Sex

barbarasummers

It's something I don't quite get. Wouldn't it annoy you to think that someone else engaged in such degrading sexual acts with someone you love.. in her past. Oral, anal, facial, ect. You'd think this would bother people more. I guess thanks E. L. James, every beautiful girl I set my eyes on will have been defiled. I feel as though it doesn't bother some people at all, that their girlfriend has been fornicated all over by another dude.. that they might have to look at on occasion.

It makes it harder for me to respect them. It makes me think that the only reason they might want to settle down with me is to depend on me as opposed to thinking that I'm hot. I do have a point.. right?

irish bloke

barbarasummers wrote: »

It's something I don't quite get. Wouldn't it annoy you to think that someone else engaged in such degrading sexual acts with someone you love.. in her past. Oral, anal, facial, ect. You'd think this would bother people more. I guess thanks E. L. James, every beautiful girl I set my eyes on will have been defiled. I feel as though it doesn't bother some people at all, that their girlfriend has been fornicated all over by another dude.. that they might have to look at on occasion.

It makes it harder for me to respect them. It makes me think that the only reason they might want to settle down with me is to depend on me as opposed to thinking that I'm hot. I do have a point.. right?

No you don't you clown..

Praetorian Saighdiuir

Sometimes I frickin love this place!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Slattsy

Wild stab in the dark here.... But I'm guessing you're single?

Oh Barbara, your sister Ann Summers has done much worse than that.

corkgsxr

I think you might need to relax a tad

lkionm

Yes, Father. They were having the sex.

barbarasummers

irish bloke wrote: »

No you don't you clown..

So you're telling me you wouldn't mind if I had slept with the girl of your dreams?

Sarky

Have fun holding out for that pure virgin you can respect. I'll be over there with the women who know a thing or two about fornication. I'ma respect the hell out of them.

Peregrine

Look what you set yourself up for!!!

Czarcasm

You may want to take this to the Personal Issues forum OP tbh.

Smidge

So this is what keeps psychiatrists being able to afford new Beemer's?

AngeGal

Indeed. Time for Ireland to bring in No Sex before marriage law, outlaw divorce and homosexuality once more and restore the Catholic Church to its rightful place at the head of the community. Them were days Joxer, them were days.

irish bloke

barbarasummers wrote: »

So you're telling me you wouldn't mind if I had slept with the girl of your dreams?

No I'm not saying that, what I'm saying is you must be soft in the head to come up with something like that...

barbarasummers

Nimrod 7 wrote: »

Look what you set yourself up for!!!

I don't get that?

BillyMitchel

Easily know its a bank holiday with the threads and posts tonight.

Hilarious stuff going around.

Yeah OP go mental send her over to me and ill give or should I say let her use my shower before you kiss her.

barbarasummers

irish bloke wrote: »

No I'm not saying that, what I'm saying is you must be soft in the head to come up with something like that...

so I do have a point it seems!

hatrickpatrick

Degrading?
There's nothing remotely degrading about being kinky, if it's fun it's fun.

To be honest, I may be in the minority here, but I couldn't give a rat's behind about a girlfriend's sexual past as long as (a) she doesn't have any infections she could end up giving me, and (b) she agrees not to cheat on me while we're together.

What you did before you met me is your own business, not mine.

Don't really understand people who attach any significance to this, tbh. To quote George Bush, "the past is history".

Catphish

barbarasummers wrote: »

It's something I don't quite get. Wouldn't it annoy you to think that someone else engaged in such degrading sexual acts with someone you love.. in her past. Oral, anal, facial, ect. You'd think this would bother people more. I guess thanks E. L. James, every beautiful girl I set my eyes on will have been defiled. I feel as though it doesn't bother some people at all, that their girlfriend has been fornicated all over by another dude.. that they might have to look at on occasion.

It makes it harder for me to respect them. It makes me think that the only reason they might want to settle down with me is to depend on me as opposed to thinking that I'm hot. I do have a point.. right?

Have you ever had sex with anyone? Given or received oral, anal?

irish bloke

barbarasummers wrote: »

so I do have a point it seems!

No you don't, maybe in Jesus times, but not in reality.

Are you a virgin ???

DrumSteve

irish bloke wrote: »

No you don't, maybe in Jesus times, but not in reality.

Are you a virgin ???

More importantly are you a dude or a chick Barbara?

barbarasummers

irish bloke wrote: »

No you don't, maybe in Jesus times, but not in reality.

Are you a virgin ???

I think I'll still think the same after having had sex though

BillyMitchel

barbarasummers wrote: »

I think I'll still think the same after having had sex though

DAFUQ?!

Do you play hide the sausage or whaaa?

