Hormones

Rubylolz

Hi Ladies,

Just wondering if I'm the only one in this zone - I find that coming up to my TOM that I can be completely irrational with my other half nothing he does is right, an I can get so down an overthink everything!... while I know it's me thats being an ass I still cant stop it!...
Do any of you find the same issues? If you do how to you manage it?

Thanks

Applause

It's perfectly normal, I just tell him I am hormonal and not to take any notice of me once I realise, I am a crier when I am hormonal though, so he can usually tell when I get emotional. :pac:

Neyite

If you genuinely cannot help lashing out due to your hormones, you'd do it with strangers, with bosses, with work colleagues. But by only having one particular person bearing the brunt of your hormonal outbursts it indicates that you can in fact, control it to some degree.

While its perfectly normal to be hormonal, its not normal to take it out on one particular person only. And neither is it fair on them.

Start with a GP consult. Research ways to help alleviate pms symptoms -whether that is herbal remedies, exercise, diet changes or prescribed medication, you owe it to the person who you treat badly when hormonal.

PucaMama

I get like this too to everyone really. It's hard to control it when everyone seems to be doing everything wrong (or so it seems at the time) and noone will try to make things just a little bit easier on you.