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lack of motivation and..

  • 18-12-2013 2:54am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm 21 and a lot of the lads from college are giving me grief because i'm ''an owfella''. I have no interests and I mean No interests what so ever. I hate socialising,drinking, sports,fitness ect, ect.. I just love sitting around the house and having nothing to do all day.

    I have only really realised this because of the lads but I actually seem to hate everything and just wanna be left alone to do nothing all the time.. If not in college then i'd spend weeks in the house and mostly alone (with family but not friends) I'm off now for 3 week christmas and have been looking forward to being in total isolation.

    My college course only lasts 4 days a week (13 hours) and i'v never completed a full week.

    i'd be the first to admit i'm very close minded and lack motivation. i think it's a combination of lazyness and anti-social behaviour??

    Is this strange?


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,430 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    A lack of interest and motivation could be a symptom of something more serious. I would recommend you approach your GP and discuss it with them. If it turns out to be nothing then there is no harm done.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 thedeadp0et


    You're whats called an 'introvert'. Have a look into writing, poetry, the occult, making your own music on the computer with DAW's like FL Studio you can get from torrents from sites like isohunt.com with torrent programs like utorrent. **** drinking and the gym - everyones mind is made differently and to try and make them work all the very same is to devoid them of all inspiration and innovation. Trust.

    Message me if you want to chat more buddy, I was once like you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ye that makes sense mate. I absolutely hate people and just want to be left to my own devices. The world just doesn't understand it what with college 'group work' and then people constantly wanting to go drinking.. Jesus the thought of having to sit at a table full of people drinking all night is a ****in nightmare in my eyes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    thedeadp0et,

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