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Wife not happy about smoking but

  • 20-08-2012 2:49am
    #1
    SAXA
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 139 ✭✭


    When we met she knew I smoked. I have agreed to quit and had been off for 33 days but fell at a night out. had a cigar. Now I never smoke in the house but her friend is allowed to smoke in the front room. Just feel one law for some etc. Now i think after all the agro she is smoking. Found a packet of cigs I don't smoke in the house a few times. She says it she friends but it not her brand either


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  • #2
    username123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭username123


    SAXA wrote: »
    When we met she knew I smoked. I have agreed to quit and had been off for 33 days but fell at a night out. had a cigar. Now I never smoke in the house but her friend is allowed to smoke in the front room. Just feel one law for some etc. Now i think after all the agro she is smoking. Found a packet of cigs I don't smoke in the house a few times. She says it she friends but it not her brand either

    Well this is just silly, you need to both be in agreement with what is acceptable in the house. Its either a smoking house or it isnt.

    The one law for some etc comment just strikes me as childish - its your home, if you are not allowed have a voice there then you have far bigger issues than cigarettes.

    And now you think your wife is smoking. I think both of you have communications problems, and possibly a lack of respect for each other (this based on her thinking its ok for a friend to smoke in the house while you are off the cigarettes).

    Why dont you talk to each other? Ask her if she is smoking etc?


  • #3
    Zoria
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 169 ✭✭Zoria


    SAXA wrote: »
    When we met she knew I smoked. I have agreed to quit and had been off for 33 days but fell at a night out. had a cigar. Now I never smoke in the house but her friend is allowed to smoke in the front room. Just feel one law for some etc. Now i think after all the agro she is smoking. Found a packet of cigs I don't smoke in the house a few times. She says it she friends but it not her brand either
    This may be a bit of a stretch, but are they a trap? As in to see if you'll break? She can drop this smoking in the house rule, because you're not allowed to but the friend is exempt, so it's pointless. Also, allowing the friend to smoke in the house while you're trying to stay off them is very inconsiderate.


  • #4
    Ellsbells
    Closed Accounts Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Ellsbells


    It's also your house so why dont you lay down the rules about no among in the house.


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