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Question for Gay and Bisexuel Men And Women

  • 05-08-2012 2:07am
    #1
    gaelicred
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 630 ✭✭✭


    I have had relationships with both men and women I was married for 15 years
    Have a wonderful daughter. My girlfriend is also Bisexual.And she wants to have a threesome with a guy and a woman.I would prefer that we didn't i want to keep our sex life between us.But she keeps trying to pressure me into it.Any advice would be very welcome I dont want to break up with her because i love her


Comments

  • #2
    bodice ripper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    bisexual female here.

    my ex girlfriend didn't have any problem sharing me with other women. soon as we were talking about a man, boom, its over


  • #3
    stephen_n
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,920 ✭✭✭✭stephen_n


    If you don't feel comfortable with it you shouldnt do it, regardless of sexuality which isn't the issue here, your partner should respect that fact and leave it alone!


  • #4
    gaelicred
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 630 ✭✭✭gaelicred


    Thanks for the advice


  • #5
    MrAlex
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭MrAlex


    But here's another question for you. Did she loves you? Or..did she loves you enough to "cancel" this ideea when youre telling her your not too comfortable with?

    You said you love her, and you dont want to break up because of this... Loving someone doesnt mean to do things that you dont want only to avoid a break up.

    I'd suggest that you two guys to talk about this...and in the end you'll have an answer... maybe for more questions, not only for this problem.

    But remember one thing... Bisexual life isnt that easy at is appear. You are on two sides... you have to make happy both parts of your body: the straight and gay one. Aint that easy, you know...


  • #6
    supernature
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20 ✭supernature


    Sounds like it is early days for you folks in your relationship and you are both testing the ground with different things and ideas.

    You do need to talk about it and work out things slowly.

    Doing things you don't want to do never ends happily.

    Long term happieness & love require a lot of honesty & comrpomise. Though guessing after 15 years of marriage you more than know this.

    Good luck


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