Help supporting loved one with depression.

promises

Does anyone know if there is such a thing as a support group for loved ones with depression. I have checked grow, aware, sosad, but it seems to be mostly for the person with depression. I'm trying to be strong but could really do with some suppport. I'm in the north east area. Thanks in advance

LegacyUser

Hi Promises,

Bit late but I just stumbled across your post there! I was basically googling some advice for myself. My partner is depressed, quite severely so the past few weeks. Did you have any luck with your search for a support group? It's hard to remain strong isn't it. You begin to feel that sense of hopelessness yourself, that overwhelming sadness that the other person is feeling. Or at least I do. It's a tough time not only for the person suffering the illness but for those around him/her who love them.

I've had depression/anxiety myself in the past and am desperately trying to stay strong so I don't fall back down that hole. I fell that their condition is really exacerbating my own. I want to continue with my life as normally as possible re work and social life, but I'm trying so hard to try be considerate of my partners feelings and worry that talking about certain things like work (partner long term unemployed), or going out socially without them will make things worse for them, and in turn for myself. There has been talk of 'ending things' too, with a point blank refusal to seek medication or counselling. It is a constant source of upset and worry for me, naturally.

If nothing else, I hope you can feel the sense that you're not alone in your anguish and worry for your loved one, and in the feeling of needing support for yourself. I also feel resentful at times, and then guilty for feeling this way as I know they are really struggling with their illness and it is not me who is suffering the most (if that makes any sense!)

All the best.

aaabbbb

Check out the Eolas group not sure if they're in you're area but its worth a look