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Confused and Heartbroken

  • 06-02-2013 9:08pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I dont know where to start with this!

    I've know a girl for four years now but she lives in another country. We met online but only met last year.

    We see each other 6 or 7 times a year and are always on the phone talking or Facetime.

    We have talked about her moving here when I had my own place which Im moving into at the end of the month.

    Everything has been great up until lately, she's started tweeting a fella she works with and has changed so much.
    I know they are friends and have gone out for something to eat now and again.

    Two nights ago we had our usual conversation before bed and she told me she loved me as she has on many times and the she wanted a relationship with me.

    I've known I've loved her for a long time but never had the courage to tell her but last night I plucked up the courage to tell her and ask her out.

    She said she didnt know what she wanted now.

    We texted last night for hours but I find myself deleted from her facebook and twitter today and she wont speak to me.

    Im so confused and broken to be honest


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  • #2
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    She's rude and cowardly, OP. Simple as that. you deserve better than that and I think you know it.
    My guess is, she realised you were serious in your feelings towards her and rather than being fully honest she took the cowards way out and blocked you. I advise you to let her go and dont contact her again in any form. I know its hard right now, but for someone to treat you like this is pathetic and so rude. I hope you see this!

    please dont contact her again. walk away now and hold your head high. no matter what. best of luck and take care.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Turns out that she's been in a relationship since September with this guy and thinks she's pregnant.

    I'm shattered to pieces and don't know how to deal with life right now. Everything is a blur and I'm a crying mess.

    She wants us to stay friends as she says she cant not have me in her life.

    This is the woman I love and wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I've been lied too for month.

    I just cant get over this :-(


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