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  • 31-08-2013 1:10pm
    #1
    Jean summer
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  • #2
    maria34
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    Jean summer wrote: »
    Hi all
    Just wanted to get others opinions as sometimes I think I might be blowing things out of proportion.

    I've been seeing a guy for over 6months now things where going great. My problem is at the start he was very up front about his feeling so I always knew where I stood but lately he has slowed down I still get I love u but that's about it. We both have complications in our lives where we see each other maybe 3 times a week at most and the rest if his time he spends with his ex ( to see his 3 kids) but I'm am finding it harder and harder to except this. I also have kids but my ex does not spend all his spare time with me. So I am feeling a bit unsure.
    They other day he was with friend while talking to me and they said jokingly "tell her u love her" and his response was why would I tell her that when I only know her a few months and I was gutted not because he wouldn't say it but because of the stupid comment he made instead of saying it . I would never be embarrassed to say I love him. Sorry if I'm rambling on just a lot going through my mind
    Thanks in advance

    How long time ago they broke up? And who broke up he or she?

    That comment was stupid, i would be feeling unsafe aswell to be honest.


  • #3
    daisybelle2008
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭daisybelle2008


    Jean summer wrote: »
    Hi all
    Just wanted to get others opinions as sometimes I think I might be blowing things out of proportion.

    I've been seeing a guy for over 6months now things where going great. My problem is at the start he was very up front about his feeling so I always knew where I stood but lately he has slowed down I still get I love u but that's about it. We both have complications in our lives where we see each other maybe 3 times a week at most and the rest if his time he spends with his ex ( to see his 3 kids) but I'm am finding it harder and harder to except this. I also have kids but my ex does not spend all his spare time with me. So I am feeling a bit unsure.
    They other day he was with friend while talking to me and they said jokingly "tell her u love her" and his response was why would I tell her that when I only know her a few months and I was gutted not because he wouldn't say it but because of the stupid comment he made instead of saying it . I would never be embarrassed to say I love him. Sorry if I'm rambling on just a lot going through my mind
    Thanks in advance

    When I read your first few lines i thought wow telling you 'I love you' is soon after 6 months, but it's cool if that's how you both feel. What he said to his fried is really strange, as he is telling you he loves you.

    I don't really understand why you refer to him spending time with his ex and you put into brackets it's to spend time with his kids. Is he still living with her? To be honest maybe he isn't ready for a serious relationship (at least not as serious as you expect). If his level of involvement with his family & ex is an issue for you, maybe time to move on.


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