Glass Prison 1214

barbarasummers wrote: »

I think I'll still think the same after having had sex though

What makes it ok for YOU to have sex if u are going to look down on others for it? That is called hypocrisy.

3ndahalfof6

You need to get yourself a nun, while there is no guarantee, you might feel safer.

Magenta

barbarasummers wrote: »

It's something I don't quite get. Wouldn't it annoy you to think that someone else engaged in such degrading sexual acts with someone you love.. in her past. Oral, anal, facial, ect. You'd think this would bother people more. I guess thanks E. L. James, every beautiful girl I set my eyes on will have been defiled. I feel as though it doesn't bother some people at all, that their girlfriend has been fornicated all over by another dude.. that they might have to look at on occasion.

It makes it harder for me to respect them. It makes me think that the only reason they might want to settle down with me is to depend on me as opposed to thinking that I'm hot. I do have a point.. right?

Nice Madonna/whore complex you have there. Good luck with that!
It sounds to me like you view women as objects that other men have had sex with, not as human beings. We're not used cars you know.

sock puppet

Thought this would have been spotted earlier but...

barbarasummers wrote: »

Sex.

It's something I don't quite get.

Hehe

lkionm

Magenta wrote: »

Nice Madonna/whore complex you have there. Good luck with that!
It sounds to me like you view women as objects that other men have had sex with, not as human beings. We're not used cars you know.

used cars dont have vaginas or boobs so ye are grand for now.

K4t

If you think that's bad, Op, try thinking about what your father has done to your mother over the course of a lifetime.

T-K-O

I thought like that was I was 15 or 16, sounds like you have a lotta growing up to do

Fromthetrees

Get a fat, ugly lesbian for yourself OP.

They haven't been defiled by a man stick in their whole lives.

Hot lesbians have generally been defiled by men at some stage.

GreenWolfe

Haven't you heard of the the test for this, OP?

Madonna / Whore quotient of a woman: When a woman puts her hands together to pray and when she's crying the blood and she levitates if you don't get a sustained hum in A-flat she's a ****ing whore!

Source

I still haven't sussed out if the OP is male or female

Truncheon Rouge

EarthlyPangaea wrote: »

Haven't you heard of the the test for this, OP?

Madonna / Whore quotient of a woman: When a woman puts her hands together to pray and when she's crying the blood and she levitates if you don't get a sustained hum in A-flat she's a ****ing whore!

Source

Ha ..marriage..thats so gay.

irish bloke

Strawberry Milkshake wrote: »

I still haven't sussed out if the OP is male or female

Shemale?????

Czarcasm

Fromthetrees wrote: »

Get a fat, ugly lesbian for yourself OP.

They haven't been defiled by a man stick in their whole lives.

Hot lesbians have generally been defiled by men at some stage.

*whistles innocently*... :pac:

biko

They were a bit obsessed with the old... S-E-X. God I'm glad I never think of that type of thing Father. That whole sexual world.
God, when you think of it it's a dirty, filthy thing, isn't it Father?
Can you imagine Father? Can you imagine Father, looking up at your husband, and him standing over you with his lad in his hand, wanting you to degrade yourself?
God almighty can you imagine that Father? Can you picture it there Father? Oh get a good mental picture of it. Can you see him there? Ready to do the business?

gammygils

Doorbell! Doorbell! Mrs. Doyle

Latchy

Most of AH had her at one time or another OP so your not alone ...

/ filthy bitch ...seducing all those young men and women...sluh

B.A._Baracus

I kinda get where the op is coming from :P

Like say, you are dating a girl and she turns around and says she went home with a few guys and 5 of them took turns with her. It's a turn off. You can't say it's not.

Everyone has a sexual history but you know what, sometimes it's best NOT to say what you've done. But I can't help but mention an example ... I knew a girl who is a slut. She is the defintion of the word. She cheated on boyfriends & was the "bike" in the social circle. Like, if someone who was interested in dating her they'd run a mile knowing the past ... and they'd be right.

SolarFlash

marry a virgin. problem solved.

T-K-O

B.A._Baracus wrote: »

I kinda get where the op is coming from :P

Like say, you are dating a girl and she turns around and says she went home with a few guys and 5 of them took turns with her. It's a turn off. You can't say it's not.

Everyone has a sexual history but you know what, sometimes it's best NOT to say what you've done. But I can't help but mention an example ... I knew a girl who is a slut. She is the defintion of the word. She cheated on boyfriends & was the "bike" in the social circle. Like, if someone who was interested in dating her they'd run a mile knowing the past ... and they'd be right.

Very true but the OP is making out like women are soiled for having a sexual past. Not all women are like your friend as Im sure you well know

gammygils

Let's hope girls wash themselves every now and then! :pac:

dr.bollocko

We're not interested op.