date didnt go well

LegacyUser

hi guys just want some advise on what to do next. have met a girl and we had two amazing dates we clicked straight away and everything was going well. last night we had our 3rd date and i was wrecked tired going to it and things werent the same we didnt click the same as our first 2 i think it was cause i was tired i knew she was going away for a few days and she said she wont be free till the saturday week.
After the date she txt me when i left saying thanks for another lovely night and sorry if it was boring i txt back saying it wasnt at all and i had a lovely time and we said good night to each other. But i dont know what to do next, i really like the girl and am just afraid of what my next move should be. Should i ring or txt her later saying i was wrecked tired and thats why i wasnt the same or should i just ignore it and try and get another date. would really like some advise on this please?

Eve_Dublin

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hi guys just want some advise on what to do next. have met a girl and we had two amazing dates we clicked straight away and everything was going well. last night we had our 3rd date and i was wrecked tired going to it and things werent the same we didnt click the same as our first 2 i think it was cause i was tired i knew she was going away for a few days and she said she wont be free till the saturday week.
After the date she txt me when i left saying thanks for another lovely night and sorry if it was boring i txt back saying it wasnt at all and i had a lovely time and we said good night to each other. But i dont know what to do next, i really like the girl and am just afraid of what my next move should be. Should i ring or txt her later saying i was wrecked tired and thats why i wasnt the same or should i just ignore it and try and get another date. would really like some advise on this please?

Sounds to me she's as concerned as you are about this and about making a good impression. This means she likes you It's always nerve-racking at the beginning and we second guess ourselves and everything we do hoping the other person will like us. I'd say leave it and relax (and get some kip before the next date!).

You're human and you can't be "on form" all the time. Arrange another date, see how it goes and go from there. Good luck OP. This girl likes you.

Ellsbells

Ask her out again. She seems interested so don't delay.

nlk

Hi OP

Sounds like you both like each other and you both were aware of the issues on the date so I wouldn't worry overly. I wouldn't bother bringing it up. Just call her when she is back from her trip and ask her to do something on the saturday she is free.

Put the last date behind you and make sure you are in good form for the next.

Good luck!

Peanut2011

OP, i would just get over that date and look forward to your next one. We all have an off night and she sounds as nervous as you are which is a nice sign. Just make sure you are at your best next time!

Meauldsegosha

OP, last night is in the past so leave it there. She text you after the date so she is still interested. Ring or text her today, don't mention what you thought was wrong last night.

We all have off days so don't worry about. Good luck with the relationship.