fatima, none of them were independent. Same goes for the eleven "witnesses" to the golden tablets. Strange how he only ever showed them to his closest confidants isn't it?



    You're right my issue is with a book which has no evidence for its veracity, and a hell of a lot of evidence that it is a made up pile of pewk (come on, you believe a book which magically transports the "missing" tribes of Israel across 4,000 miles of water, and says that the majority of humanity are doomed to hell simply because of the colour of their skin). Nothing you have actually written goes to disproving my theory that the book of mormon is a fraud.

    Hi Brian, I realise I'm in the atheist section which just answering the search engine question on the Mormons I hadn't checked before. I don't mean any offence to your own way of thinking or any contention - that was my mistake not checking the section. Certainly if I did I would have answered your question differently understanding that your view of faith is far different to mine or someone of another religion apologies to that. I was merely looking to answer inaccuracies in peoples contention of Mormonism. The Book of Mormon plates were witnessed by several people who died not in the faith, who had no personal interest in promoting Mormonism at all yet never denied their witnesses & testimony as to what they saw. They can be therefore, as witnesses not aligned to the Mormon Church.

    You are otherwise correct in what you say with regards to physical evidences. My belief, is that if there's a God in Heaven (& I understand you do not believe this) but if there were then he has been entirely consistent in his message, from him & those who preach of him, that he puts great importance in having people free to exercise their faith & physichal evidences would take away from the need to exercise faith. Hence the reason the plates were taken up, also if they got into the wrong hands then the plates could have been altered to discredit Joseph Smith, the Book of Mormon & his message. That's why we don't have them, The Bibles original parchments, the stone tablets containing the Ten commandments, the ark of the covenant & so on & so on. You can chose to discredit a religion because of lack of physical evidences but when religions claimed to have physical evidences - the Turin Shroud, moving statues what have you - & don't someone quote me out of context again to say that these are proofs - they are not. But when Churches claimed to have these they have led people to worship the physical evidences themselves rather than any message God wishes to portray - so you can see why a God in Heaven would not bother with physical evidences or prefer to have people exercise their faith to believe in him. We have a spiritual side to us as well as an intellectual side & God wants us to use both - if we chose to want to find out about him, too much proof on the physical side or a desire for too much physical proof means we start to ignore our spiritual side. All I'm saying is that if you condemn Mormonism for lack of Physical evidences then you condemn all Faiths for the same thing - which I understand from your comment above is that you're saying the same thing.

    As I said regarding the charge of Joesph smith being a conman, whether you believe in Faith based organisations or not - Conman has a definition & Joseph Smith does not fulfil any characteristic of a conman. As I said....

    - Con men seek out their marks; Joseph was approached for his help by those who had heard about him
    - Con men travel from place to place, staying one step ahead of the law while defrauding their marks; Joseph was known locally and remained in his local area.

    If you feel that Joseph Smith's claim to divine revelation or special abilities qualifies him as a conman then say also say that you believe that in the same way that you believe that any believer in Jesus Christ can also be dismissed for believing in a Faith being founded by a convicted "Con Man". If that's your contention - & you state clearly that it is - then say it & say why you contend that is why you believe it - but don't single Joseph Smith as being a conman for the same reason you believe anyone practising a faith is a conman or led by one.

    He was conviceted twice for fraudulent activities by properly empannelled juries according to the then laws of the US, one for preaching false religion for personal gain, the other for practising illegal banking in order to defraud others. He also skipped out on a third fraud charge, also for illegal banking. If that is not sufficient evidence to call him a con-man, then we cannot ascribe any characteristic to anyone.

    I'm sorry but your illogical, irrational and untrue religion was set up by a fraudster, in order to con others out of their money and to gain power over those same people. I fell sorry that a) you cannot accept the evidence that i) the religion is false (all religions are by the way), ii) your religious leader was a con man, and iii) the holy book you worship is an obvious tissue of lies written in order to fool the gullible; and b) you are so set in defending the indefensible.

    To set this out as final: Mormonism is a lie.

    I'm sorry you feel that way. he was not convicted of the 1826 trial of which you point out was one of his convictions & I've referred to Historical record to try & point this out as logically as I can. I'm sorry you feel its illogical but that's not my definition of being illogical.


    The banking fraud you refer to is in relation to the Kirtland Banking Society he set up - not to get personal gain but a precursor to many of our modern day credit unions - a non-profit organisation set up to help early converts, moving to escape persecution to the then Church centre in Kirtland Ohio, financially borrow to set up farms, housing etc. The society failed because of the adverse economic circumstances in that part of frontier US at the time (historical record) & also because members moving from persecution had their lands & properties seized by mobs running them out of their lands & lost the ability to sell their old homes to finance their loans (again this is historical record) - that's why it failed. But unlike our modern bankers, Joseph Smith lost everything in the society's failure as well & certainly made no money from it. He was summonsed as one of the trustees of the failed bank but again, was never convicted of any fraud arising out of the failure of the bank.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Cabaal wrote: »
    Seriously?
    Are you that clueless that you think atheism is a religion?

    This brings out of context to a new level. Clueless or not - I certainly did not refer to atheism as a religion. If you're going to jump in with a clueless tag - check what is said first.

