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Shouting abuse/slags at strangers

  • 19-12-2013 3:03pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭



    So I was walking along to work minding my own business to bedisturbed by shouting. I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat. Obviously they didn’t know the guy and hewas not impressed. Anyway it didn’t surprise me as it is common enough. The bitI don’t understand is what are grown adult doing acting like that? From a 13year old I expected it but adult it is just moronic.



    This is not just a bit of fun either as I have seen this getnasty before. One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.



    What the hell is going on in their minds? It isn’t harmlessfun


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,379 ✭✭✭hefferboi


    I only shout at bus ****.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,250 ✭✭✭✭bumper234


    Ray Palmer wrote: »

    So I was walking along to work minding my own business to bedisturbed by shouting. I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat. Obviously they didn’t know the guy and hewas not impressed. Anyway it didn’t surprise me as it is common enough. The bitI don’t understand is what are grown adult doing acting like that? From a 13year old I expected it but adult it is just moronic.



    This is not just a bit of fun either as I have seen this getnasty before. One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.



    What the hell is going on in their minds? It isn’t harmlessfun

    Is standard font not good enough for some people?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,675 ✭✭✭ronnie3585


    What was this coat like?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 673 ✭✭✭pundy


    because they're scum?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 66 ✭✭TomCleverly


    ronnie3585 wrote: »
    What was this coat like?

    I too am curious about the coat, what kinda coat merits abuse?


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  • Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 2,159 Mod ✭✭✭✭Oink


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.

    Man I wish I could do that. I just think it's a bad idea so I never do it, but... Man I wish I did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,694 ✭✭✭BMJD


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat.

    maybe it was a gay coat

    stupid gay coats


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    I too am curious about the coat, what kinda coat merits abuse?


    It was a relatively bright ski jacket


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    Oink wrote: »
    Man I wish I could do that. I just think it's a bad idea so I never do it, but... Man I wish I did.

    I was water pistoled once by people in a car and I threw my bike lock straight threw their back window. Incredibly satisfying :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,475 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    Ray Palmer wrote: »

    So I was walking along to work minding my own business to bedisturbed by shouting. I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat. Obviously they didn’t know the guy and hewas not impressed. Anyway it didn’t surprise me as it is common enough. The bitI don’t understand is what are grown adult doing acting like that? From a 13year old I expected it but adult it is just moronic.



    This is not just a bit of fun either as I have seen this getnasty before. One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.



    What the hell is going on in their minds? It isn’t harmlessfun

    Harmless fun? Its antagonistic. Dont dish out crap and whinge when they react.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    pundy wrote: »
    because they're scum?

    Indeed

    People like that should be put down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    Your font is wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    BMJD wrote: »
    maybe it was a gay coat

    stupid gay coats

    My coat came out of the closet this morning...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,324 ✭✭✭BillyMitchel


    BMJD wrote: »
    maybe it was a gay coat

    stupid gay coats

    Bet ye it was a Superdry coat!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,564 ✭✭✭notnumber


    Scrubbers! Scrubbers! Little tarts, they love it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 660 ✭✭✭Moomat


    I remember being in the car with my dad years ago at the top of Tara Street. We were waiting at the lights to go over the bridge. A long haired greasy rocker (it was the era of rockers & ravers) crossed the road in front of us. With that my dad rolled down the window and roared at him "here, rocker, go home and have a shower ye smelly f~cker!".. Lights changed and off my dad drove beeping and waving, happy with himself for throwing a bit of stick at his nephew. I turned around to look and said rocker, who I could see was clearly no relation to us was gesticulating wildly and shouting what I imagine was far from praise at us.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    Moomat wrote: »
    I remember being in the car with my dad years ago at the top of Tara Street. We were waiting at the lights to go over the bridge. A long haired greasy rocker (it was the era of rockers & ravers) crossed the road in front of us. With that my dad rolled down the window and roared at him "here, rocker, go home and have a shower ye smelly f~cker!".. Lights changed and off my dad drove beeping and waving, happy with himself for throwing a bit of stick at his nephew. I turned around to look and said rocker, who I could see was clearly no relation to us was gesticulating wildly and shouting what I imagine was far from praise at us.

    ?

