How do you deal with rejection ?

Festy

Do you just move on to the next gal/guy or do you just wallow in self pity

Itwasntme.

Voodoo dolls and pins.

Festy

Itwasntme. wrote: »

Voodoo dolls and pins.

Just logged back in to thank this post.:pac:

Ruudi_Mentari

Festy wrote: »

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Having wiped the sweat from your brow for fear of rejection!

tdv123

Revengeful assault.

Esoteric_

I don't get rejected. :cool:

Richard Hillman

I don't put myself in a position to get rejected

IM0

chloraform usually

wardy2

Fat birds are easy

Ruudi_Mentari

what i tend to do s just go home, and maybe stimulate a little ejection

ToddyDoody

With Grace, humility, depression, humor, panic, perspective and distraction.

Schnitzel Muncher

wardy2 wrote: »

Fat birds are easy

Easy to carry?

Potential-Monke

Fleshlight, Rum and Haribo.

bacon n eggs

With the rejecters pet rabbit in a nice stew.

Wibbs

Think to myself "Next". There are billions of people in the world, you've a lot of choice.

Littlehorny

I find a girl that looks just like her and then I dump her!

anncoates

Abduction.

davet82

soil myself while roaring aggressively

HondaSami

You learn from the experience and become a better person, after you've cried yourself to sleep for a week.

Wacker The Attacker

My gigantic mickey is irresistible.

DrArse

Get them in a headlock

Sauve

Festy wrote: »

Do you just move on to the next gal/guy or do you just wallow in self pity

Don't ever aspire to being with someone who doesn't think you're only feckin brilliant.
Anything less and you're selling yourself short

So yeah, move on. And quickly!

Rented Mule

I completely reject rejection in all of it's forms.

Gmol

'my friend' would watch dirty dancing and eat tubs of ben and jerries, so I would, er I mean they would

BrokenArrows

Easy.

You just reject the rejection and become a stalker! lol.

armaghbhoy

I don't ever recall being rejected unless someone I've already been with counts..but one way to deal with it is - find someone way better looking...Some girls will also get jealous of this, and it might even put an end to her rejection.

Sarky

Haven't been rejected so far. After looking at the above posts that makes me feel pretty smug and amazing.

BlimpGaz

In the words of saint nick "Ho ho ho".

belcampprisoner

staulking

irish bloke

wardy2 wrote: »

Fat birds are easy

Schnitzel Muncher wrote: »

Easy to carry?

Only if you have a dump truck

BlimpGaz

irish bloke wrote: »

Only if you have a dump truck

I'd rather take a dump in a truck and then tip it out into my own face, than ride a fat bird. Have yes' no self-respect!

sea_monkey

masturbate in front of them so they see my O face and regret not getting with all of this.

Aced_Up

Target the mom!

NegativeCreep

**** furiously using my tears as lube.

Remmy

swallow sadness

Fluorescence

Pffft. I don't get rejected. I am a delight

hester360

Right now im swimming in an ocean of sadness, hoping to cry myself to sleep, because i have to be up early in the morning. it's my first time to suffer rejection and its not pretty. she was though

tosspot15

I'm actually more terrified of acceptance more so than anything. So much that I'm more likely to reject somebody that would like me, because that would make me super uncomfortable! (not that I would ever be put in that position anyway).

we'llallhavetea

take it as a challenge :pac:

worded

I read a good book on dealing with rejection once. I could give you a loan of it but I'm not going to.

zcorpian88

Go out, get legless, and get the f**k on with it after the hangover, plenty of fish and all that..

hester360

Is it that easy? In my case she said she was with someone but she never mentioned him lately. And she was away all summer so how? Seems like she didn't have the decency to tell me straight. So any other advice for coping other than getting **** faced?

ardle1

Festy wrote: »

Do you just move on to the next gal/guy or do you just wallow in self pity

Most people in their own mind reject them selves, before they give anyone else a chance to reject them!!! make the move everybody,make the move......

hester360

ardle1 wrote: »

Most people in their own mind reject them selves, before they give anyone else a chance to reject them!!! make the move everybody,make the move......

I did.make the move ended up badly for me. Did it ever happen to you?

Mickey H

Shovel.
Bag of lime.

Case Closed.

Sinfonia

If shot down, I - as anyone else would - tend to internalise the pain, and become a self-hating and bitter shell of a man, get drunk, think about my ex-girlfriend and cry.
Eventually one day soon after, a random girl will smile at me, and from then I'll temporarily consider myself to be the f*cking KING.

Standard stuff..

ardle1

hester360 wrote: »

I did.make the move ended up badly for me. Did it ever happen to you?

Lets just say I should practise what I preach!

hester360

ardle1 wrote: »

Lets just say I should practise what I preach!

I see. my mates are telling me to move on but im not telling myself that. Do you think im a fool to hold out for the same girl?

ardle1

hester360 wrote: »

I see. my mates are telling me to move on but im not telling myself that. Do you think im a fool to hold out for the same girl?

Trust me, anyone who's tellin you to move on, either hasn't a clue or was given the same advice by someone else,and should know better(so they're probably arseholes), move on at your own pace, eventually it will get easier, just don't stalk the 'BIACH' she certainly is not worth it.....

old_aussie

wal·low

/ˈwälō/

Verb

(chiefly of large mammals) Roll about or lie relaxed in mud or water, esp. to keep cool

I'm pretty cool and relaxed any hour of life.

hester360

ardle1 wrote: »

Trust me, anyone who's tellin you to move on, either hasn't a clue or was given the same advice by someone else,and should know better(so they're probably arseholes), move on at your own pace, eventually it will get easier, just don't stalk the 'BIACH' she certainly is not worth it.....

thanks for the advice and no i'm not a creep don't worry. recently started college so there really is plenty more fish in the sea...