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cant stop thinking about her

  • 03-03-2013 11:38am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi
    Its been 2 weeks since me and ex broke up,we were only going out a few weeks,I can't stop thinking about her though,I find myself crying about her at least once a day,I've deleted her txts but not her number I just can't force myself to do it,I really miss her and I'm really upset I need advice please cant take it anymore,I find myself dreaming about her :( and thinking were still together and then reality hits me when I wake up,finding it particulary hard today :(.


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  • #2
    dreamvisions
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37 ✭dreamvisions


    Hey hey :) I was in the same boat as you 6 months ago, and still find my self missing my ex, some days are better than others! However much you miss your ex what you need to do is to become even more awsome than you are now! But you need to feel it to heal it! You need to start using the mental energy you have thinking about her, and direct it inward to your self. Other wise if you dont your going down a road of pain and stress! Plus if you want to get back with her, the key is to be active now that you have free time, no texts,phone calls or facebook! Go out there and reconected with old friends, start new hobbies its the only way! She is hurting just as much as you right now, and she will contact you for sure. You just need to hold off and be ready, and in the right frame of mind. You cant turn off a switch and not stop missing her, but you can control and distract your self in the mean time!

    But i under stand these bad days all too well mate! Its very hard when you miss some one you love so much, its not easy, however you just need to try not let your emotions get the run of you too much, for a half hour a day, cry, sluk around the house,play all them songs that remind you of her, write a song, write down how your feeling....but just for a half hour a day, the rest of the day is yours ;) Just do me one favor and please dont contact her, hard as hell but if you do you are very well ruining your chances of seeing her again, and letting your self respect go! When she does contact you, be normal, fun, changed , desirable, do not talk about the relationship and DO NOT stay on the phone for more than 10 mins, your a busy guy, so tell her you have to go, your doing somthing, but if she would like to meet up and set a date :)

    Best of luck and feeling for you


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