    Sorry, just got that, your dad thought smelly rocker was your cousin.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,819 ✭✭✭howamidifferent


    I once got screamed at by a gang of thugs because they noticed the warm winter jacket I was wearing had a small Reebok UK flag on the back of it. :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    I once got screamed at by a gang of thugs because they noticed the warm winter jacket I was wearing had a small Reebok UK flag on the back of it. :mad:

    Wouldn't suprise me if the same noobs were big Lpool/Man Utd fans :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,694 ✭✭✭BMJD


    I once got screamed at by a gang of thugs because they noticed the warm winter jacket I was wearing had a small Reebok UK flag on the back of it. :mad:

    thatshowyouredifferent


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,692 ✭✭✭✭castletownman


    "Where did ya get that coat? In the toilet store?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 682 ✭✭✭LOSTfan57


    Festy wrote: »
    Wouldn't suprise me if the same noobs were big Lpool/Man Utd fans :rolleyes:

    Why United fans?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    The nurse told you not to wear your multi coloured dream coat when you were out on day release Ray


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭Festy


    LOSTfan57 wrote: »
    Why United fans?

    Because the vast majority of the Irish either support one of them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,109 ✭✭✭Electric Sheep


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    So I was walking along to work minding my own business to bedisturbed by shouting. I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat. Obviously they didn’t know the guy and hewas not impressed. Anyway it didn’t surprise me as it is common enough. The bitI don’t understand is what are grown adult doing acting like that? From a 13year old I expected it but adult it is just moronic.



    This is not just a bit of fun either as I have seen this getnasty before. One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.



    What the hell is going on in their minds? It isn’t harmlessfun

    If people are taught that gratuitously insulting people they DO know is 'craic' and 'banter', why would they think differently about insulting people they DON'T know or care about?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭giant_midget


    Moomat wrote: »
    I remember being in the car with my dad years ago at the top of Tara Street. We were waiting at the lights to go over the bridge. A long haired greasy rocker (it was the era of rockers & ravers) crossed the road in front of us. With that my dad rolled down the window and roared at him "here, rocker, go home and have a shower ye smelly f~cker!".. Lights changed and off my dad drove beeping and waving, happy with himself for throwing a bit of stick at his nephew. I turned around to look and said rocker, who I could see was clearly no relation to us was gesticulating wildly and shouting what I imagine was far from praise at us.

    you and your dad are peasants, peasants in an old banger of a car probably..nothing wrong with rockers with long hair...:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    If people are taught that gratuitously insulting people they DO know is 'craic' and 'banter', why would they think differently about insulting people they DON'T know or care about?

    I don't agree joking with friends is easily disguisable from doing so to a complete stranger. Calling a friend "tubby" versus shouting it out the window at a stranger it is easy to see the difference.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 595 ✭✭✭ElvisChrist6


    If people are taught that gratuitously insulting people they DO know is 'craic' and 'banter', why would they think differently about insulting people they DON'T know or care about?

    That's a ridiculous argument, there's no relation. It's like saying if you ride your spouse, how do you know it's inappropriate to ride everyone else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 595 ✭✭✭ElvisChrist6


    you and your dad are peasants, peasants in an old banger of a car probably..nothing wrong with rockers with long hair...:)

    I think his da thought the young fella was his nephew...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    you and your dad are peasants, peasants in an old banger of a car probably..nothing wrong with rockers with long hair...:)

    I think the dad mistook the rocker for his also a rocker nephew and was slagging him but it wasnt so he inadvertently hurt an innocent rockers feelings.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    I was water pistoled once by people in a car and I threw my bike lock straight threw their back window. Incredibly satisfying :D

    Chapter one of things that never happened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,559 ✭✭✭RoboRat


    That's a ridiculous argument, there's no relation. It's like saying if you ride your spouse, how do you know it's inappropriate to ride everyone else.

    Is it considered inappropriate :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    SV wrote: »
    Chapter one of things that never happened.

    Well seeing as you have some form of magical ability how many fingers am I holding up?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 595 ✭✭✭ElvisChrist6


    RoboRat wrote: »
    Is it considered inappropriate :o

    If you have a spouse, I'm afraid it is! :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,559 ✭✭✭RoboRat


    If you have a spouse, I'm afraid it is!

    Oh oh...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Best way to handle random abuse is pretend you didnt hear and keep asking them to repeat it, eventually they'll just get annoyed and stop.

    or beat them to death with their own shoes, y'know whatevers easiest


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,635 ✭✭✭Pumpkinseeds


    I mis-read the thread title as shouting abuse at strange slags:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,570 ✭✭✭Mint Aero


    I was doing a bit work a while back which involved me and two other lads wearing hi-viz jackets at the side of the road :D Along comes a rather obese traveler kid about 14 I'd say on his sulky screaming abuse and profanities at us as he passed :rolleyes: just lovely :rolleyes: no kid I don't work for the council which you seem to hate so much :rolleyes: even though said council bends over backwards to accommodate your "cultural needs"

    Another time I was walking to a mates house and I passed two scrawny skangers. "Y'or gay" is what I got :rolleyes: Thanks, I didn't know that and there's me wasting my time chasing the wimmenz. I was very tempted to knock the sh*t out of the two of them for the craic but I was carrying a few bottles of beer so beer is more important.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    Well seeing as you have some form of magical ability how many fingers am I holding up?

