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Suddenly dislike all my friends

  • 05-10-2012 9:29pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,799 ✭✭✭


    For no real reason, for the last few months i cannot stand any of my friends. Whenever they talk to me i just want out and can only focus on the times they annoyed the hell out of me or done something bad to me. I havent fallen out with them, still got invited for pints tomorrow night and even though i haven't been out in weeks and would like a drink i don't want to cause ill just get annoyed at them and drink alone outside again. None of them have really done anything too awful to me just general **** that would have anyone annoyed.

    Might be a stupid question but dID anyone go through similar experiences ? Im sort of afraid ill snap at one of them one day im not in a good mood anyway and fall out with them and i dont want that


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,743 ✭✭✭blatantrereg


    Maybe you've been taking crap off them for a good while, and it's just the straw that broke the camel's back at this stage kinda thing.
    But my impression is actually that it's more you're feeling angry or victimised in general, and it's manifesting with your friends.
    Drinking is a bad idea when you're feeling that sort of way.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 548 ✭✭✭Roisy7


    I'd agree with blatantrereg.... I'd say there is something going on in your own life that is making you angry with the world in general if they haven't changed or done anything wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 254 ✭✭An Bhanríon


    I have never been annoyed with my friends in that way, but I did go through a phase of thinking I had nothing in common with my main group of friends. That was in my early to mid twenties. I kind of pushed them away and thought I would find a group I related to more.

    As I got into my thirties and realised these friends were still around and stuck around for me through thick and thin, I finally understood how lucky I was to have them. I have never looked back and now appreciate what I have every day. Loyal friends are a great thing.

    So hopefully this is just a phase for you also. Take it easy and remember how lucky you are to have a good group of friends!


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