Does oral sex count as sex?

markomuscle

Do you lose your virginity when you are a participant in oral sex?

The reason I ask is because there is an erotic massage parlour (with optional extras) in my college town and I don't want to 'lose my virginity' to an escort/prostitute.

Killeenadeema

Ask Bill Clinton!

shopaholic01

That would be classed as a sexual experience, but most would assume you need penetrative sex to lose your virginity.

hawkeyethenoo

No.

corkgsxr

Nope your still a virgin

dazftw

Only if you're in college!!

Corvo

No, but it's amazing. I can only assume you, the virgin, is about to receive some and I am not, and as such I am now staring at a mirror, crying my eyes out.

Frosty McSnowballs

markomuscle wrote: »

Do you lose your virginity when you are a participant in oral sex?

Giving or getting?

campo

Corvo wrote: »

No, but it's amazing. I can only assume you, the virgin, is about to receive some and I am not, and as such I am now staring at a mirror, crying my eyes out.

It especially does not count if you are the one giving

dodderangler

Killeenadeema wrote: »

Ask Bill Clinton!

He did not have sexual relations with that woman.

markomuscle

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

Giving or getting?

Both i suppose

The Backwards Man

Do vegetarian chefs make meatballs?

--Kaiser--

Teenage son says to his Dad "I got my first blow job today"
Dad claps his son on the back and says "That's my boy, how was it?"
"Ugh" replies the son "Tasted awful!"

shopaholic01

dodderangler wrote: »

He did not have sexual relations with that woman.

He did indeed have sexual relationships with that woman.

Busted Flat.

corkgsxr wrote: »

Nope your still a virgin

No, not if you use a cigar, then again it depends which end you smoke it from.

Frosty McSnowballs

markomuscle wrote: »

Both i suppose

You doing a selfie?

jobeenfitz

depends, def not if you were sucking your own!

It's a sex act, but I think it takes intercourse for you to be in the club.

markomuscle

shopaholic01 wrote: »

That would be classed as a sexual experience, but most would assume you need penetrative sex to lose your virginity.

but 'sexual experience' is a broad term, you could say men have had a sexual experience when they first engage in masturbation.

Corvo

campo wrote: »

It especially does not count if you are the one giving

Good point campo. Good point.

*tips hat*

Skuxx

It's sexual contact, not sexual intercourse!
Therefore your still a virgin!
I watch to much Jeremy Kyle!

shopaholic01

markomuscle wrote: »

but 'sexual experience' is a broad term, you could say men have had a sexual experience when they first engage in masturbation.

You could, but you'd still be a virgin.

Sinfonia

I'd have considered reciprocal/mutual oral sex as 'sex', although when you put in terms of virginity, it doesn't seem quite right.
I'd like to hear a lesbian opinion, if we can arrange that..

tdv123

Does anyone know if your still a virgin if you have anal sex?

shopaholic01

tdv123 wrote: »

Does anyone know if your still a virgin if you have anal sex?

Giving or receiving?

markomuscle

tdv123 wrote: »

Does anyone know if your still a virgin if you have anal sex?

that's confusing, i guess it's only sex if there there is chance of creating a baby but then if you use protection that chance is minimised.

corkgsxr

tdv123 wrote: »

Does anyone know if your still a virgin if you have anal sex?

Anal id say ya it counts.

tdv123

shopaholic01 wrote: »

Giving or receiving?

Either way is fine.

Frosty McSnowballs

Does anyone know if you are still a virgin, if you put your pee pee between the mattress and the bed base and bang it?!

Sigourney

Killeenadeema wrote: »

Ask Bill Clinton!

Eatin' ain't cheatin'.

Sigourney

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

Does anyone know if you are still a virgin, if you put your pee pee between the mattress and the bed base and bang it?!

I think you are, but the bed isn't.

The Backwards Man

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

Does anyone know if you are still a virgin, if you put your pee pee between the mattress and the bed base and bang it?!

Dunno bout a virgin, but you're an idiot for sure if you do.

Fox_In_Socks

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

Does anyone know if you are still a virgin, if you put your pee pee between the mattress and the bed base and bang it?!

You'll know if 9 months later, a pillow pops out.

Frosty McSnowballs

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Dunno bout a virgin, but you're an idiot for sure if you do.

Don't be so backwards, man!

It's all the rage.

antodeco

How has nobody yet asked for where the college town is?

markomuscle

antodeco wrote: »

How has nobody yet asked for where the college town is?

north west england, the hub of the adult business.

shopaholic01

markomuscle wrote: »

north west england, the hub of the adult business.

