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  • 12-06-2013 12:32am
    #1
    darlinglass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭


    hey all...im here to pick ye'r brains.
    ill try to keep this short n sweet like myself !
    so ex and i broke up six months ago.
    he ended it citing needing space.
    i was gutted beyond anything..and mourned..maybe still mourning a tad.
    we had plans to work abroad he went on but
    i didnt due to family health stuff that arose. anywho after like five months of silence between us he emails me. saying he was sorry that he needed to figure his life out i deserve better and he cant say bye to me.
    i replied n told him look you really hurt me n that he had made his decision.
    for a month i didnt get a reply. now he is emailing me askin how work is ..how the family is etc.
    i just dont get it... he will b home in maybe eight months so what is he playing at....
    is it possible he is mourning now ??
    all theories and advice welcome
    xx


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  • #2
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    He got his space and now realizes that things aren't that great. He is probably a bit lonely where he is now and is remembering the good times he had with you and is now wondering how you are and if you have moved on. I can't say what is going on in his mind, I suppose it will take a few e-mails from him to find out. It could be that he would like to get back with you when her returns and he is trying to find out how you feel about that. You told him that he had his chance and he blew it so he is now trying to build up a friendship. You won't know until he tells you what he is up to.


  • #3
    darlinglass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭darlinglass


    Thanks for that Lorna!
    It's just confusing, like I did tell him he made his decision (didn't say i ruled out getting back tgether) but i just don't know. hope he is realising that he may have made a mistake.


  • #4
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    He is obviously trying to find out how the land lies. It would appear to me like he is trying to find out if you would go back with him. You told him he really hurt you and that he made his decision so he could take from that that you are not going back to him. I don't really know. It is encouraging though that he has written again. Just wait and see how the e-mails go and in time you will know what is on his mind. Best of Luck.


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