Best way to get over something?

af_thefragile

Well after something ****ty happens to you, what's the best way to get over it and move on? Apart from drugs and alcohol that is...

P.S. Its not a break up or a personal issue. I know I'll get over this soon, just need something to clear my head for now...

Dfmnoc

Build a bridge

petes

Ride someone else.

af_thefragile

Dfmnoc wrote: »

Build a bridge

haha... took me a while to get the pun!

tin79

Drugs and Alcohol.

danniemcq

Lift one leg move it to the other side and place it on the ground, then do the same with the other one

AnonoBoy

Jetpack.

Duggy747

Talk and act like Christopher Walken.

mattjack

Ladder ?

af_thefragile

Wondering how long one needs to wait around in AH before you finally get a somewhat decent reply...

SEPT 23 1989

brutal revenge

homeless student

af_thefragile wrote: »

Well after something ****ty happens to you, what's the best way to get over it and move on? Apart from drugs and alcohol that is...

depends what happened you?

tin79

af_thefragile wrote: »

Wondering how long one needs to wait around in AH before you finally get a somewhat decent reply...

Long enough to go find the personal issues forum I would say.

af_thefragile

homeless student wrote: »

depends what happened you?

Not a breakup.
Just something ****ty I'm will most likely get over in a couple of days time but for the moment need to get my mind off it... Don't wanna reveal too much personal info...

tin79 wrote: »

Long enough to go find the personal issues forum I would say.

Not really a personal issue. I know I'll get over it in a day or twos time, just need something to clear my head now...

petes

af_thefragile wrote: »

Wondering how long one needs to wait around in AH before you finally get a somewhat decent reply...

Well that's just it isn't it. You gave little or no detail in your OP so how is anyone expected to suggest something to you when we don't know what happened!

missingtime

af_thefragile wrote: »

Not a breakup.
Just something ****ty I'm will most likely get over in a couple of days time but for the moment need to get my mind off it... Don't wanna reveal too much personal info...

A movie?

Boscoirl

porn

Ruu

Just burn or bury the sheets, happens to us all at some stage.

oldyouth

Slap some golf balls at the driving range, pretending the ball is the person who annoyed you

stefan idiot jones

Do nothing, just let it fester inside.

SEPT 23 1989

Did your pet die?

tin79

af_thefragile wrote: »

Not a breakup.
Just something ****ty I'm will most likely get over in a couple of days time but for the moment need to get my mind off it... Don't wanna reveal too much personal info...


Not really a personal issue. I know I'll get over it in a day or twos time, just need something to clear my head now...

A long walk out in the fresh air, a nice lunch, a movie and an early night might help.

af_thefragile

I may go for a drive... Only thing is the NCT has expired and the closest test date is in July so I'm only taking out the car when its absolutely necessary...

danniemcq

af_thefragile wrote: »

Not a breakup.
Just something ****ty I'm will most likely get over in a couple of days time but for the moment need to get my mind off it... Don't wanna reveal too much personal info...

are you Jeff Goldblum trying to climb over a mountain of Triceratops poo?

SEPT 23 1989

af_thefragile wrote: »

I may go for a drive... Only thing is the NCT has expired and the closest test date is in July so I'm only taking out the car when its absolutely necessary...

probably for the best you don't want the law involved

stefan idiot jones

af_thefragile wrote: »

I may go for a drive... Only thing is the NCT has expired and the closest test date is in July so I'm only taking out the car when its absolutely necessary...

Don't go near Beachy Head.

SusieBlue

Distract yourself with something that makes you happy

tin79

af_thefragile wrote: »

I may go for a drive... Only thing is the NCT has expired and the closest test date is in July so I'm only taking out the car when its absolutely necessary...

If you have the booking letter you will be fine. The whole NCT system is creaking. I think the powers that be realise that.

stefan idiot jones

Did you get your mickey caught in your zip ?

Bipolar Joe

Find something that fits your current mood (It doesn't necessarily have to relate to your situation). Watching a depressing film when you're depressed sort of recalibrates your brain, same with happy movies when you're happy, or music or a book or something like that. Trust me on this. Sounds counter-intuitive, but it's how your brain works.

S28382

I find hiking it good way to get the head clear, its nice to hike a mountain sit at the top and clear the head plus its good for the fitness.

Mr Benevolent

Climb over it, don't just stand there.

Is it a fence?

Fr_Dougal

af_thefragile wrote: »

Not a breakup.
Just something ****ty I'm will most likely get over in a couple of days time but for the moment need to get my mind off it... Don't wanna reveal too much personal info...


Not really a personal issue. I know I'll get over it in a day or twos time, just need something to clear my head now...

Was drink involved?

af_thefragile

stefan idiot jones wrote: »

Do nothing, just let it fester inside.

