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Something serious wrong with me?

  • 11-02-2013 5:07pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am trying to keep this short. Sorry for grammars and typing mistakes.
    I'm 31 years old, deep down I like to settle down but I can't 100% commit once I'm in a relationship. I'm a bit high maintenance but I have other good qualities so I do attract good men. I've been in different relationships in the last ten years, I enjoyed being in a relationship but when a man proposed or talked married, I bailed. I'm always the one who ends a relationship. I had a great childhood, great married parents, close to my family. I've seen two different counsellors for my commitment issue or whatever issues they think I have but no change. I always think maybe because I haven't met anyone who I wants to settle down with but I've met so many men who are my ideal partner but I just find myself getting bored easily when it's over a year mark. Another reason, I know I can easily meet someone I like, who wants to be with me and is willing to look over my flaws, because of that I often take whoever I'm with at the time for granted( bad I know). I always want to be with strong minded man but when those men are with me, somehow they always give in. I have never regretted ending a relationship. I broke many hearts and people said karma is a bitch but it hasn't caught up with me yet. I'm not a cold person, I'm very kind, affectionate and have sympathy for others and understand others feelings. I had taken time out to be single for a while but always ended up back in a relationship less than a few months to a year. I know what I want in a man and even when I have it all, I still cant commit. I just broke up with someone who did nothing wrong but good to me. I am feeling bad and I'm very tired of causing others pain and hurt and of course I'm not happy. What's wrong with me, I want to change this behavour pattern and Im in need of advice?


Comments

  • #2
    Forever Hopeful
    Closed Accounts Posts: 275 ✭✭Forever Hopeful


    Nothing wrong with you. You just haven't met the right person.
    It happens.


  • #3
    Queen-Mise
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,461 ✭✭✭Queen-Mise


    I'm sorry OP - I can't read that paragraph. I am getting the lines mixed up. Would you break it up somewhat?


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