Best get stuck in so.

oppenheimer1

It depends, some people would consider any form of intimate sexual contact to equate to losing ones virginity. Traditionally the view is that one must have penetrative sex to lose it. A side note though, rape includes forced oral sex in Ireland.

Interestingly some don't consider men to have lost their virginity until they have sex without a condom.

Its all in the mind!

ardle1

markomuscle wrote: »

Do you lose your virginity when you are a participant in oral sex?

The reason I ask is because there is an erotic massage parlour (with optional extras) in my college town and I don't want to 'lose my virginity' to an escort/prostitute.

F#*k, no flies on u, I'd say am nearly twice your age,and I still wouldn't go near any of those dirty skanks, anyway you've a lot to learn before u go down that road..... no hot chicks in your class or what!!

markomuscle

ardle1 wrote: »

F#*k, no flies on u, I'd say am nearly twice your age,and I still wouldn't go near any of those dirty skanks, anyway you've a lot to learn before u go down that road..... no hot chicks in your class or what!!

you would be surprised, google Rileys Massage

ardle1

Senor Fancy Pants wrote: »

Does anyone know if you are still a virgin, if you put your pee pee between the mattress and the bed base and bang it?!

yes, a very short virgin:D

ardle1

markomuscle wrote: »

you would be surprised, google Rileys Massage

I'll take your word for it:cool:

dxhound2005

markomuscle wrote: »

I own a pair of underwear from pornstar Lacie James.

markomuscle wrote: »

Do you lose your virginity when you are a participant in oral sex?

The reason I ask is because there is an erotic massage parlour (with optional extras) in my college town and I don't want to 'lose my virginity' to an escort/prostitute.

Young man, I feel somehow that you are neglecting your studies.

kowloon

Candie wrote: »

It's a sex act, but I think it takes intercourse for you to be in the club.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_QuSAJHA7g

Muise...

only if you count past 68.

weiland79

corkgsxr wrote: »

Anal id say ya it counts.

In Bangkok last year myself and the wife were having a drink in a gay bar. Not particularly nice bar in fact the clientele were quite seedy. Anyway stayed for a few drinks and got chatting to the owner and in time to the young guys that worked there entertaining the guests. It turned out that most of the were in fact heterosexual and in some cases married with kids.
I have to say it kind of blew me away but I had to ask, how could they do what they do with other men and not be gay and of course they do it because they don't have any other choice, but what really struck me was one of them said that they don't let the men have sex with them or in other words they only give and do not receive and therefore it doesn't count.

Caonima

weiland79 wrote: »

In Bangkok last year myself and the wife were having a drink in a gay bar. Not particularly nice bar in fact the clientele were quite seedy. Anyway stayed for a few drinks and got chatting to the owner and in time to the young guys that worked there entertaining the guests. It turned out that most of the were in fact heterosexual and in some cases married with kids.
I have to say it kind of blew me away but I had to ask, how could they do what they do with other men and not be gay and of course they do it because they don't have any other choice, but what really struck me was one of them said that they don't let the men have sex with them or in other words they only give and do not receive and therefore it doesn't count.

Doesn't matter, had sex

But seriously, no, that's gay.

BillyMitchel

What town you in?!

Seriously though OP if she swallows you're not. Best be careful though she can get pregnant and when conceived that way it's usually twins.

They cost a fortune. I had to sell 1 half of my twins they cost that much. In no time you'll have to drop out of college and she'll be pimping your bum out.

markomuscle

BillyMitchel wrote: »

What town you in?!

Seriously though OP if she swallows you're not. Best be careful though she can get pregnant and when conceived that way it's usually twins.

They cost a fortune. I had to sell 1 half of my twins they cost that much. In no time you'll have to drop out of college and she'll be pimping your bum out.

Manchester, the hub of escorting in the UK, instead of a post-match swimming pool session the manchester united squad have a gang bang.

ardle1

markomuscle wrote: »

Do you lose your virginity when you are a participant in oral sex?

The reason I ask is because there is an erotic massage parlour (with optional extras) in my college town and I don't want to 'lose my virginity' to an escort/prostitute.

Look you know your self m8 it's not 'sex' and you'll still be a virgin when you leave!, go for it anyway, until you find some gorgeous English Rose who cant resist your Irish accent... I would do it the other way round, but your choice.. Oh and btw if you get the Rose first you wont waste your money in that massage parlour!!!!

Earthwalker

markomuscle wrote: »

i guess it's only sex if there there is chance of creating a baby..

You do realise that that would mean that all gay people are eternal virgins?