Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

January 2014 Babies Club

  • 25-04-2013 8:15pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31


    I know, I know, it is very early to start this thread and get excited but here I am. Due 4/1/14, what a lovely date but I'm sure s/he wont arrive exactly then. Anyone else want to join?


«13456721

Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Bump : )


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    ooh congrats:))
    I am not due again but have Jan 09,11 and 13 babies.
    My youngest was born on he 4/1:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Thanks Moonbeam!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Bump d bump d!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    Guest1111 wrote: »
    Bump d bump d!

    Aw! You seem to be hanging out here on your own, but fear not, there'll be more joining you soon - maybe the recent decent weather will have made peeps a little more frisky!! ;)


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hello!

    I was going to hold off on posting here until I knew for sure that my due date will be 2014 and not 2013. But I'm too excited to wait, so I'll just go ahead and start posting! :D

    According to calendar dates, my due date should be 26th December. However, I've been for a couple of scans already (to rule out ectopic pregnancy.) The embryo is exactly where it should be, and all looks good, and hcg is increasing well - however they think my dates are about two weeks behind what I would have thought, so they think I must have ovulated late. I wasn't tracking ovulation etc. So I've another scan Tuesday week, and they'll confirm my due date then. I expect it will be the first week of January 2014.

    I'm having a few symptoms so far! Nausea, lots of water retention, and I'm absolutely exhausted all the time. And, I just found a huge massive spot on my shoulder ... I barely ever got spots even when I was a teenager, definitely not big ones like that! :eek: :o It's all positive though, just means the baby is growing as it should be. :) I was chatting to a friend of mine today who just had a baby girl, and she was saying that in early pregnancy, it was the days she didn't get symptoms that she'd be freaking out, that something had gone wrong!!

    Is this your first, Guest1111? It's my first, and it wasn't exactly planned (although it's a happy surprise!) So myself and himself have a lot to learn ... :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 Karey


    Guest1111 wrote: »
    I know, I know, it is very early to start this thread and get excited but here I am. Due 4/1/14, what a lovely date but I'm sure s/he wont arrive exactly then. Anyone else want to join?

    I'm exactly the same, due 10/01/14, and am very excited, elated and nervous!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Wow, two posts the one day - brilliant!!
    Maybe it is too early to start this thread, suppose I got a bit excited. I'll be back in a few weeks.
    Thanks nikpmup
    Congrats Karey


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Rosy Posy


    Got my official BFP today, although I knew for a couple of days- it's my fourth so I should be getting good at reading the signs- sore boobs, tired, a sudden fondness for marmite and lack of interest in wine.

    I was so nervous breaking the news to my OH, I thought he would flip but he was great- gave me a big hug and said, sure what's another few spuds in the pot! He's definitely getting the snip after this one- the rhythm method sucks!!! We're both very happy all the same. Going to hold off telling people for a while so its nice to have this thread. Looking forward to sharing the journey with you ladies.

    Due in the second week of January (officially 5th but I've gone over every other time so its to be expected).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Just found out today, am due Jan 3rd/4th, was so excited, didn't really hear the date:D

    Feeling grand so far, though expecting the mad tiredness to kick in soon!!.., Its my second, and during my first pregnancy, if i could, i would have slept during the first 3 months:p

    Delighted to be able to share my news, congrats girlies and looking forwarding to seeing how everyone is gettin on over the next few months


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Rosy Posy


    Loadie wrote: »
    Just found out today, am due Jan 3rd/4th, was so excited, didn't really hear the date:D

    Feeling grand so far, though expecting the mad tiredness to kick in soon!!.., Its my second, and during my first pregnancy, if i could, i would have slept during the first 3 months:p

    Delighted to be able to share my news, congrats girlies and looking forwarding to seeing how everyone is gettin on over the next few months

    The tiredness just hit me today. My OH said we should have called the last one 'Tuirseach' because I was so knackered all the time!

