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What is wrong with Me?

  • 22-03-2013 6:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been 100% single the last 15 months..not much interest either.. more recently i've been a tad annoyed/down about it. but at same time, i wasnt gonna go off with anyone to get over it.

    what annoyed me was a fella who i've become friends with broke up with his Lt girlf (he'd tried it on with me couple months before and flirtly texts after) .. i was trying to be there for him even just by text because dont see him that much although we live close.. so next thing i hear he's seeing some other girl. not that i was expecting him to come running to me but still.

    Anyway.. meet a guy last wknd who i kissed last year, we hit it off straight away again- ended up back at his etc etc.
    was all good, he took my number, he's been texting since a good bit, wants to meet up again (he currently in uk) .. Yet stupid me is waiting for something to go wrong.. or having doubts.. some weird feelings. and thinking of guy mentioned above- although i know nothing will ever happen there.

    Why can't i just enjoy this guy giving me all this attention and enjoy after complaining of having No interest for so long.


Comments

  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I understand what you want. You have not been out with anyone in a while and you did not mind this until recently.

    When Guy no 1 broke up with Lt girlfriend you though he will ring me now and ask me out.
    Guy number 1 sounds like a player. He was texting you when still with his Lt girlfriend.
    He sounds like a guy who enjoys the chase but get board when he has a girlfriend.
    I would not be waiting for this guy as if he wanted you as a girlfriend he would have asked you out.

    With guy number 2 you get on with him but the fact is he is in the Uk and I think you want to go out with someone who lives near you.

    I would contact your friends and plan a few nights out or get involved with some new groups or organisations as you may meet a single man there.
    I would keep in contact with guy no 2 but don't put your life on hold for him as he could be in the uk for a long time.


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