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moving on from a guy

  • 15-06-2013 11:42pm
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    LegacyUser
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    right, ive been absolutely crazy about a guy friend, for about 7 months. but a few months ago i heard from a mutual friend that he was "mad about" me, but didnt want to ruin our friendship cos we are really good friends. and everyone was always asking if we were going out cos we were always together! the past few months, nothing has been happening with him. im still crazy about him, i believe we are perfect for eachother. i havent even been dating anyone else (up until my new guy!). but i mean nothing has been happening, so i figured, as hard and all as it is to admit, he's just not into me anymore. i actually kind of think he would be a terrible boyfriend too!! i know from some of his characteristics!!! i know if we had a chat about what was goin on between us, it would get even more awkward and we might end up not being friends.

    a month ago, i met a new guy! hes a wonderful guy, hes nice, generous, good sense of humour, cute, good job and really reliable!! hes just a really good catch all round. i know he likes me a lot, he makes such an effort for me and i really do like him a lot too!! but he still doesnt measure up to my friend, and i dont think anyone will really!! :( i can see myself in a solid relationship with the new guy, but sometimes all i can think about is how he's not my friend!! i dont see my friend as much the past month cos he's moved county for the summer, but we occasionally chat over facebook. i even had a dream the other night that my friend kissed me, it wasnt a sex dream lol, it was just a lovely dream, and i woke up a little sad.
    i dont want to, but i think im kind of holding out for him, which i know is stupid!!!!! how do i get over this??!!
    how do i just move on from my friend?? he doesnt know im seeing someone new now, cos i dont want to just blurt it out (especially over a text or facebook!!) and it could look like im trying to rub it in his face or something!! if the subject came up i would tell him.
    its driving me nuts, and i want things to work with my new guy!!! :(


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