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Long distance - falling for him via calls

  • 12-04-2013 12:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    I'm sure plenty of posts about LDR.. met a guy out about 2 months ago- we kissed once last year- but no numbers exchanged etc.
    saw briefly at new year but couldn't speak properly.
    met him again few weeks ago.. and we got chatting again, ended up spending night together.. swapped numbers.. we've been in contact every day since.. - (he working in UK at moment) met up (planned) 2 weeks later and same thing and this time the next day we met up again and went for lunch, spent few hours together before he'd to go again.
    we have been texting every single day but since we met most recently, we speak on the phone every other day .. could be for hour or 2 at a time...

    Is it possible to fall for someone this way i.e. phone calls???
    because i feel i am crazy about him but it's not been that long. and possibly thinking it's because i know i am not going to see him for another 2 weeks (will be a month at that stage)
    we get on really well, no lull in conversation, its 2 sided chat..
    I've not done long distance of any sort before.. also any tips! :D


Comments

  • #2
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    well it depends completely on what type of crazy you are talking about. I doubt you mean love, its far too soon. you sound like someone who is caught up in the fever of being attracted to someone new and enjoying the excitement and honeymoon period of getting to know someone. I wouldnt exactly be making a big fuss of it or being worried. if you are happy, then enjoy it. If life changes and you end up in the same area and make a go of it, then fair play. thats great too. sometimes the reality of that doesnt always fit what you felt before, but sometimes it does. dont be worrying for now. enjoy what it is and go for it. its all good.


  • #3
    blatantrereg
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    How you might relate to someone over a phone might not reflect how you'd relate to each other in real life. It's a bit like a snapshot of a person - doesn't necessarily give the full picture.
    I would reel it in a bit. Be positive about meeting him with a view to meeting him more often. But don't get ahead of yourselves.


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