Work and relationships troubles.

LegacyUser

Hi all,

So as it goes I have ok luck in life, I am 23 years old and a qualified as a carpenter and have been working constantly through out the recession which is a blessing and not many can say it. Even though I have work and I'm paid well I keep feeling as if I want something more. I've always wanted to be in the army my whole life. I had family in the army and grew up listening to all the stories. Anyways after much thought I decided to apply, got fit went through the process and got in. 3 weeks later I quit and to be honest I don't know why I did, I got into this mad panic for no reason and discharged myself. I went to Oz and 3 weeks over there got it into my head I hated it and flew home again don't know why. Throughout all this my employer kept rehiring me. Now I'm mad to get out and go somewhere or do something but I'm afraid yet again I'll make a balls of it.
Then we come to the women in my life. I can't approach women in a bar so I use a well know dating website and I have met up with a lot of women from it and gotten on very well with most. I'm so sick of being single, but every time a meet a nice girl it's the same thing, I'm mad about her at first and then we go out for a month or so and as soon as I sleep with them I completely lose interest in them. Its like I'm addicted to the chase and once its over I'm bored. I've tried to change this but it has been unsuccessful. Am I missing something or am I just being stupid?

Matteroffact

As regards women, it could be that you want to be in control all of the time and that you back away the minute you feel you are losing control. Of course you are quite young and it could be that you have not met the right woman yet.

As regards the army, that is a place where you have to take orders and obey them, stick to rules etc. and you have to get used to that. It is not somewhere where you are left to your own initiative, so unless you are prepared to fit in you would get fed up of it. You have to prove that you are good at doing what you are told rather than coming up with new ideas.

You have not found your niche yet, but the minute you hit some idea that interests you you will stick with it, just keep on trying.

ShowMeTheCash

Too be honest..... It just sounds like your 23!

Practise safe sex... Soon enough you will figure out where your suppose to be...

leonidas83

ShowMeTheCash wrote: »

Too be honest..... It just sounds like your 23!

Practise safe sex... Soon enough you will figure out where your suppose to be...

Does that include finishing in her mouth, thats fairly safe imo too.

OP, I wouldnt worry about it, Australia & the army isnt for everybody. It sounds like you could do more research on the things that interest you though before you go ahead & give up everything else.

Maybe a career guidance counsellor would be a help for you or getting to know people with real life experience.

Ah_Yeah

leonidas83 wrote: »

Does that include finishing in her mouth, thats fairly safe imo too.

Seriously?!

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