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Odd query regarding my better half.

  • 31-03-2014 7:23pm
    #1
    Wacker The Attacker
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    I've been seeing a girl for about a year now. I met her in Stockholm this time last year and we've been going out ever since.

    We have a good relationship. However, I have a rather odd query. I understand that this is a "how long is a piece of string" type question but here goes.

    She seems to have an unusually high sex drive. She definitely needs more sex than any other girl I've been with. She's in her early thirties and is approaching her sexual prime but she has said that she has always been like this and sees it as normal. She has told me that at times during the month she has an almost insatiable sexual appetite. She says that for 4-5 days a month sex is all she can think about and she has a many as 6 or 7 orgasms a day which still isn't enough.

    Are there certain boundaries at which your sex drive can become unusual?


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  • #2
    December2012
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    Well, women can have multiple organs each time we have sex. And if you're having a good time having orgasms then why not have another? It's not like men where we have to stop.


  • #3
    mdebets
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    Wacker The Attacker wrote: »
    Are there certain boundaries at which your sex drive can become unusual?
    Yes, when it impedes on her live.
    If all she can think in these days is how to get her next orgasm and everything else is unimportant to her, if she goes as far as looking for other partners to get her orgasms, if she can't function properly in thees days (work, eat, sleep), yes than it could be a problem and she might want to see a doctor about it.
    If it doesn't impede on her life and she can function as normal, but just has the urge for orgasms, but would still be ok (while not fully satisfied) with it, it might be not average, but she should be ok.

    Another thought that came me (even so I don't know anything about a woman's biological clock), could it be an unusual sign of her biological clock telling her that it's time for her to have a baby (or are these day totally random and independent of her monthly cycle)?


  • #4
    eeeee
    Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 6,856 Mod ✭✭✭✭eeeee


    No I don't think it's unusual in the slightest. I am similar to your OH OP. It gets commented on by every male partner i have.
    Everyone has different sex drives. Possibly it is because she is a woman it seems stranger than if she were a guy. I get that said to me a lot too.
    I also get the insatiable days in a month, usually lasts as week or so. It's hormonal and natural. And a complete pain in the arse! Concentration suffers but i'm so used to it now it doesn't affect me. Plus my cycling and swimming times go into pb territory then which is handy.
    On a serious note, does your OH do/play any sport? I find exercise a great way to deal with the extra energy/frustration.


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