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  • 23-02-2014 6:13am
    #1
    CB19Kevo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 800 ✭✭✭


    Know of a few people who seem to on a regular basis be in and out of relationships which go well for a while and end abruptly.
    Don't really get why they don't stay casual and just have a laugh.
    (Clearly this is younger/middle age people i refer to).
    Why bring all the drama on yourself for little reward when a casual setup would cause far less harm when ended.


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  • #2
    MadsL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    CB19Kevo wrote: »
    Know of a few people who seem to on a regular basis be in and out of relationships which go well for a while and end abruptly.
    Don't really get why they don't stay casual and just have a laugh.
    (Clearly this is younger/middle age people i refer to).
    Why bring all the drama on yourself for little reward when a casual setup would cause far less harm when ended.

    That word there. Some people are drama lovers..


  • #3
    Tilly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,987 ✭✭✭Tilly


    But what may start off as casual usually turns into something more serious. Unless it's stated from the start it won't go further.

    In that case you'd just have fúck buddies for the rest of your life?


  • #4
    The_Mask
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 340 ✭✭The_Mask


    Most people stay in relationships because they don't want to be on their own or just for the sake of the other person. Why stay if it's not working out? I admire people who know what's best for themselves and are not afraid to speak up. I'm in a relationship 2 years and I know if it wasn't working out Id say so...not just go along with it.


  • #5
    Tilly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,987 ✭✭✭Tilly


    The_Mask wrote: »
    Most people stay in relationships because they don't want to be on their own or just for the sake of the other person. Why stay if it's not working out? I admire people who know what's best for themselves and are not afraid to speak up. I'm in a relationship 2 years and I know if it wasn't working out Id say so...not just go along with it.
    I know a couple of people like that and it's so sad. Staying with someone cause you don't want to be on your own means you lose out on actually meeting someone right for you.


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