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Asking someone out, out of the blue

  • 28-12-2012 2:01pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Met a girl out a few weeks ago, we chatted, it was fun, but she had to go home early with her friend and it didn't really go anywhere. Since added her on facebook.

    We're not really in the same social circles and there's not much chance I'll bump into her any time soon. I'd like to just ask her out, but would that seem weird coming completely out of the blue?

    I had considered just chatting to her on facebook to try and build a rapport first, but I think that would seem equally out of the blue and a bit contrived.

    Should I just go for it?


Comments

  • #2
    ViveLaVie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 984 ✭✭✭ViveLaVie


    I was asked out like this before. The guy added me on fb and then pm'd me basically saying he had enjoyed talking to me and would I like to go for a drink during the week. I had gotten vibes off him when I had first met him so I wasn't too surprised or put off by the direct nature of it. It was great! Go for it!


  • #3
    CaraMay
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    Yeah go for it. It was weirder adding her on Facebook and seems a natural follow on to ask her out


  • #4
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,607 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    xmasq wrote: »

    Should I just go for it?


    Yes ask her out.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I don't think it's out of the blue. If you added her on facebook after one conversation, she probably already has an inkling. Heck, maybe she'll ask you out first! But better be pro-active just in case she's shy. What do you have to lose from it? Carpe Diem, man.


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