    How old is your first? I had 20mths between the first two, which killed me, especially since my eldest was a divil who would try to run away from me in public when I was too big to waddle after him. The three years between the second and third was a lot easier, but my second is very easygoing which makes all the difference. There will be two years and four months between my youngest and the new one which I'm hoping will be manageable. At least now my eldest is responsible enough to make sure the youngfella doesn't get into too much trouble if I need to take a power nap!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Rosy Posy wrote: »
    The tiredness just hit me today. My OH said we should have called the last one 'Tuirseach' because I was so knackered all the time!

    How old is your first? I had 20mths between the first two, which killed me, especially since my eldest was a divil who would try to run away from me in public when I was too big to waddle after him. The three years between the second and third was a lot easier, but my second is very easygoing which makes all the difference. There will be two years and four months between my youngest and the new one which I'm hoping will be manageable. At least now my eldest is responsible enough to make sure the youngfella doesn't get into too much trouble if I need to take a power nap!


    Poor you, that tiredness is a killer, hope ur gettin to put your feet up, somebit Rosy Posy.

    My first has just turned 2, and a live wire at that. Had to laugh (sorry) at the picture of you waddling after your eldest, cause that will be me!!:P
    Hoping that the age gap helps, as i am determined once weather turns nice, ahem, to get her out of nappies, and get us someway organised for new arrival.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Rosy Posy


    Loadie wrote: »
    Poor you, that tiredness is a killer, hope ur gettin to put your feet up, somebit Rosy Posy.

    My first has just turned 2, and a live wire at that. Had to laugh (sorry) at the picture of you waddling after your eldest, cause that will be me!!:P
    Hoping that the age gap helps, as i am determined once weather turns nice, ahem, to get her out of nappies, and get us someway organised for new arrival.

    That sounds like a nice age gap- they'll be close enough to play together in a few years time. Two in nappies was a killer especially if you're a masochist like me and used cloth! (We do live in a significantly sunnier climate than Ireland I should add). The toilet training will be a big load off, but be prepared for some backsliding once baby comes- my 3yo started having accidents again after her little brother arrived. Apparently it's fairly common. You might be lucky tho! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Sorry panda-hugs, I only saw your post now, it is very exciting and surreal. This is my second but still very nervous. I am going to wait until I tell people. Good luck over the next few weeks and talk soon!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    I found out a couple of days ago that I'm expecting my second. I haven't gone to confirm it with the doctor yet but I was feeling nauseous all weekend. I took a test the day my period was due and it came up positive. I'm delighted as we have been trying for a few months now!

    I've calculated that I'm due the 14th of January. It's funny, after 4 days of feeling sick I haven't actually been feeling nauseous since I found out! My boobs are already sore though :o

    Exciting times ahead!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭nikpmup


    Bagheera wrote: »
    I found out a couple of days ago that I'm expecting my second. I haven't gone to confirm it with the doctor yet but I was feeling nauseous all weekend. I took a test the day my period was due and it came up positive. I'm delighted as we have been trying for a few months now!

    I've calculated that I'm due the 14th of January. It's funny, after 4 days of feeling sick I haven't actually been feeling nauseous since I found out! My boobs are already sore though :o

    Exciting times ahead!

    My birthday :) Congrats!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Congrats Bagheers, ditto on the sore boobs!

    Oh Rosy Posy lucky u, in sunnier climate, im jealous. Thanks for the heads up on the toilet training, btw, no doubt she'll have a few accidents when newborn arrives, fun times ahead then:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Rosy Posy


    Loadie wrote: »
    Oh Rosy Posy lucky u, in sunnier climate, im jealous.

    I'm sure I'll be jealous of you come December when I'm lugging my belly around in the sweltering heat! ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Rosy Posy wrote: »
    I'm sure I'll be jealous of you come December when I'm lugging my belly around in the sweltering heat! ;)

    :D:D must remember that when im trying to stay vertical walking in the snow/ice:eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    My due date is early Jan following a successful IVF cycle done abroad.

    Have had 3 Hcg bloods done so far and the numbers are very healthy and doubling right on schedule. :)

    My IVF doctor wanted me to have a scan this week (week 6, 4 weeks post implantation) but I had such struggles to get it done I gave up. As it is not the normal thing here they didn't see the point, although abroad it is the norm for IVF pregnancies to ensure the sac and egg are developing. Due my fetal heart scan soon - can't wait. Might even find out if there is one or two hanging out in there.

