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Do I have any chance?

  • 04-06-2013 11:47PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 144 ✭✭


    Right I'll keep this short.

    Met this girl in a pub 2 weeks ago, she's from Belfast. I was really attracted to her but she had a boyfriend so nothing happened. However, we have been texting each other everyday since, sometimes hours upon end. We have flirted a bit but she always goes back to saying that she loves her bf. She wants to meet up next week when she is down for work, she says as friends. I'm not so sure as I'm getting mixed signals. Do I try it on with her again? or Should I act as a gentleman and be her friend as requested. Really confused!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,067 ✭✭✭✭Panthro


    Don't bother your hole with her.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Right I'll keep this short.

    Met this girl in a pub 2 weeks ago, she's from Belfast. I was really attracted to her but she had a boyfriend so nothing happened. However, we have been texting each other everyday since, sometimes hours upon end. We have flirted a bit but she always goes back to saying that she loves her bf. She wants to meet up next week when she is down for work, she says as friends. I'm not so sure as I'm getting mixed signals. Do I try it on with her again? or Should I act as a gentleman and be her friend as requested. Really confused!!

    Don't meet up with her, she's a head-wrecker and you'll get hurt.

    You're just an ego boost.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 144 ✭✭HappyBalance


    She did say she was low on confidence, so makes sense


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,255 ✭✭✭✭Esoteric_


    you're an ego boost. move on.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 19 beerfart


    Ur definitely getting the ride!!! Bang the crap out of her!


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  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    She did say she was low on confidence, so makes sense


    If she flirts with you for hours on end and then says she loves her boyfriend, you get a pretty clear picture of how she operates. Don't waste any more texts on her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,687 ✭✭✭Karl Stein


    Should I act as a gentleman and be her friend as requested.

    No.
    Do I try it on with her again?

    Yes.

    If nothing comes of it walk away and get on with your life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,490 ✭✭✭monflat


    No don't cause if something does happen she will run back to him saying your a mistake.

    Just erase her number u don't need her to use you for her gratification. .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Tonto86


    She sounds like the kinda girl that needs fellas to want her. She'll string ya along with no chance of getting anywhere.

    Don't waste your time bro


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Run a mile!!

    Or post in personal issues.

    You'll get no sensible advice here, apart from mine.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,863 ✭✭✭worded


    Candie wrote: »
    If she flirts with you for hours on end and then says she loves her boyfriend, you get a pretty clear picture of how she operates. Don't waste any more texts on her.


    You can get all you can eat date her from 3


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,615 ✭✭✭Fox_In_Socks


    You can text me instead, OP. I'm a 6 foot heterosexual male wth zero interest in you.

    You'll have better luck with me than her.:)


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    worded wrote: »
    You can get all you can eat date her from 3
    I see what you did :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 270 ✭✭redzerredzer


    If you end up going out with her, should I tell the guy she's meeting as a friend when she is back in Belfast to go for it.
    Scoring someone in a relationship is not a good thing to do.
    And she sounds like a tramp.
    Could you trust her if you did end up together? Find someone else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 144 ✭✭HappyBalance


    So should I move on? I do like her physically and her personality


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 810 ✭✭✭fermanagh_man


    Her boyfriend is in the UVF or The RA


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,490 ✭✭✭monflat


    So should I move on? I do like her physically and her personality


    Shag that ....... move on erase her number and see how many times SHE TEXTS YOU don't answer her though she may get message then


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,479 ✭✭✭Notorious97


    Why bother OP? Shes just out for a confidence boost, is she the type you would like to call a gf? Sure you couldnt trust her not to be doing the same thing to you!

    Sorry couldnt think of a smart arse reply so thought id just give sensible advice!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,454 ✭✭✭jobeenfitz


    just tell her you'l meet her if its more than friends. Ball in her court. If she not interested, then forget her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    So should I move on? I do like her physically and her personality

    Sorry, I've no idea. If only someone could have given you some advice!
    Panthro wrote: »
    Don't bother your hole with her.
    Candie wrote: »
    Don't meet up with her, she's a head-wrecker and you'll get hurt.

    You're just an ego boost.
    Esoteric_ wrote: »
    you're an ego boost. move on.
    Candie wrote: »
    If she flirts with you for hours on end and then says she loves her boyfriend, you get a pretty clear picture of how she operates. Don't waste any more texts on her.
    monflat wrote: »
    No don't cause if something does happen she will run back to him saying your a mistake.

    Just erase her number u don't need her to use you for her gratification. .
    Tonto86 wrote: »
    She sounds like the kinda girl that needs fellas to want her. She'll string ya along with no chance of getting anywhere.

    Don't waste your time bro
    Run a mile!!

    Or post in personal issues.

    You'll get no sensible advice here, apart from mine.
    If you end up going out with her, should I tell the guy she's meeting as a friend when she is back in Belfast to go for it.
    Scoring someone in a relationship is not a good thing to do.
    And she sounds like a tramp.
    Could you trust her if you did end up together? Find someone else.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 19 beerfart


    If ever in doubt I always ask myself what would Charlie Sheen do? I'd go for it, do the deed and then not bother my hole with her. But I do like the idea of sex buddies. Yea definitely sex Buddies


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,996 ✭✭✭✭billymitchell


    Dont mind the haterz op, they be trippin. If you really like her, go for it. I can 100% gaurantee she will give you the ride and you will not be disappointed. 100%


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 144 ✭✭HappyBalance


    Cheers guys, Il txt her the morning to say that I can't make it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,305 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Prodston


    Jebus, I feel bad even though I haven't contributed yet. AH has single-handedly crushed this young man's hopes and dreams. Who's to say she wouldn't leave her bf in the name of true-love? (Well pretty much everyone in here , but sssssh) This thread is more than just this man's hope of love it is a reflection of AH as a whole, he turned to us for hope and reassurance and look what we did. We crushed him in one foul swoop :(

    This lady may be the real deal or she may be a she-devil but ask her openly and who knows you may be rewarded. I believe in all things great. Are you great?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    Cheers guys, Il txt her the morning to say that I can't make it!

    Nah fu(k that man. give it one more shot and if it doesnt work then walk away. ya never know, ya might get her to do something she'll regret


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,195 ✭✭✭irish son


    Cheers guys, Il txt her the morning to say that I can't make it!

    I'd go meet her if I were you op, you will be able to tell better how she feels about you afterwards and if you are getting on well and you think she likes you you can say something along the lines of 'I know we said we were just going to be friends but I really like you and don't think I can be just a friend'. You have showed your hand and now its up to her. The worst that can happen is she says no, do you really want her as a friend? I doubt it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭highgiant1985




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,521 ✭✭✭ardle1


    Cheers guys, Il txt her the morning to say that I can't make it!

    Eh no mmmmm we where only jokin,eh just havin a laugh:),txt her tomorrow and ask her if her boyfriend was ever in jail for membership or GBH or if he's overly protective or even suicidal,, so when you get ALL that cleared go for it.... The main thing is 'DONT WORRY'


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 95,643 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    Her boyfriend is in the UVF or The RA
    or the UDA , PSNI , INLA, IPLO, CIRA , Orange Order, PIRA , Óglaigh, LVF, RHD, UFF or could be a squadie or MI5 or in the GAA.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,147 ✭✭✭PizzamanIRL


    She wants you. She just doesn't want to come across as easy by making the first move. She wants you to try it on with her so she can blame you when she gets caught.


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