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maryclaire

this is a minor issue when compared to others but an issue all the same.
ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and love him dearly. he seems exactly like my perfect man. he is slow to tell me about his history with ex's and all and will try change the subject whenever i bring it up. i noticed one particular girl sending him a lot of messages so i asked him who she was. he told me she was a girl who happens to have a huge crush on him and wont give up. her messages are all very intense love messages which sounds like they were once a couple but he swears there was nothing between them.
i saw she texted him the other day saying her last ever message and he wrote back to say thanks with a very nice photo of himself. im just wondering why someone would put a photo of themselves like this? it seems like he is playing a game or something? surely if she meant nothing to him he wouldnt bother with a photo. maybe im reading into it but it was a gorgeous photo and would i be wrong to think he likes the attention

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Hardonraging

Perhaps he likes the attention .. or he feels compelled to reply as he's a decent guy..

Ultimately if it annoys you now, it always will, you need to have a conversation with him, relationship's are about communication, if you cannot communicate you're going to be in for a pretty tough time.. long term i mean ..

nowyouresix

OP: I fear you are being played. Just a hunch. There's more to it, in my opinion.

WhyGoBald

This is something you need to have out with your boyfriend, OP, but if you really feel that he is being cagey and he persists in concealing things from you with no good reason you will have to decide if you can tolerate that.