    No morning sickness so far (can I really be this lucky??) but a bit of nausea related to bad bloating and constipation, although my doc has now given me something for that and it is much better than it was a fornight ago.

    Excited and so apprehensive at the same time. Each Hcg test is a nerve wracker as I am always terrified the levels will go down. Please god all will continue as well as it has been and it will be a healthy pregnancy!

    Good luck to you all!


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    Congratulations hello lady. The sickness might hit you yet or you may be fine; quite a few of my friends breezed through the 1st trimester.

    Loadie sounds like our two will have a similar age gap; my son was 2 in march! Definitely hoping to have him toilet trained before number two arrives :-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Loadie sounds like our two will have a similar age gap; my son was 2 in march! Definitely hoping to have him toilet trained before number two arrives :-)[/QUOTE]

    Must let me know how the toilet training goes for you Bagheera.., my little girl has developed a kind of fascination with the toilet, follows everyone in, can be embarassing when we have visitors:D Kinda hoping this fascination will help with the toilet training.

    Congratulations Hello Lady:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭Leitrim Lady


    Hello lovely ladies,
    Im super super SUPER excited to be able to join in this chit chat:D...Its taken some time to get here and Im only 5ish weeks but will be great to have others to talk to stuff about.My GP gave me due date of 12th Jan but I suppose I can expect that to be put back after scans/measuring.Never thought this would happen for me as we've been trying for awhile.Had a lap last year and was told they couldnt see any reason why I wasn't getting preganant so was referred to Galway for fertility.Had an appt back in March but didnt attend as we decided to leave this fair land and my visa for Canada came thru 3 weeks ago.But obviously this has totally changed things.:).So fingers crossed for us all for the next number of weeks until we all reach that (what feels MILES away!!)12 week stage.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Hi Leitrim Lady, that is brilliant news. I know about waiting for a baby so when you get pregnant, it is unreal and it is a brilliant feeling, thats a very special baby. Congrats!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,730 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    My wife is due January 17th, fingers crossed. Nervous and excited.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 Loadie


    Thats brillant news Balmed Out, congratulations:)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 116 ✭✭Ciarabear


    Hi everyone, a little surprised and overwhelmed to find myself joining this conversation! :)

    Daddy and I are expecting our first (unplanned!) little bear on January 20th! :)
    I feel incredibly emotional right now, as I'm sure you all do too!

    Here's hoping we all have healthy, happy pregnancies and beautiful, little babies in our arms at the end! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Merrilady


    Ciarabear - me too, I'm also 20th Jan :D

    5 IVF and 10 years later, better late than never

    Absolutely over the moon


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    Congratulations Ciara bear and merry lady!


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    TWINS!!! :D:D:D
    Probably means I should move to the due dec 13 thread, as multiples rarely go full term.

    Delighted isn't the word! (And a little bit petrified too!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Merrilady


    Woooo Hoooo great news.
    Thrilled for you
    Am also wondering if it's twins for me too, I'll know in 10 days so might benjoining you


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 18 Crushed Dry Ice


    TWINS!!! :D:D:D
    Probably means I should move to the due dec 13 thread, as multiples rarely go full term.

    Delighted isn't the word! (And a little bit petrified too!)

    Congratulations, how do you know so early that it's twins?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,730 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    Congratulations, how do you know so early that it's twins?

    i was thinking the same!
    Congrats anyhow, great news


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    Congratulations, how do you know so early that it's twins?
    Balmed Out wrote: »
    i was thinking the same!
    Congrats anyhow, great news


    Scan confirmed at 7w5d that there are 2 sacs, 2 yolks and 2 perfectly sized fetuses. As I am pregnant following IVF, I have had early scans. I was meant to have one at 6 weeks, but had trouble arranging it (as it is not the norm here) and the earliest appointment I could get was yesterday when I was 7 weeks, 5 days.

    Even at 6 weeks, sac and yolk development can be seen on a scan and although there are still many things that can change, it is a good indicator if the pregnancy is viable.

    There they were yesterday, little tiny hearts beating away like no body's business. We then had a doppler and heard the hearts thumping away like drums.

