Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Living your entire life without ever having sex. Does that make you a loser?

  • 23-05-2013 10:58pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 734 ✭✭✭


    Is sex a right or a privilege?

    Is it as good as it looks?


Comments

  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,464 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Sex is over-rated.Make money instead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,068 ✭✭✭LoonyLovegood


    Make money BY having sex.

    Wait, that's illegal. Dammit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,204 ✭✭✭dodderangler


    A loser- no
    A virgin -yes


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,972 Mod ✭✭✭✭Insect Overlord


    Yes.
    A privilege.
    And no - it's better. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 257 ✭✭Red About Town


    You would be missing out on something very enjoyable and natural.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,557 ✭✭✭KeithM89


    Tom_Cruise wrote: »
    Is it as good as it looks?

    It doesnt 'look' very good at all, what with all the sweaty, flailing limbs, hair and moist, pink bodyparts. And dont get me started on the smell! Its like a fishmongers on a hot day.

    But its still great.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,380 ✭✭✭✭Banjo String


    Susan Boyle said it doesn't.


  • Site Banned Posts: 124 ✭✭The Queen of England


    It'd definitely make you a wanker.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    Scylla wrote: »
    It doesnt 'look' very good at all, what with all the sweaty, flailing limbs, hair and moist, pink bodyparts. And dont get me started on the smell! Its like a fishmongers on a hot day.

    But its still great.
    What on earth are you riding? :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    Scylla wrote: »
    It doesnt 'look' very good at all, what with all the sweaty, flailing limbs, hair and moist, pink bodyparts. And dont get me started on the smell! Its like a fishmongers on a hot day.

    But its still great.

    Stop having sex with fish ffs.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭garv123


    Sex is like vegetables, If you're forced to have it as a child by your parents, you wont like it as an adult.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,124 ✭✭✭wolfpawnat


    Most people fake how good it looks. TV is lying. It's not all loud moans and outstanding orgasms.

    Is it good? Can be, not all the time and both people need to know how to make it good for the other.

    Can you live life without it, yes.

    Can you live a full life without it, yes.

    Does it make you a loser not to have it, no. Some people are so obsessed with having it these days, losing their virginity at 11 years old. It's insanity.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 134 ✭✭Tulipout


    +1 Exactly like vegetables


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,089 ✭✭✭✭LizT


    Scylla wrote: »
    It doesnt 'look' very good at all, what with all the sweaty, flailing limbs, hair and moist, pink bodyparts. And dont get me started on the smell! Its like a fishmongers on a hot day.

    But its still great.

    Oh stop it, you old romantic you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭HondaSami


    wolfpawnat wrote: »
    It's not all loud moans and outstanding orgasms.

    Speak for yourself. :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    if u have sex

    you will get aids

    and you will die

    SHE DOESN'T EVEN GO HERE!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 162 ✭✭iMac_Hunt


    Sex is good. You're not a loser if you go through life without sex, however, you're definitely missing out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,124 ✭✭✭wolfpawnat


    Sounds to me like a lads trip to Amsterdam is needed really.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 makemytay


    sex is overrated and a good ****e is underrated.


    my first post!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 162 ✭✭iMac_Hunt


    wolfpawnat wrote: »
    Sounds to me like a lads trip to Amsterdam is needed really.

    You're a bigger loser if you have to resort to paying for sex.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,124 ✭✭✭wolfpawnat


    iMac_Hunt wrote: »
    You're a bigger loser if you have to resort to paying for sex.

    No one ever knows so ;)

    Ah as I said, it's all relative. personally, I like being in a relationship with my partner, not being nervous about what I look like, knowing what we like, but some people prefer more new sex. To each their own. I just don't get the obsession some people have with it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    If you live your entire life without sex you just happen to be someone who lived their entire life without having sex. No big deal.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    There are many things in life that are much more important than sex.











    Apparently.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,116 ✭✭✭starviewadams


    iMac_Hunt wrote: »
    You're a bigger loser if you have to resort to paying for sex.

    Bollocks,friend of mine has had sex with lots of pornstars who were on escort tours here over the years,he would never have got the chance if he didn't pay for it,and it sounded like he had great fun.

    Each to their own,though wouldn't be able to afford it myself!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 908 ✭✭✭Tazium


    Sex is in the mind as well as the physical act. You might go without the physical but you'd be quite unusual if you could turn off the mind for the duration of your life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    well at least acquire currency


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 162 ✭✭iMac_Hunt


    Bollocks,friend of mine has had sex with lots of pornstars who were on escort tours here over the years,he would never have got the chance if he didn't pay for it,and it sounded like he had great fun.

    Each to their own,though wouldn't be able to afford it myself!

    Wouldn't be my cup of tea. I don't see the point in paying someone to have sex with you, pornstar or not. I don't understand how someone could enjoy sex knowing the person they are having sex with is only doing it for the money. That's just me though and as you said, each to their own.

    I know I pay for it in other ways but money does not exchange hands for it :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    Tazium wrote: »
    Sex is in the mind as well as the physical act. You might go without the physical but you'd be quite unusual if you could turn off the mind for the duration of your life.
    I think you'd be asexual if you didn't think about it at all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,417 ✭✭✭WinnyThePoo


    It's all about the honey!


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    Why U No Have SEX Tom? no, it doesn't make you a loser. I wouldn't be ruling it out for "your entire life" though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,886 ✭✭✭✭Roger_007


    The only reason we are here is to procreate. No sex makes no sense. In nature a virgin is a non-fcuking waster!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,578 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Roger_007 wrote: »
    The only reason we are here is to procreate. No sex makes no sense. In nature a virgin is a non-fcuking waster!

    I'd rephrase that as 'We are only here because we procreate', that we continue to do so is only due to us continuing to follow a natural impulse, one that many don't have or choose to ignore. Also: birth control.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 420 ✭✭Mr Tibbs


    As a man once said when sex is good its very good and when sex is bad ah well is still not that bad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 305 ✭✭Kichote


    Why would someone not have sex? Sure there are plenty of women wanting to have sex with just about any guy now


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,430 ✭✭✭Ilik Urgee


    I'd imagine it's one of those "what you never had you'll never miss" scenarios.

    I've only just realised that young wan that pulled me off and raped me in the graveyard after the disco actually did me no favours in the long run:mad:


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    Kichote wrote: »
    Why would someone not have sex? Sure there are plenty of women wanting to have sex with just about any guy now

    Maybe OP feels he doesn't fit into the "just about" part though. I think he has some low self esteem issues judging by his threads, and should really get some help on the auld confidence rather than looking for answers on this sh1t-hole.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,571 ✭✭✭newmug


    No it doesn't make you a loser. I hate that attitude. I have the utmost respect for anyone who disciplines themselves not to have sex, whatever their reasons, and who doesn't feel ashamed or "peer pressured" into it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,244 ✭✭✭sdanseo


    CTYIgirl wrote: »
    Make money BY having sex.

    Wait, that's illegal. Dammit.

    Actually, it's not. Soliciting is.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,405 ✭✭✭Lightbulb Sun


    If you live your entire life without sex you just happen to be someone who lived their entire life without having sex. No big deal.

    Plenty of those kind of people around. Like Catholic priests. Oh wait.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    CTYIgirl wrote: »
    Make money BY having sex.

    Wait, that's illegal. Dammit.
    Become a porn star.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,311 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Tom_Cruise wrote: »
    Is sex a right or a privilege?

    Is it as good as it looks?

    Will we ever get an opinion on questions you ask in an OP?

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



This discussion has been closed.
Advertisement