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I have trust issues

guest89903 · 2013-04-15 21:52:18

I've been married for almost a year now to a fantastic woman. I think my problem comes from a previous relationship were my ex was cheating on me constantly and I am terrified of it happening again. Can anybody recommend what kind of counselling/therapy I would need? Would I need to go with my wife? I have mentioned it to…

15-04-2013 9:52pm

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I've been married for almost a year now to a fantastic woman. I think my problem comes from a previous relationship were my ex was cheating on me constantly and I am terrified of it happening again. Can anybody recommend what kind of counselling/therapy I would need? Would I need to go with my wife? I have mentioned it to her and she is very supportive. I really want to change my way of thinking.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is probably the way to go as it addresses dysfunctional emotions and thought processes. Your local GP will be able to refer you to a reputable therapist. Hope it works out for you.

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