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Can I trust my girlfriend?

  • 23-08-2013 7:33pm
    #1
    Roberto89
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭


    Hi


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  • #2
    iusedtoknow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,698 ✭✭✭iusedtoknow


    She isn't your girlfriend anymore, she is an ex. You're going to have to deal with that. She broke up with you, and even though it is really insensitive, she can do as she pleases.

    You also need to change your living situation, for your own good.

    Sorry to be so blunt...


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    I have a feeling you might be broken up completely. That's what it seems to me. Don't know why either of you agreed for a living situation like that - especially as a young couple! How old are either of you?


  • #4
    Esoteric_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    She wants to be single for a while. As it stands, she's now single.

    Regardless of whether or not you can trust her - do you want to be with somebody who decided to take time out of the relationship to (by the sounds of it) sleep with other people?

    If she loved you, would she really want to sleep with other people?


  • #5
    iusedtoknow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,698 ✭✭✭iusedtoknow


    Roberto89 wrote: »
    I meant to say we are broken up till we get home. She want to talk again tonight to re-asses the situation but I'm not sure i can trust her any more after the way she has been acting and what she has been saying

    and you would want to get back with her after she treated you like that? You're best of out of that one.

    7 years is a long time, but no one deserves treatment like that.


  • #6
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Roberto89 wrote: »
    That's exactly what I am thinking. You can't do that to someone after 7 years especially when abroad

    They can do anything they want, to be honest, abroad or not. You're 22 and have been together 7 years. I find that insane!


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  • #7
    Mr. Incognito
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    Get out now. This girl wants her cake and cream too. Scoring this lad and keeping you sweet.

    You already know this. I wouldn't score anyone. She will paint you as the bad guy then. Keep the head down. Blank her. Get home and get as far away from her as possible. She will have her fun and come crawling back. If you take her back then the next time the itch bites she will not hesitate. Sorry mate. She is not a keeper


  • #8
    iusedtoknow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,698 ✭✭✭iusedtoknow


    Roberto89 wrote: »
    That's exactly what I am thinking. You can't do that to someone after 7 years especially when abroad

    people can do what ever they want, time is nothing to choice.

    I know you're going to feel rough about this, but seriously - you have to admit to yourself that she is treating you like crap and you deserve better.

    She obviously doesn't care about your feelings, you have to admit it and try to move on. If neccessary change your flights to go home, or go away until you are flying back.


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