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Feel like a fool over guy

  • 19-04-2013 9:07am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I had been seeing a guy since Christmas who is fairly local and would be friends with lots of people I know. He ended it once but I kind of brought it up by saying we were never going to see each other and he said he couldn't see it working. He started texting again and we met up and he said he wanted to make an effort.. Really liked me etc. we were seeing each other for another maybe 7 or 8 times and one weekend he didn't seem to want to meet so I said I'd prefer if he told me he didn't want to see me. He just said he was unsure about us. I got a bit angry and said why did he asked to meet up again and text me everyday. He just said he was sorry but that was how he felt. I said it was grand and he said he hoped if I saw him out we could still chat and I said no problem.

    So he texted me a few days later just general stuff and I said I'd appreciate if he didn't tell anyone (members of my family are friends with him) that I got mad and he said no way.. What happened between us was being kept that way. Then the other day, about two and a half weeks later i texted him. I don't want anything with him anymore I can see now we didn't have enough of a laugh together. There was a few messages over and back and then he just stopped texting. I didn't realise I'd feel like such a fool over this all. I'm afraid he is going to tell the members of my family that he is friends with that I'm an idiot and I guess I'm just looking for reassurance that what I did is not psycho behaviour. I genuinely saw us being friendly and stayin in contact and now I'm worried he's gone off thinking I want to start things up again. Do I have reason to feel like such an idiot over this?


Comments

  • #2
    P. Breathnach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,089 ✭✭✭✭P. Breathnach


    All I see here is a brief relationship that petered out. Rather than a quick clean finish, it sputtered out. Such things often happen.

    Nobody was an idiot.

    [Well, maybe you are being a tad like an idiot in letting it bother you.]


  • #3
    SineadMarie
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 208 ✭✭SineadMarie


    Dont worry about what he thinks or what he tells anyone else. Look after yourself, best thing is to cut contact as you clearly have feelings for this guy.


  • #4
    RubyRoss
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 302 ✭✭RubyRoss


    I'm sorry you feel so wrapped up and stressed by situation but I don't think you have anything to worry about. You guys met up a few times and it didn't work out - happens all the time. No one will judge you for that and if they do; they are the idiots.


  • #5
    Lorna123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭Lorna123


    You have a chance to put things right..........don't contact him anymore !!! Time will sort this one out.


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