Question to men who genuinely love a woman

snook1

If you were offered a threesome with two women other than your wife/girlfriend, and you knew your wife/girlfriend would never find out, would you do it?

Considering that men are more likely to be able to separate sex and love than women, and so may argue that the act doesn't mean anything, and therefore doesn't change the relationship. Would you rest easy?

Max Power

snook1 wrote: »

If you were offered a threesome with two women other than your wife/girlfriend, and you knew your wife/girlfriend would never find out, would you do it?

Considering that men are able to separate sex and love, and so may argue that the act doesn't mean anything, and therefore doesn't change the relationship. Would you rest easy?

And women can't?

Fox_In_Socks

Hmmmm...


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Which boardsie's wife/gf are you?:pac:

admiralofthefleet

i would have to keep pinching myself to believe it was happening

Lapin

snook1 wrote: »

Considering that men are able to separate sex and love, and so may argue that the act doesn't mean anything, and therefore doesn't change the relationship. Would you rest easy?

A bullshít generalisation.

What was your last username ?

snook1

FionnMcCool87 wrote: »

And women can't?

Yes of course they can, but women are more likely to give meaning to sex than men.

snook1

Lapin wrote: »

A bullshít generalisation.

What was your last username ?

Edited.

franktheplank

snook1 wrote: »

If you were offered a threesome with two women other than your wife/girlfriend

I'll cross that bridge when I come to it thank you.

humberklog

snook1 wrote: »

Yes of course they can, but women are more likely to give meaning to sex than men.

Arsepants.

KDII

Because literally no two humans on Earth are the same, this question is impossible to answer.

solas111

What you are really asking is: “Is it ok to cheat on your wife or girlfriend, providing she doesn’t find out”?

If you’re thinking of doing it, maybe you should consider how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot and wife or g/f was asking if she should rest easy if she had a threesome with two men.

Grayson

KDII wrote: »

Because literally no two humans on Earth are the same, this question is impossible to answer.

The question is "would you do it?"

Honestly, personally I don't know. I had an ex who wanted to "hire" a girl for a threesome but we never did it.

A a single guy, I'd say I'd jump at the chance. But if I was in a relationship, I'm not sure.

Edit: just reread and saw, women other than my partner. Answer is No. Although I know I'd always wonder about it.


You could always ask the missus and make it a 4 some.

Czarcasm

Not this shìt again.

Where are you going with this OP? Why didn't you offer your own opinion before seeking the opinions of others? Why is this not in the Relationship Issues or Personal Issues forums?

snook1

Czarcasm wrote: »

Not this shìt again.

Where are you going with this OP? Why didn't you offer your own opinion before seeking the opinions of others? Why is this not in the Relationship Issues or Personal Issues forums?

Because they're never bloody updated...

My opinion, being a woman, is that if you truly loved someone you would not rest easy having had a threesome behind their back. But apparently men think differently, because they are supposedly able to have sex with a woman and it mean absolutely zilch to them. They cite the analogy of wanting variety in your food - even though you might have a favourite dish, you still like to eat other things because variety is the spice of life and all that...

marksman74

Czarcasm wrote: »

Not this shìt again.

Where are you going with this OP? Why didn't you offer your own opinion before seeking the opinions of others? Why is this not in the Relationship Issues or Personal Issues forums?

Give the OP a break, if you dont want to answer the question he\she has posed then dont....
Stop getting your knickers in a bind and move onto another thread if this one annoys you so much

Tefral

Of course, sure everyone knows having sex with two women: one cancels the other out.

Jesus Shaves

cronin_j wrote: »

Of course, sure everyone knows having sex with two women: one cancels the other out.

so it just makes it like every other night then, no women!

juice1304

Snooki want smushsmush

danslevent

You don't "genuinely" love someone if you're willing to cheat on them in any circumstance.

Unless its a celebrity that you have both agreed on previously. Then it's okay.