Not a good idea. Been doing that for a while, didn't do much good!

danniemcq wrote: »

are you Jeff Goldblum trying to climb over a mountain of Triceratops poo?

I wish!

WhiteRoses wrote: »

Distract yourself with something that makes you happy

Been playing videogames for the past while and now they just make me feel a little sick and like I'm just wasting my time...

I've got a movie cued up for the night though. Don't feel like watching one right now.

tin79 wrote: »

If you have the booking letter you will be fine. The whole NCT system is creaking. I think the powers that be realise that.

Good idea, just checked the nct website and found a free slot on the 27th of may so I guess I can use the booking letter...

sbsquarepants

af_thefragile wrote: »

I may go for a drive... Only thing is the NCT has expired and the closest test date is in July so I'm only taking out the car when its absolutely necessary...

It's all going tits up for you buddy.
I'd consider hibernation, things will be better in month or two.

beano345

xanax the s**t out of it!

danniemcq

af_thefragile wrote: »

I've got a movie cued up for the night though. Don't feel like watching one right now.

make sure its not any of these

Jerry (possibly Gerry)
The United States of Leland
Rain Man
Good Will Hunting

I made the mistake of watching the last 3 back to back after a weekend of drinking for my 22nd birthday when i was still going on the Sunday night (everyone else had work monday) and those movies mixed with the DTs and general downer after 5 days on the sesh made me quite depressed

Gummy Panda

Masturbate furiously like Naomi Watts in Mulholland Drive

lahalane

www.sporcle.com

af_thefragile

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Was drink involved?

Nah, ok if this is helpful in anyway, found out i failed my exams and now have to sit repeats... So feel kinda ****ty right now but will move on with it soon enough...

af_thefragile

danniemcq wrote: »

make sure its not any of these

Jerry (possibly Gerry)
The United States of Leland
Rain Man
Good Will Hunting

I made the mistake of watching the last 3 back to back after a weekend of drinking for my 22nd birthday when i was still going on the Sunday night (everyone else had work monday) and those movies mixed with the DTs and general downer after 5 days on the sesh made me quite depressed

Its Ponyo.
I've been on a Hayao Miyazaki streak lately. Everything of him that I watch ends up going straight in my Top 10 films! And I guess I can safely say Spirited Away is possibly the best film I've ever watched!

stefan idiot jones

O.K. I've got it.............get a f*ckin' grip.

homeless student

af_thefragile wrote: »

Nah, ok if this is helpful in anyway, found out i failed my exams and now have to sit repeats... So feel kinda ****ty right now but will move on with it soon enough...

college exams? what year are you in?

af_thefragile

homeless student wrote: »

college exams? what year are you in?

Final year. Which makes the whole graduation go poo poo...

sbsquarepants

af_thefragile wrote: »

Nah, ok if this is helpful in anyway, found out i failed my exams and now have to sit repeats... So feel kinda ****ty right now but will move on with it soon enough...

Oh, well in that case. Less drinking, ****, game playing, movie watching and illegal driving and a bit more studying should see things come right.

stefan idiot jones

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Oh, well in that case. Less drinking, ****, game playing, movie watching and illegal driving and a bit more studying should see things come right.

class

entropi

af_thefragile wrote: »

Nah, ok if this is helpful in anyway, found out i failed my exams and now have to sit repeats... So feel kinda ****ty right now but will move on with it soon enough...

Repeats are not so bad! At least you've been given that chance, and you should have plenty of time to prepare for them (hopefully). Don't let it get you down. Go outdoors for a bit, do something else, and that feeling will go away after a day or two and you won't even realise it.

af_thefragile

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Oh, well in that case. Less drinking, ****, game playing, movie watching and illegal driving and a bit more studying should see things come right.

Well I've got 3 months now till the repeats so I've gotta make the most out of it.
I will acknowledge I did spend the past 2 months doing exactly the above (except for the illegal driving) and I've become and incessantly lazy bum which made the exam results sort of inevitable.

Now I've gotta change my mindset and I'm also quite sick of being a lazy bum. Its also made me quite unhealty and unfit so I've gotta mop up my life back together and move on.

bacon n eggs

In time you will realise that whilst this is a set back, that's what it is. So yes you have another year to do. Not planned but what's meant for you will not pass you. Have a good summer come back in Sept refreshed and knuckle down so you won't be in this place next year.

homeless student

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Oh, well in that case. Less drinking, ****, game playing, movie watching and illegal driving and a bit more studying should see things come right.

illegal driving?

dont worry op, just another jealous person who never went to college.:pac:

brokenarms

Is it a death you are trying to forget? When things get really hard , I pray. I'm a sceptic of religious stuff in normal mode, but when your head is really fried comfort can be found in faith.