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Should I or shouldnt I ?

  • 27-07-2012 1:54am
    #1
    SureYWouldntYa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,799 ✭✭✭


    Its a simple situation. I fancy a girl like mad, but of course she's just interested in being friends. One of my best friends also fancies her, not as much, but he's had a bit of luck with her. He's lucky enough to be bringing her to the Debs in a few weeks. Lately he hasn't been talking to her as much as he used to, and now she thinks he's gone off her. She confided that to me, but i got the sense she wanted me to say something to him. Should i be a good friend and tell him ? Or be selfish and not say anything ?


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  • #2
    Piliger
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,741 ✭✭✭Piliger


    Hi OP. It depends on how you feel about her and about him. Have you accepted your fate with her ? I can understand if you haven't yet. It hurts when this happens and doubly when a friend succeeds.
    If it is still hurting at all then I would advise you to stay well out of the situation. It is for them to sort themselves out and for them to talk about it.


  • #3
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    If she's confiding like that in you then she doesn't see you as a potential boyfriend.


  • #4
    Mc Kenzie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 470 ✭✭Mc Kenzie


    hey op,

    im with the other posters. be a good friend and tell him. he may not be that interested in her after all or if he is he will try and make things better with her. If you really feel something for her ..tell your friend you feel this way.

    But i do suggest tell your mate about the warning signs that this girl is worried before mentioning you like her,,,wait for his reaction. as people can be competitive if they know they no someone else is on the line. ;)

    best of luck


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