I am been really sad

singledad80

Hi last year I left our home because of the stress in the house between my wife and her son I love them both but something happened two years a go that I could not get round, after few months soul searching and my wife begging me to come home, I did and had a wonderful time it was I was so in love with her again and I taught we where happy but she kicked me out of the house and a month later moved her boyfriend in, Lets just say i am heart broken at the moment, I do love her with all my heart. I am not looking to go back but why would you go through all the trouble and marriage counseling talking and loving if you didn't want me, Why rip my guts out ?:(

Penny Tration

Hey, op.

Tbh, the vast majority of your posts on boards have been about your ex wife, so there's a lot to go on.

She took you back, then left you again. Maybe she was willing to give it a shot, but realised that, for her, it'd never work.

Based on your numerous posts on boards about her, the way your posts veer from hating her to wanting her back, I think you need to go to your GP and ask for a referral to a therapist.

You're obviously not dealing with the break up well, and harbouring hopes that you and she will get back together. She's with somebody else, though, so that probably won't happen.

I think, for now, you should see a doctor. Aim to get yourself better, so that you can move on from this and be the best father you can be.

singledad80

I don't need a doctor I know I am not dealing with the break up, Not everything can be healed by a doctor, I love her to make a go of it again I am no expecting that to happen, but she must have been see this person a lot longer than she admits also, I didn't realize that treating some one like dirt was okay, I am feeling pity low and cant tell my family or friends so I am just vending emotion and you should be mean, I do loads with my son he is always been a joy to my life but its when he is gone I am at my lowest.

Penny Tration

singledad80 wrote: »

I don't need a doctor I know I am not dealing with the break up, Not everything can be healed by a doctor, I love her to make a go of it again I am no expecting that to happen, but she must have been see this person a lot longer than she admits also, I didn't realize that treating some one like dirt was okay, I am feeling pity low and cant tell my family or friends so I am just vending emotion and you should be mean, I do loads with my son he is always been a joy to my life but its when he is gone I am at my lowest.

Not everything can be healed by a doctor, no. But the way you're feeling, it sounds like more than just break up pain. It sounds obsessive, irrational even. A doctor CAN help with that.

The amount of focus you have on your ex wife is worrying. Of course you'll grieve for the relationship, but you don't sound as though you're simply grieving. You sound as though you've hit a massive bad patch, and need help so you can get out of it.

Merkin

I agree. Your posts seem to be ramblings of an obsessive and very agitated nature and for that reason I also think you need to see a professional.

Taltos

OP - this is your last warning before we start issuing infractions / bans.
Either post in line with our charter or please don't post at all. As you already have another thread open on this in PI I am closing this thread, per our charter we should be closing all of your threads...

Thanks
Taltos