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Getting back together after a split too

  • 21-12-2012 10:05am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey, I was going to post something similar as a new thread but I thought i'd just reply to this. I met up with my ex last night. We aswell dumped me by text. But we met up soon after to talk about what really happened. I fell into depression when I was with him - i had issues from childhood and unfortunately they sprung out when i was with him - and that was one of the reasons we broke up. He then lost several members of his family quite close together so he was going through a difficult time too. So, you could say there was a reason we broke up. I went straight to counselling after our breakup and i can say now that i have changed and grown up a lot. I'm not the same person i was back then. Last night after we left one another, he text me saying he missed me and that he was sorry he didn't treat me right. I told him that we were both going through a difficult time and that he wasn't the only one in the wrong. He said he wished he had put me first instead of money and other stuff. I asked him if he thought we'd work out again, and he said he thinks we would. I don't want to get my hopes up with this guy, because i know what he can be like, but if he genuine, should i go for it? I have deep deep feelings for this guy, I would love him forever if I got the chance. All I wanted was for him to love me the same way. I just don't want to get hurt again by him.


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  • #2
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP - we have given you your own thread to prevent a thread hijack happening where you posted.

    Taltos


  • #3
    msg11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,572 ✭✭✭msg11


    Sounds like you have made your mind up on this one.

    Do what feels rite to you, if it works it works if it dose not then you can say you tried !


  • #4
    DonnaDarko09
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 366 ✭✭DonnaDarko09


    Slowly OP, take things slowly. Don't give all of you away again... 'til you know all feelings are mutual. Best of luck :)


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