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A question for the ladies from a man!

  • 06-05-2014 10:53am
    #1
    keyboardmouse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 61 ✭✭


    Hi Ladies, sorry to invade your forum but I need to ask a question of you!

    I need to know if the way my girlfriend feels is something that is typical of most women
    or if its slightly odd as is my opinion...

    Basically it's that if I'm not constantly talking or showing my feelings for her it's an issue.
    I constantly get told, "Your not making me feel special" or when were out and come home I ask did you have a good night it's usually "Yeah but you could have put in more effort"

    I mean everyday, I tell her how beautiful she looks when I see her (In fairness she always does look beautiful) , I always stop to give her a kiss if even it's just a peck as I pass her by. Always asking her how she's feeling etc I must back track, no not ALWAYS doing these things but because of the issue she makes of it, probably I do it a heck of a lot more than most guys.

    Thing is, I find it really weird. I feel like I'm not good enough, doing something wrong.
    I certainly wouldn't class myself as negligent! Do women really need THAT much reassurance to feel okay? My ex didn't, she was really independent and in truth I miss that.
    It's like she's a big kid that constantly needs to be told there is nothing in the closet!

    Do women in general feel like this? That there boyfriend should be nearly always be like a bloody boys to men chorus or something? Its like a never ending quest to please her and she should be forever be reminded and shown how special she is. I mean showing and talking about it is fine, but its constantly said to me!

    IS THIS NORMAL???????? DO YOU NEED YOUR PARTNER TO FOREVER BE SHOWING HOW THEY FEEL IN ORDER TO BE HAPPY WITH THEM???

    Sorry for invading, it's just driving me nuts!


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  • #2
    Amirani
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,548 Mod ✭✭✭✭Amirani


    Hi keyboardmouse, please make yourself familiar with the charter before posting here: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2056884565

    Please note in particular:
    The Ladies Lounge is not a place for men to come and start threads requesting opinions on X, Y and Z from women. Women aren't of a single mind or opinion.

    Your query may be better directed to one of the relationship related forums on the site. Best of luck.


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