men.... do ye get turned off if a girl texts u first?

PrairieDawn

Basically I kissed this guy I know a fair few Saturdays since Christmas. Rarely hear fromhim midweek altho if I text him he gets back quickly.

Kinda wanna know what the story is without freaking him out...any advice

Sir Arthur Daley

Try third base?

Gran Hermano

Cut out the texting and try talking to him sometime.

Like before maths class?

wazky

Ah yes this is a typical reaction, kind of a man code thing.

Basically means he wants a finger up the bum when you two mate.

EuskalHerria

Turned off? Depends how dirty the txt is.

Son Of A Vidic

Ask him to marry you and he'll come running.

we'llallhavetea

put the penis in your mouth. problem solved.

keith16

I hope that you are ok honey.

Sir Arthur Daley

aya startin wha wrote: »

put the penis in your mouth. problem solved.

Careful now.

uch

When | was in this scenario you had to ring me Ma and ask to speak to me, so if you rang first, Deadly stuff

humbert

Anybody I meet until March will be know by the number of Saturdays since Christmas at the time of meeting.

Also, for the sake of gender symmetry...all men are the same yada yada yada... thanks whoring indignation.

Gran Hermano

Men love texts, send as many as you can. The longer and more detailed the better.we can never have enough.
The best texts are those follow-up text messages asking us if we received your earlier message.
Nothing better than waking up to find tens of texts especially if you can trace the emotional rollercoaster on the other side from one sided idle chat to bunny boiler.

depends on how hot you are really.

Cupcake_Crisis

PrairieDawn wrote: »

Basically I kissed this guy I know a fair few Saturdays since Christmas. Rarely hear fromhim midweek altho if I text him he gets back quickly.

Kinda wanna know what the story is without freaking him out...any advice

I could have written this post myself. Don't do it. If he wants you he'll text you.

Specialun

Hop u r ok babz

Men r bastards hun. Yolo

JackF1

Stop the games. If you like her she texts you first well hey at least your being thought of.
Everyone would gain from a bit of hey I actually like you honesty!

Dr. Kenneth Noisewater

Immediate boner tbh

B.A._Baracus

You know, call me crazy but a woman texting first... or heck even a man or woman texting ten minutes after a phone number was given says they are into you. Which personally I like

humbert

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

I could have written this post myself.

You could and you didn't; kudos to you.

we'llallhavetea

Specialun wrote: »

Hop u r ok babz

Men r bastards hun. Yolo

#kantkope

Cupcake_Crisis

arf91 wrote: »

No if she has enough self worth she'll go and find out if he likes her and if not move on. Its really not that hard to be straight about these things..

If he liked her enough she wouldn't be the one wondering about texting.

I've awful high standards about relationship etiquette though OP, I really wouldn't listen to me, I'm always pissed off at a guy for some reason or another.

hatrickpatrick

Not in the least. Always having to be the icebreaker gets a bit exhausting sometimes.

Stavros Murphy

A hot chick texted me there yesterday. I was stoked. Hell Yeah! Turns out she wanted to know when we'd be back to fix the mess we'd made of her artic trailer. That was slightly less stokey.

LETHAL LADY

Don't worry OP. I come from times past when you had to arrange a meeting point and hope you weren't stood up. You would also hope he wasn't laughing his arse off at you with a bunch of his mates through some random window, seeing you turn up all forlorn. Be straight up and ask your future uzzband and never mind this silly beggars stuff.

if you've been only kissing him and he has the option to get an actual ride from some other girl he's probably more into that.

Ihatecuddles

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

I'm always pissed off at a guy for some reason or another.

Is that immaturity or do you take other issues out on him? Genuinely curious if you know why.

JackF1

mauzo! wrote: »

Is that immaturity or do you take other issues out on him? Genuinely curious if you know why.

Nah saw it on tv. Have to treat men like **** and vice-versa

Cupcake_Crisis

mauzo! wrote: »

Is that immaturity or do you take other issues out on him? Genuinely curious if you know why.

It's not immaturity. It's not one guy either.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

It's not immaturity. It's not one guy either.

Dya get furiously angry if they don't do exactly as you say?

Cupcake_Crisis

Duracell Bunny wrote: »

Dya get furiously angry if they don't do exactly as you say?

