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Relationship advice

Wizzy2011 · 2013-01-11 11:31:38

Hi, I'm in need of some advice on my relationship with my partner. She has given birth to our son 2 years ago now and our sex life has never really gotten back on track. She has procrastinated a lot over the past 2 years about getting her self image back, and the more I motivate her the further it pushes her away. She had…

11-01-2013 11:31am

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Wizzy2011

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Hi,

I'm in need of some advice on my relationship with my partner. She has given birth to our son 2 years ago now and our sex life has never really gotten back on track. She has procrastinated a lot over the past 2 years about getting her self image back, and the more I motivate her the further it pushes her away. She had put on a few pounds during pregnancy, only natural, but she has never seen herself in the same light since. I always tell her that no matter how her body has changed such as stretch marks, I'll always love her for the special person she is to me. When I see her stretch marks I take pride and am so proud of her, as I have seen what she has gone through from the start, middle and end of pregnancy, to create our son. I she her stretch marks as a story of how our son was created and she will always be special to me for that. Yet she has just told me that because she hasn't felt sexy or in the mood for me that she is thinking that she may not be attracted to me anymore and feels that her love for me is fading. I'm not a bad looking guy and I've always taken more of the slack in regards to housework and parental duties (night feeds/ putting our son to bed, before and during the night etc). In regards to our sex life, it has gotten quite monotonous and has turned into a routine; I make her orgasm first and then we have sex. For her she says I have taken away any incentive for her to be intimate but when we think back, she has never made the first move to initiate love making as she says she never really felt sexy to start things up. Any help on this situation would be greatly appreciated!

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#2 11-01-2013 11:45am

Taltos

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OP - as you already have an open thread on this relationship I am closing this new one. We ask all posters not to create multiple threads in a short space of time here, this ensures that others also get some time but allows posters to give more relevant advice to the issue at hand.

You can find your other thread here:http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=82486893

Also as per site faq - please do not post the same issue to multiple forums, this is considered spamming and can result in losing your ability to post the the wider site as well as the forums themselves.

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