Interested in mature ladies

LegacyUser

Hi,
I'm 30 this year and I'm interested in women that are 40+. Firstly I have no idea how to know whether they are interested in younger men. I wonder if there are many women out there that are.

I know one or two places where touring country singers and the like play and a lot of mature women go there.

Can anyone help me out on this one? I tend to be fairly shy in general sometimes and can find it difficult to come out of myself socially.

Thanks.

SPM1959

I would suggest an online dating site. Specify the 'type' you are looking for and see how it goes.

boredatwork82

Try the nightclub in the Arlington Hotel on O'Connell.

LegacyUser

I signed up to a site and messaged a few women. One woman wants to meet tomorrow night just for sex. I'll go to her house for sex, maybe stay with her for a while and that's it.

Does that all sound a little strange?

ibarelycare

frustrated2014 wrote: »

I signed up to a site and messaged a few women. One woman wants to meet tomorrow night just for sex. I'll go to her house for sex, maybe stay with her for a while and that's it.

Does that all sound a little strange?

I'd be wary about meeting someone in their house at the first meeting. If you're both just looking for sex and are both happy with that arrangement, at least meet in public first. Could you meet at a bar near her house and then if things are going ok, you can go back there? If you were an outsider to this situation, what would you advise yourself to do? Just be careful and be safe, always meet people from the internet in a public place first time.

Sun in Capri

Does that all sound a little strange?[/QUOTE]


Very strange.

Emme

frustrated2014 wrote: »

I signed up to a site and messaged a few women. One woman wants to meet tomorrow night just for sex. I'll go to her house for sex, maybe stay with her for a while and that's it.

Does that all sound a little strange?

It sounds very strange. Meet in a public place first. She may be completely different to her online profile.

If you want to meet mature women there are plenty of clubs and bars in town where you can meet them face to face.

Why don't you want to meet girls your own age?

Tokyo

OP, I have to ask, is there a personal issue in there somewhere, other than wanting to know how to approach older women? If that's the case then you'd approach them like any other women I'd imagine - talk to them and see if you have anything in common and go from there. The PI forums are here for exactly that - personal issues - they aren't here to provide a dating service or a set of step by step instructions on how to pick up women. Should you not have anything to add to your current situation, I'm inclined towards closing the thread.

At risk of pointing out the obvious in your current plan - wandering off to a stranger's house who you've never encountered before other than a few swapped messages on the internet is inherently dangerous, regardless of whether you are a guy or a girl. There's no way of knowing whether you're speaking to a nice woman who wants to give you a night you'll never forget, or a deranged guy who'd like nothing more than to do unspeakable things to you. The risks are very much real, and just because you are a guy, doesn't make you immune to them.

If you are to follow this course of action, meet in a public place at least first, so that you can get to know the person you are dealing with, and get to know what you are getting yourself into.

SPM1959

Sun in Capri wrote: »

Does that all sound a little strange?

Very strange.[/QUOTE]

In the world of internet hook ups it's not.

Agree with all other advice on here though, meet in a bar first and take it from there. Most people online looking for casual sex are not deranged though.