cheating

jcbyrne

Hey, so fiance, going out 6 years, decides she has doubts then goes and cheats, moves out says she wants time to think, but is screwing around with this guy, all the time telling me that she wants to be with me, etc. Finally I get the truth after 4 months. What do ye think. Shouls I just get rid or what?

bogwalrus

jcbyrne wrote: »

Hey, so fiance, going out 6 years, decides she has doubts then goes and cheats, moves out says she wants time to think, but is screwing around with this guy, all the time telling me that she wants to be with me, etc. Finally I get the truth after 4 months. What do ye think. Shouls I just get rid or what?/quote]


Yeah man life is short. She deserves no sympathy so move on with your life. You will find someone much much better eventually. With all the really good online matching websites you will find a better match for you also. Because you were engaged with her does not mean anything. Think positive and move on=)

Starokan

No brainer for me , get rid , she has treated you appallingly

Mr. Incognito

She wants her fun and then expects you to marry her? get rid

whiskeyman

Get the hell out of dodge man.
Just count yourself lucky this happened before you got married.
Something seriously wrong.

fallen01angel

Get rid of her now,no question.

strobe

So she cheated on you. Then essentially said to herself "I'm gonna go off and fvck this lad for a few weeks and then go back to my fiancé if I get bored or it doesn't go anywhere with this other lad".

Do you even has to ask? Can you really see yourself married to this woman? She doesn't give a sh1t about you basically man. Tell her its over then block her number etc and I really can't see any reason why you would speak to her again for any reason.

Real crappy situation but like someone else said, its a blessing in disguise that this happened now before you married her. Consider it a close call, you almost ended up married to a total bitch but you've gotten out just under the wire. Feels pretty awful now im sure but you'll meet someone else and then count yourself lucky for the rest of your life you didn't end up with this one any longer than you have been.

Catphish

jcbyrne wrote: »

Hey, so fiance, going out 6 years, decides she has doubts then goes and cheats, moves out says she wants time to think, but is screwing around with this guy, all the time telling me that she wants to be with me, etc. Finally I get the truth after 4 months. What do ye think. Shouls I just get rid or what?

She must see 'doormat' written on your forehead or something. Wouldn't surprise me in the least if the other guy put an end to it and that's how shes seen the light and wants you back. Have some respect for yourself and end it with her. She's treated you like a mug, sorry op.

banie01

I'm with the majority here, she has treated you like a doormat.
She has made her bed and unfortunately it wasn't you that was in it!
Then now that she's discovered that the grass isn't greener, she want to pick up where she left off with you?
Relationships can and do survive cheating, but what you have to ask yourself is can your relationship recover from being treated like an afterthought while she decided what she wanted?

jojobeans

Get rid, if a person feels the need to cheat then they cant really be in love with you, as the previous poster said the grass isnt always greener on the other side and shes found this out and expects you to take her back, dont! you need to value yourself on this one and no matter how ****ty it feels right now. Good luck