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Is kissing cheating in your opinion

  • 08-02-2013 11:54am
    #1
    helpandadvice
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭helpandadvice


    recently found my gf met up with her ex and was spotted in his car together when i confronted her about it she said it was just a kiss and she was drunk.We have been together four years and have a two year old baby i think breaking up over a kiss is a bit over the top but she has been texting the same unsaved number quite a bit and her phone is screen locked.would you end it over a kiss


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  • #2
    helpandadvice
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4 ✭helpandadvice


    any help?


  • #3
    frag420
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,161 ✭✭✭frag420


    Eh....did you not get the answer you were looking for when you started the same thread a few days ago. She cheated on you, move on.


  • #4
    miamee
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional East Moderators, Regional North West Moderators Posts: 12,523 Mod ✭✭✭✭miamee


    If it was a drunken kiss, while not nice and still hurtful - and still cheating - you might be able to get over it together. However continuing to possibly text this guy is worse, IMO. Has she expressed any regret or apologised about it? Have you confronted her about the texts?

    I think you need to have a talk with her to get to the bottom of what has actually happened and what is still happening (if anything) before you can decide what to do next.


  • #5
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    Some would, some wouldn't.

    Personally I'd end it over a kiss with an ex. I'd never feel secure in the relationship again. And to be honest the attitude of "it was just a kiss and I was drunk" would p|ss me off as much as the kiss itself.

    What did she say about the texts? Did she apologise and seem remorseful over it at all? How did she end up in her exs car? Was it a prior arranged meeting or did she bump into him?

    Although to be honest, only you know if you can forgive her.


  • #6
    Alicia Faint Frisbee
    Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Alicia Faint Frisbee


    OP has closed their account and we've had this before


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