    It is mind blowing to think that at a size of 6.6mm and 7.1mm that they have a heart and you can see this little black flicker on the screen. Not even a centimetre in size! Totally awestruck. It is still very early days, and development of both is not certain, just as there are no certainties in any pregnancy, but they are strong and viable and please god all with go well for both my little blobs!

    I would say for anyone who is anxious or worried, an early pregnancy scan costs €95 and if it puts your mind at rest it is money well spent. I feel so much more relaxed now that I know both little blobs are developing well. My morning sickness and stress was causing my IBS to flare up badly - I still feel far from 'well' but I'm not as stressed as I was a week ago and I notice a definite, if not total, improvement in my IBS. Stress can be so detrimental to you and your baby/babies, so if you are worried, and can afford it, get a scan. The minute you see those little hearts, its like suddenly a wave of relief floods over you!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 116 ✭✭Ciarabear


    Congratulations HelloLady, that's wonderful news! May I ask what symptoms you're experiencing please? I'm 6 weeks too and apart from occasional pangs of nausea and sore breasts, would hardly be aware I'm pregnant, which is slightly disconcerting!


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭Bagheera


    Ciarabear wrote: »
    Congratulations HelloLady, that's wonderful news! May I ask what symptoms you're experiencing please? I'm 6 weeks too and apart from occasional pangs of nausea and sore breasts, would hardly be aware I'm pregnant, which is slightly disconcerting!

    Hi ciarabear

    This is my second pregnancy and I have the same symptoms as you. I was a lot more nauseous and bloated on my first. I'm counting it as a blessing! Everyone is different so I wouldn't worry. I found with my first that the reality didn't really hit me until I had my first scan.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    Ciarabear my main symptoms are extreme bloating and very painful and sick-making gas trapped right under my diaphragm. I also get the occasional wave of nausea where I dry retch, but no vomiting so far (thank god).

    I had very mild and manageable symptoms up to about week 6, then that week the IBS symptoms got worse and really uncomfortable, but mid-way through week 6 and to now the IBS is awful. A new symptom is I am very out of breath and struggling to feel like I am getting air in. My oxygen levels are perfect, so I am getting the air in, it just doesn't feel like it. I am breathing quicker, which is quite tiring and my heart is beating faster. This is all part of being pregnant I know, but as it is twins these symptoms are more pronounced. The tiredness is really starting to get to me, finding I need a little cat nap in the afternoons, but I haven't told work yet, so I am sneaking down to the car to have a snooze at lunchtime! lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Ciarabear: I'm almost 8 weeks with the second one and the only symptom I had is that I am really tired. I wouldnt worry though, for the first, I had sore boobs and was really tired and thats all. As Bagheera said I everyone is different.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 116 ✭✭Ciarabear


    Thanks guys, I guess I'm a little concerned as this is my first baby and have no idea what to expect so am curious about other people's experiences. It's reassuring to hear that other women are feeling/not feeling similar things.

    HelloLady, I can very much identify with feeling breathless. I initially thought it was in relation to having high blood pressure (which I do) but apparently rising progesterone levels are also responsible -an afternoon nap sounds like the perfect remedy!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭Susie120704


    Hi all. I am due January 28th from my calculations. I am nervous as my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage in January but hoping this one will be successful. The only symptom I have is the same as last time which is the need to pee a lot. I began to feel nausea from four week from last time so hoping it won't be too bad this time. Congrats to all here and hopefully next January we will all have happy and healthy babies.


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31 Guest1111


    Congrats Susie, thats great news!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14 ourmaris


    Hi guys i am due in jan too havent been to my doctor yet i have an appointment in 4 days. Anyway I was just wondering in your first doctors appointment what did the doctor check for. I tried to get an appointment with a female doctor but she is on maternity herself, want to be prepared if there is going to be poking and prodding :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    your first appointment with your GP is really just to let them know you are pregnant. You will then fill in the HSE form for your maternity care. The doctor might decide to do a urine test (mine didn't as I had blood results with my BHcG) to confirm pregnancy. I had my blood pressure taken and then the doc gave me a few leaflets about do and don'ts and advice. We had a chat about deciding what hospital options I wanted to go with (public/semi-private/private) and how the combined care with the hospital and GP works.