    It makes you seem like the big lad but we all know it didn't happen, or ya would have got the shíte kicked out of ya by those in the car


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    Ray Palmer wrote: »

    So I was walking along to work minding my own business to bedisturbed by shouting. I look over and see 3 guys shouting out the windowslagging somebody about their coat. Obviously they didn’t know the guy and hewas not impressed. Anyway it didn’t surprise me as it is common enough. The bitI don’t understand is what are grown adult doing acting like that? From a 13year old I expected it but adult it is just moronic.



    This is not just a bit of fun either as I have seen this getnasty before. One guy just threw his hot coffee straight in the window whensomebody did it. I have seen more thanone cyclist scratch a van intentionally after a passenger screamed boo at him.



    What the hell is going on in their minds? It isn’t harmlessfun

    Maybe they know that you're the lad who wrote the script for revenue that deducts the property tax from their dole


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,513 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    SV wrote: »
    It makes you seem like the big lad but we all know it didn't happen, or ya would have got the shíte kicked out of ya by those in the car
    You weren't there. It did happen and I would have loved if they got out of the crappy Micra that was probably bought by their parents. You don't know how aggressive I am or how brave these little toe rags were. They sped off so your theory is wrong.

    I knocked somebody wing mirror off too and they drove away in fear.

    You know nothing of me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,000 ✭✭✭mitosis


    SV wrote: »
    It makes you seem like the big lad but we all know it didn't happen, or ya would have got the shíte kicked out of ya by those in the car

    Apparently not all of it ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    You weren't there. It did happen and I would have loved if they got out of the crappy Micra that was probably bought by their parents. You don't know how aggressive I am or how brave these little toe rags were. They sped off so your theory is wrong.

    I knocked somebody wing mirror off too and they drove away in fear.

    You know nothing of me.

    Bahahahaha ok ok.
    Biggins the second.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 660 ✭✭✭Moomat


    you and your dad are peasants, peasants in an old banger of a car probably..nothing wrong with rockers with long hair...:)
    I agree, the rolly up windows, bad language and shouting out the window of cars were clear signs of our peasantness!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    Mint Aero wrote: »
    I was doing a bit work a while back which involved me and two other lads wearing hi-viz jackets at the side of the road :D Along comes a rather obese traveler kid about 14 I'd say on his sulky screaming abuse and profanities at us as he passed :rolleyes: just lovely :rolleyes: no kid I don't work for the council which you seem to hate so much :rolleyes: even though said council bends over backwards to accommodate your "cultural needs"

    Another time I was walking to a mates house and I passed two scrawny skangers. "Y'or gay" is what I got :rolleyes: Thanks, I didn't know that and there's me wasting my time chasing the wimmenz. I was very tempted to knock the sh*t out of the two of them for the craic but I was carrying a few bottles of beer so beer is more important.


    'Doing a bit of work' as in clamping someone's car is it?

    I'm convinced people are drawing this abuse upon themselves


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,109 ✭✭✭Electric Sheep


    Ray Palmer wrote: »
    I don't agree joking with friends is easily disguisable from doing so to a complete stranger. Calling a friend "tubby" versus shouting it out the window at a stranger it is easy to see the difference.

    Not really. Why would you call your friend Tubby? When people are taught that insulting other people is clever, that behaviour carries over. After all, if it's clever to call your friend Tubby and you get away with it, why not some random stranger.

    People feel that they can't say that they find "slagging" by a "friend" hurtful, especially in the case of being picked on over physical attributes. It's interesting that when it is done by a stranger, they DO feel that it is out of line.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,570 ✭✭✭Mint Aero


    'Doing a bit of work' as in clamping someone's car is it?

    I'm convinced people are drawing this abuse upon themselves

    Nopes, nothing that concerns anyone else ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭GalwayGuy2


    This video is oddly appropriate.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,221 ✭✭✭NuckingFacker


    I'm feeling left out. Nothing has been thrown at me and no-ones roared any abuse at me for ages. Though I Parked the van a bit "viewblockingly" there the other day and some lad started roaring "oy, OY!" across the filling station at me. I enquired as to his future plans and how his health had been lately and he decided to lower the volume a bit. Is this throwing and shouting a common occurrence? I always miss the exciting stuff.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,616 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    I'm feeling left out. Nothing has been thrown at me and no-ones roared any abuse at me for ages. Though I Parked the van a bit "viewblockingly" there the other day and some lad started roaring "oy, OY!" across the filling station at me. I enquired as to his future plans and how his health had been lately and he decided to lower the volume a bit. Is this throwing and shouting a common occurrence? I always miss the exciting stuff.

    Viewblockingly?


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