    1) You chose to misquote me where I was referring to Scientology - not Atheism.

    2) I didn't even refer to Scientology as a religion - so where I wrote "Scientology belief system" you read "Atheist Religion"????? & I'm the Clueless one???? Really??????

    I'm sure that many atheists are comfortable to say that they believe there is no God - this they say is not proof, as for the same reason you can't prove there is a God you can't prove that there isn't. Therefore they choose to believe that there is no God - this is a belief system. I made no reference to an atheist religion at all.....seriously!!!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 Skobie 69


    Hi Hotblack. I don't know what to say. You asked me a short question on missionaries. I gave you a long answer of my own experience. Sorry if it wasn't enough for you but you asked a specific question & I thought I more than covered it. It is what it is - its my own experience of serving a mission & the lack of peer pressure I encountered - I can't change it because you disagree with me, its an experience I felt might help you understand what its like - that's all. No right or wrong with it I suppose.

    In answer to some of the issues, I'm talking about the Irish Church here. I can't refer to the Church in Utah because I'm Irish - not a Utah man. We do have second & third generations Mormons here in Ireland though & I've had a few friends come home early & have families in the Church & some who decided not to serve at all because it wasn't for them. They're regular members just like me -no difference really in how they are or aren't accepted by either other members or their own member family. I'm sure they'd like them to have served the 2 years but they chose not to - that's their choice - what are you going to do?

    I've known one or two Utah elders who went home early because it wasn't for them - although it is rare. One of whom we had over several times to the house - we got on great with him personally but he went home early because it wasn't for him. He's doing fine, he's still active in the Church & has his own family in the Church. His extended family still talk to him. I don't know what to say to you - we don't do ostracising - I think that's the Amish? If there was a big ex-missionary problem I think you'd here it in the news but that Ch4 Documentary - where they were obviously trying to create a problem in the young mans mind - is about all I've ever heard where the homesick thing was stressed. You don't hear about ex-mormons suing the Church over peer pressure - its their own free agency.

    If you think its unusual for young men & women to sacrifice 2 years or 18 months to do something that's not for themselves or not party their life away or not follow their friends, stay out late, get into mischief whatever - then Good. Surely what these people do with their lives at that age should be applauded - not looked down upon because they don't fit in with their peers. Why limit yourself to what your mates do - do what you want to do & at the end of that day & if that's a good thing - better. Despite what you believe its what they want. Go up & ask them if you want to hear it from the horses mouth but don't lap up everything you hear on a Ch4 documentary. You do say that you don't find young males not brought up in a Mormon society not doing those things & you're right - it's because 1) From a young age youth are encouraged to be the best that they can be - although where I see encouraged you see forced etc. 2) Youth are given responsibilities in the Church at a younger age - service projects, helping disabled & old people etc. & that prepares them to make those decisions & want to make those decisions when they turned 18. We don't treat our youth like youth - we treat them as adults & you know what - control conspiracies aside - that's how they want to be treated.

    There is a Church committee that organises youth affairs & activities. Its organised & ran by youth, with older leaders there to take notes on their decisions. Yes there are certain Church policies & procedures that the youth should keep as guidelines that help them organise appropriate activities but that's the same as life once youth head out into the big bad world. Young men outside the Church are treated as second class citizens - not capable to be trusted by people & that's why these is so much disassociation with youth outside the Church. Pardon me for being "disillusioned" but I think these are good things that youth in the Church want to work & run things themselves in this way. Its not just me - we ran a fundraiser fair for a well known Irish cancer charity & the Charities representatives were amazed that our youth were running some of the stands & so actively involved in the fair. They told us that they wish their youth could have such an attitude. That's why they can make those decisions at 18 to do what they do - they've been prepared - not controlled.

    With regards to your assertion that we practice mind control with sending young people of our peers simply by just being their peers - that its a subtle form of mind control - what can you say to that? How do you not be a Church that wants to share its message (I wouldn't want to be part of one that didn't) without being accused of some form of control if that's how you define it? Stay at home & send no one I suppose but then as I said if you've nothing to share to others then its not much of an organisation to belong to in the first place. And if the missionaries control their peers simply by being their peers, good looking whatever (not all missionaries are good looking!!!) then what about adult converts that join the Church - the missionaries can't control them because they're older???? Its an unusual point you're trying to make.

    Finally with you're concern with those who don't believe in it. We have about 35-40% of our worldwide membership active in the Church. Those are figures other Churches would love to have. However, that's 55-60% that sit at home on a Sunday that have some issue or are apathetic in some way - that's the reality of our modern day free world. They still count themselves as Mormons or couldn't be bothered to do anything about it. We'd still love them to come back & like the prodigal son would welcome them with open arms - but like the prodigal son - that has to be their decision. So what happens with these people that don't believe - well they sit at home on a Sunday & watch the football, sleep in or whatever.

    At the end of the day you seem locked onto your control theory & I can't change that. I can only give you my experience of what I see is the very opposite in every way the Church does its business, in every action it takes & in every teaching it teaches - It really is the polar opposite of what anyone could construe as control. Its whole ethos is built around freedom of the individual to choose so I find it hard to see how anyone can justify the control tag for Mormonism.


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