A question about cleaning

metamorphosis

Had an internal dilemma about what to call the thread .... haha, anyway ...

For the last few years, I have been in my comfortable bubble of been involved with men where anal sex wasn't a huge thing. I have topped maybe once, but I was never really keen on the whole anal sex thing after trying, enjoyed plenty of everything else, maybe bottomed a few times over the years but rarely felt the want to bottom for many guys.

So, now I am in a position where I am rather eager to bottom for a guy that I have gotten to know and am dealing with getting over the 'hump' of bottoming, I would like to be *ahem* clean for him. Douching seems to be a well spoken about thing that regular bottoms do. I have a shower head that unscrews and comes with another shower head that is like a bloody power hose and have used that to clean up there before- would that do? Iv read about people doing enemas ....

Sorry, my 'anal sexless' bubble has been burst so i'd like to hear what other boardsies do? I imagine my bloody power shower hose gives a good cleaning up there. I imagine lots of people just buy an anal douche?

Thanks folks

J_E

Well, it helps if you've been to the toilet an hour before as your body has a self-cleaning mechanism and you'd probably be fine there. If you have access to a douche, it's a fast and easy way of cleaning yourself out, but don't use it too much as you're taking out microbes that help your intestines function to their best. Even just a quick 'self-cleaning' in the shower is fine if you don't have a douche, no need to go overboard. 100% make sure whoever you're with is using a condom too, because apart from the obvious case of safe sex, they're not going to get into any issues should you not be fully clean. Some guys are very obsessive about being clean, some aren't going to reprimand you if you're not spotless, but generally try to be as it can be quite a dampener to the fun.

Important note though: If you're going to use a shower douche nozzle, be careful! If the nozzle has too much pressure and you're not allowing the water to escape, you risk both tearing and also putting too much internal pressure on your rectum. Just be aware of that.

To be honest, I don't really get anything out of it myself, but it's good to know these things. Best of luck!

AwaitYourReply

As far as "Cleaning" goes it could be worse, believe me:
Imagine staying in a budget Tourist/Backpackers Hostel where the bunk beds are all jammed in back2back and you wake up to the smell of blokes feet in the Dorm -some guy's cheesy toes ends up touching off your face in the morning as you lie there half asleep! ;O
In a funny sense I never realised that some guys feet can be very tender when they are caressing your skin.