Ah no!! Im not THAT bossy. I just have things that I personally like a guy to do in the early stages. If I feel like im constantly doing the chasing from day one it sets alarm bells.

Ihatecuddles

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

Ah no!! Im not THAT bossy. I just have things that I personally like a guy to do in the early stages. If I feel like im constantly doing the chasing from day one it sets alarm bells.

Well that's different to always being annoyed at a guy for some reason or another!! If you're not happy then fair enough, but it came across like you were pissed off with them for the sake of it.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

Ah no!! Im not THAT bossy. I just have things that I personally like a guy to do in the early stages. If I feel like im constantly doing the chasing from day one it sets alarm bells.

I'd go the other way. There's a fine line between letting a girl know you like her, and being too overbearing.

Ya wanna do the first one, yet avoid the second!

Cupcake_Crisis

mauzo! wrote: »

Well that's different to always being annoyed at a guy for some reason or another!! If you're not happy then fair enough, but it came across like you were pissed off with them for the sake of it.

Ah no, I love guys. They're a lovely bunch really.

SamAK

Hi Hun How R U Bbz?

Feck texting.

Guy & Girl conversing minus body language and tone of voice = miscommunication and certain failure.

Mostly-ish.

leggo

If you're thinking about something trivial this much, it's not working. Though maybe you're trying to convince yourself otherwise. Working relationships are easy (at the start at least) because these questions take care of themselves. Though maybe you can wear him down and enjoy 6 months of further unfulfilling torment.

holystungun9

Stavros Murphy wrote: »

A hot chick texted me there yesterday. I was stoked. Hell Yeah! Turns out she wanted to know when we'd be back to fix the mess we'd made of her artic trailer. That was slightly less stokey.

Is there some coded filth in this post? I mean in the grace jones "pull up to my bumper baby in your long black limousine" kinda way? I'm going with yes but to be fair lad, you'd be better of with a sprinter or even a transit, an artic trailer sounds a bit rough. How big a mess did you ye make of her?

Paulie Gualtieri

Never be the first to send the text all the time. Because ..........etc

Sir Arthur Daley

You have to stick it in.

Stavros Murphy

holystungun9 wrote: »

Is there some coded filth in this post? I mean in the grace jones "pull up to my bumper baby in your long black limousine" kinda way? I'm going with yes but to be fair lad, you'd be better of with a sprinter or even a transit, an artic trailer sounds a bit rough. How big a mess did you ye make of her?

No coded filth. I just don't get many texts.

Daveysil15

PrairieDawn wrote: »

Basically I kissed this guy I know a fair few Saturdays since Christmas. Rarely hear fromhim midweek altho if I text him he gets back quickly.

Kinda wanna know what the story is without freaking him out...any advice

No, why would it be a turn off? I'd be delighted. The only texts I ever get are from Vodafone.

If there's one thing I absolutely detest it's the mindgames around texting that both men and women seem to do.

Daveysil15

Deleted User wrote: »

If there's one thing I absolutely detest it's the mindgames around texting that both men and women seem to do.

+1, all this, "ohh you have to wait at least 24 hours", or "you don't want to text too soon or she'll think you're desperate." load of bollix.

The Spirit Pepper

Not a fan of text games myself, I think playing games like that is a sign of desperation in itself.

systemicrisk

My advice is text if you like him and want to contact him. However if you are constantly making the effort and he doesnt bother then dont keep chasing him.

Aphex

Have you tried the 30 day NC Challenge OP?

PrairieDawn

Aphex wrote: »

Have you tried the 30 day NC Challenge OP?

30day no contact?

Aphex

PrairieDawn wrote: »

30day no contact?

Yeah, he'll be begging you to come back afterwards apparently
Didn't work for me though

Wibbs

Deleted User wrote: »

If there's one thing I absolutely detest it's the mindgames around texting that both men and women seem to do.

+a millionty.

Aphex

Aphex wrote: »

Have you tried the 30 day NC Challenge OP?

This was a joke OP, I don't recommend doing that at this stage.

Legs.Eleven

If I like a man, I text him. If he doesn't like me texting him because I'm a woman, then I would no longer want to text him.

If two people like each other enough, they won't mind who does the texting. Fact.

Aphex

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

If I like a man, I text him. If he doesn't like me texting him because I'm in bits, then I would no longer want to text him.

If two people like each other enough, they won't mind who does the texting. Fact.