B.A._Baracus

I wouldnt.
Am with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years and I love her (Shes the one for me) I'm not going to fuck around behind her back, especially with a pair of sluts. Doesnt matter if she was to "never find out" because I'd know and i'd feel guilty.

However, lets be honest. If you were a single guy you'd jump at the chance. Heck, lets be honest further if you were just pissing about dating a girl you'd jump at the chance too.

Czarcasm

snook1 wrote: »

Because they're never bloody updated...

My opinion, being a woman, is that if you truly loved someone you would not rest easy having had a threesome behind their back.

So YOU wouldn't rest easy then, nothing to do with the fact you're a woman, as there are plenty of women who will quite happily participate in a threesome with two men behind her husband's back. It could just as easily go both ways tbh.

But apparently men think differently, because they are supposedly able to have sex with a woman and it mean absolutely zilch to them.

I can't speak for all men (like you're trying to do!), but it depends on the woman- some women I've slept with, I've felt nothing, some women I've slept with, I felt all sorts.

I'm still not sure why you're working a threesome scenario into it though? Wouldn't be my kinda thing personally tbh.

Doc Ruby

If you really love a woman, you'll help her find out what two men feel like.

/not a muslim

steddyeddy

Yes!

Elmer Blooker

snook1 wrote: »

Yes of course they can, but women are more likely to give meaning to sex than men.

Indeed, is 237 meanings enough?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/09/28/237-reasons-why-women-hav_n_301902.html

The_Gatsby

snook1 wrote: »

Because they're never bloody updated...

My opinion, being a woman, is that if you truly loved someone you would not rest easy having had a threesome behind their back. But apparently men think differently, because they are supposedly able to have sex with a woman and it mean absolutely zilch to them. They cite the analogy of wanting variety in your food - even though you might have a favourite dish, you still like to eat other things because variety is the spice of life and all that...

Yeah OP, didn't you hear? There's a special gland in the male brain that makes us want to have sex with anything that moves. And the best part? We don't give a fcuk who it hurts! It's great being a man...

My name is URL

Threesomes are overrated. You've already got two hands ffs

Czarcasm

marksman74 wrote: »

Give the OP a break, if you dont want to answer the question he\she has posed then dont....
Stop getting your knickers in a bind and move onto another thread if this one annoys you so much

I don't mind answering the question, I just wanted to know where the OP was coming from is all. This thread comes hot on the heels of another similar one only a few days ago that was closed and the OP banned for trolling. It's not a big leap to assume we're back on the merry-go-round, so it's nice to get some background to know should I bother taking the OP seriously or not.

ElectroJazz

There's a lot of high horses in here. Was there a horse sale in Tesco or something?

L0ui5e

The_Gatsby wrote: »

Yeah OP, didn't you hear? There's a special gland in the male brain that makes us want to have sex with anything that moves. And the best part? We don't give a fcuk who it hurts! It's great being a man...

Anything that moves???
:eek:
Yikes!!! Poor Trixie..

StudentDad

Short answer - no!

Longer answer - no such thing as 'she'll never find out.' Apart from having to live with the fact that I'd cheated on my wife. Something I wouldn't do. I'd be giving two people far too much control over my life.
The line, 'we won't tell your wife, it's just a bit of fun,' doesn't cut it. You may as well plant a bomb under your life and pray someone doesn't detonate it for you.

SD

Bipolar Joe

Either OP is a troll, or just got cheated on.

If it's the latter, it's not my fucking fault just because I'm also a dude. Get bent and stop saying stupid things.

Pat Mustard

My name is URL wrote: »

Threesomes are overrated. You've already got two hands ffs

Worst. Threesome. Ever.

Sauve

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Either OP is a troll, or just got cheated on.

If it's the latter, it's not my fucking fault just because I'm also a dude. Get bent and stop saying stupid things.

I'll go with the 'cheated on' theory.
Men are wonderful, I still love ye

Bipolar Joe

No you don't. No one loves me.


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K-9

OP seems just a little too familiar.

Same dilemma happened to me just last night.