Feeling down

Pixielovelot

Hi my partner of 2 years has just left for no reason 2 weeks ago I feel so alone as I'd put a lot into this relationship I have a son of whom his not the father to but my son had gotten quite attached to him I'm not sleeping friends have said move on that I was way to good for him anyway but that doesn't make me feel any better we practilly lived together so his clothes ps3 etc are all at mine I feel at a loss of what to do any advice please xx Ellie

missjm

I'm very sorry to hear you're hurting. Break-ups are never pleasant. I know you say for no reason but unfortunately there is always a reason, it's just whether he's willing to share the reason or not. If it was two weeks ago, then get on the phone and tell him to come round and remove his belongings, at least that way you won't have to look at his stuff and it's sorting the inevitable anyway as at some stage he's going to want them back.
In the meantime try to occupy yourself, maybe bring your son out somewhere for the day to keep his mind off it too. Of course you're allowed to be upset, it does suck. It will hurt less in time, I know it sounds like a cliche but it's true. If he hasn't given you any reason and you weren't arguing or anything, then I feel you may be better off without him.