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  • #52
    emmbay
    Registered Users Posts: 95 ✭✭emmbay


    jabarrett35 wrote: »
    I'm a lot older than you and I got played by a chap. So don't beat yourself up too much. Mine told me that he'd been leading me on which in my book takes it to another level of scumbaggery altogether I think. I've the feeling he does love you but not in the way a person wants to be loved. He has manipulated you and that's was from the get go. At 25 he's unlikely to change I'm afraid.

    Well then if its the case, what I have experienced with other people before this and including this situation all men are the same unfortunately as I can cry my eyes out about being used etc but I myself have done it before and I really am not a bad person and anyone who knew me wouldn't think I was capable of it but it happens. I think it's human nature


  • #53
    jabarrett35
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 456 ✭✭jabarrett35


    What deliberately leading someone on? Well may be for a few weeks but not for over a year. That's not human nature. I'd worry if you thought that was normal to do that.


  • #54
    emmbay
    Registered Users Posts: 95 ✭✭emmbay


    jabarrett35 wrote: »
    What deliberately leading someone on? Well may be for a few weeks but not for over a year. That's not human nature. I'd worry if you thought that was normal to do that.

    Leading someone on is different than playing someone.. Well in my opinion it is anyway.


  • #55
    orionm_73
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 361 ✭✭orionm_73


    I know for a fact I'm not the first but he has said the difference is he actually cares about me and has shown it in things he has done.

    And he probably said and did all those things to the previous guys.
    Leading someone on is different than playing someone

    Even if this was true the end result is the same. Maybe deep down you find it hard to admit you've been led on or been played.


  • #56
    jabarrett35
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 456 ✭✭jabarrett35


    emmbay wrote: »
    Leading someone on is different than playing someone.. Well in my opinion it is anyway.

    I think they are equally as bad and result in a lot of heartache. If you think toying with other ppls feelings ok then I'm sorry it's not. Doing it for your own base pleasure is sociopathic which is what happened to me. I'm not saying that's what you did. But it's not acceptable behaviour.


  • #57
    Locker10a
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 4,195 Mod ✭✭✭✭Locker10a


    Emmbay you probably cant see as you are so involved in the situation ! But from an outside perspective its clearly an insidious relationship you have with the couple and one you need to abandon, seriously your life is super Jeremy Kyle right now! No one should be proud of a Jeremy Kyle life! You need to sort it all out!!


  • #58
    lottpaul
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,165 ✭✭✭lottpaul


    baby and crumble wrote: »
    In my opinion op I'd run, and run far. It'll all end in tears.


    Best advice I've seen. I'd give it very serious consideration. At the very least you need to cut contact to be able to think about it all - coldly and clearly.


  • #59
    emmbay
    Registered Users Posts: 95 ✭✭emmbay


    lottpaul wrote: »
    Best advice I've seen. I'd give it very serious consideration. At the very least you need to cut contact to be able to think about it all - coldly and clearly.

    Thank and I agree I am distancing myself from the situation.


  • #60
    emmbay
    Registered Users Posts: 95 ✭✭emmbay


    Locker10a wrote: »
    Emmbay you probably cant see as you are so involved in the situation ! But from an outside perspective its clearly an insidious relationship you have with the couple and one you need to abandon, seriously your life is super Jeremy Kyle right now! No one should be proud of a Jeremy Kyle life! You need to sort it all out!!

    Yeah it totally is, might actually go on it to get some time on tv it would be great haha.. Nah I'm doing what should have been donw in the first place and walking away. I hurt myself more than anyone in the situation I got myself into and I need to end it to make me a better person.


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