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strong emotions after a year.

  • 29-09-2013 10:20pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was seeing this girl I really like. She taught me how to kiss and I lost my virginity to her. We only lasted a week and we stayed friends but I still feel a close bond and even now I feel upset that she dumped me ( dumped me a year ago ). She had only come out of a 5 year relationship and she said she didnt want anything serious, I think she realised I was getting to attached and ended it.

    Is this normal behaviour on my part..


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  • #2
    Lauzzy22
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26 ✭Lauzzy22


    japreid wrote: »
    I was seeing this girl I really like. She taught me how to kiss and I lost my virginity to her. We only lasted a week and we stayed friends but I still feel a close bond and even now I feel upset that she dumped me ( dumped me a year ago ). She had only come out of a 5 year relationship and she said she didnt want anything serious, I think she realised I was getting to attached and ended it.

    Is this normal behaviour on my part..

    Is she the only girl you ever had sex with?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    shes only one i had sex or kissed


  • #4
    Lauzzy22
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26 ✭Lauzzy22


    japreid wrote: »
    shes only one i had sex or kissed

    Move on that's only reason you like her If you met someone else you wouldn't think twice about her.


  • #5
    heretochat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭heretochat


    Agree with the other poster. She only means something to you as she is the only one you have kissed or have sex with..

    Also for me having sex after a week is a bit soon..


  • #6
    Starokan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 746 ✭✭✭Starokan


    Your fixated on her because she is the only person you have been intimate with, its important to move on mentally here not just physically.

    By that I mean you have to let thoughts of her go, there is a world of potential partners out there, if she thought you were good enough to be with then so will many others. If you fixate on an old partner you will never be ready for someone new.


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