    Unless your doctor has scanning facilities or specific ON/GYN facilities (which many don't) then it is really just a basic check up to let them know you are preggers! A blood test possibly to check your hormone/folic acid/iron levels, but that's about it. No poking or prodding of any sort.

    congrats on your good news and I hope all goes well for you! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    Merrilady wrote: »
    Woooo Hoooo great news.
    Thrilled for you
    Am also wondering if it's twins for me too, I'll know in 10 days so might benjoining you

    What has you wondering Merrilady? were you like me and had IVF, or is it just intuition, or increased symptoms?
    Let me know how you get on with the scan! would be great to have another multiple mammy to bounce ideas off!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Merrilady


    Hello Lady - I'm an IVF'er like you :D
    That's the only reason :)
    I will know in 8 days.
    The waiting is killing me, I wouldnt be the most patient person in the world and I normally hate surprises so this is putting manners on me let me tell ye.

    Super Congrats to the newbies that joined the board this week :D

    I am also laughing reading the symptoms posts, as I thought that was only me. I feel like I have a Hangover if truth be told ... a little nauseous, and lots of mood swings, I can also smell things from around the corner :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    Merrilady wrote: »
    I will know in 8 days.
    The waiting is killing me, I wouldnt be the most patient person in the world and I normally hate surprises so this is putting manners on me let me tell ye.
    would you not book an early scan - I wasn't quite 7 weeks when I had mine. The fact that you know exactly the date of conception helps a lot too, when it comes to them sizing the sac, yolk and fetus. I had an internal scan and it was all clear as day. I originally thought I would have to wait til this week cos I couldn't get an earlier appointment, but was lucky to get a cancellation at Mount Carmel.

    The enormity of the situation is only really sinking in! When they asked do you want one or two embryo's implanted, I was all, TWO OF COURSE, but now that it has worked (and I never really expected it to!) I'm kinda like 'holy crap! two babies'! lol I was really only thinking about the end result of instant family, I didn't really give the double pregnancy any thought at all! Very naiive of me I know! But sure if I'd thought about it too much, I might not have done it, so it all worked out in the end!

    Let me know if its one hitch-hiker or two - I'll be dying to know! :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭Susie120704


    Is anyone else getting a full feeling? I feel constantly stuffed even when hungry which is most strange


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Merrilady


    The enormity of the situation is only really sinking in! When they asked do you want one or two embryo's implanted, I was all, TWO OF COURSE, but now that it has worked (and I never really expected it to!) I'm kinda like 'holy crap! two babies'! lol I was really only thinking about the end result of instant family, I didn't really give the double pregnancy any thought at all! Very naiive of me I know! But sure if I'd thought about it too much, I might not have done it, so it all worked out in the end!

    Let me know if its one hitch-hiker or two - I'll be dying to know! :)[/QUOTE]

    I hear ya :)
    Scan is next week so I don't mind .. Dunno if I'll be able to sleep on Monday night :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭Hello Lady!


    Is anyone else getting a full feeling? I feel constantly stuffed even when hungry which is most strange

    YES! I am constantly feeling full with gas and empty with hunger at the same time. I can't tell if eating something will help or make it worse. But I am trying to eat every hour or so - even just something small like a banana or a few crackers. If I go too long without food the hunger gets worse and then I'm sick with hunger and my gas gets intolerable. Waking up in the morning is when it is worst, as it is at least 8 hours since I would have last eaten. My GP advised getting hubby to bring me something small to eat before even getting out of bed and he said this sometimes help the initial sickness and dizziness. So the last couple of weeks I've been sitting in bed eating a banana and a yoghurt or a cup of tea and slice of bread. I do think it helps somewhat. But by the time I get to work I'm starving again, but sick with the hunger and gas and don't want to eat, but force myself to. It sucks. :(

    ok, whinge over!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 326 ✭✭Merrilady


    Hello Lady - One big strong heart beat seen and heard yesterday

    :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D


  • Advertisement
Advertisement